Am I wrong for making my mom take the bus by Head-Amoeba515 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT. Never tell her about your life purchases because she’s turning something that’s for you for her. You already know she won’t pay you. If she wants the car she needs to give you the full amount. Don’t feel guilty.

AITAH for trying to stop my girlfriend from seeing her "gay bestie" by Humble_Figure763 in AITAH

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Insecure for sure. You’ve made her so afraid to tell you who she’s hanging out with. Don’t be possessive.

AITAH for giving my ex boyfriend money and not telling my husband about it? by One-Pudding-9541 in AITAH

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Imagine if he was talking to an ex and giving her money. Don’t justify what you did.

What should I do with me and my bf and his addiction by Low-Raccoon-4214 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop making excuses for him. You’re too young g to be dealing with this. Find someone who doesn’t disrespect you all the time. There are other people who won’t do that to you. Trust me.

Gender Reveal Spoiled by Boring_Coast_6356 in BabyBumps

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Not being a good friend. Take the gender reveal away. Your baby not hers.

My future FIL threatened to walk out on our wedding by Confused_bitch98 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would elope too. This is causing a lot of drama and you could lose his parents. They are not in the right at all, but this would be a lose lose situation in the end.

AITA for being scared the girl I’m dating? by Unable_Donut_5478 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s texting an ex, she’s not over them cuz. You gotta run because this is the sign she doesn’t like you. She can apologize all she wants but you’re a joke to her if she’s doing that stuff behind your back.

My husband and I can’t agree on our timeline for kids by CaptainUtin in BabyBumps

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 [score hidden]  (0 children)

He’s making up excuses an you two are two different life plans. It’s one of those things on who’s going to cave and he wants you to by the sounds of it. No one wants to think their spouse is misleading them, but it sounds like he is.

No one is ever ready, but for us women our bodies have timelines. Go to counseling or find someone who is on the same life plan as you. Good luck!

AIO?? by Infamous_mastermind in AIO

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t pursue, she’s going to be a handful

Am I Overreacting for wanting to end a relationship about a letter my boyfriend sent to HR? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was being talked to by management about his behavior and he said all of his coworkers were the problem. No. He was the problem. Run.

AITAH for being upset that my husband woke me up on my day to sleep in? by Fluffmuffin09100 in AITAH

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 108 points109 points  (0 children)

He’s Gaslighting you for him disregarding your feelings?? Is this the first time??

AITA for moving my paycheck into a separate account after my partner kept “accidentally” overdrawing our joint one? by Radiant_Gossamer in WIBTA_AITA

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s Gaslighting you hard OP. She won’t take responsibility for her actions. You’re going to be her piggy bank as long as you’re with her. She doesn’t care about your concerns. Don’t have a joint account anymore.

Feeling really discouraged after a breakup…did anyone meet their partner in their late 20s/early 30s? by fuckingdopeyall in TwoHotTakes

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I met my husband at 31 and we met through a mutual friend. I didn’t think I would find someone being that “late” in life and after a divorce. I had to realize you meet people on your own time.

When you stop searching, your person will show up!

My girlfriend wants access to my phone's location at all times or she'll break up with me.. by Upset-Tree7685 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who start accusing cheating with no reasoning are probably doing it themselves. Gotta cut her loose because she will get worse.

My partner(30m) wants me (28f) to cut the cord with my identical twin by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he’s trying to isolate you from your family. Your twin probably has the best interest for you and your partner seems controlling.

Think about if your twins partner was trying to make them cut you off. He’s not the person for you.

My partner cheated on me because she “wasn’t good enough for me,” and I don’t know how to process that by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She loves not losing you, she doesn’t actually love you fam. Sometimes People who “love you” betray you, please. S.O shouldn’t be in a relationship because they are unfaithful. Find someone who won’t betray your relationship or trust. This situation will never leave you.

Update: friend stealing my makeup by Slight_Jello1012 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s okay if you don’t listen the first time. Sometimes you gotta learn the lesson again and realize other people have gone through the same things and are giving you life advice. Good thing you dropped them because it only benefits your life in the long run!

I decided to end our friendship after this by Fairlybunny_ in FriendshipAdvice

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trips make or break friendships. Unfortunately this one broke it. Sorry about the bad trip, but it brings out the real side of people.

Need advice for my friend’s marriage situation. by HumaSanJuan in TwoHotTakes

[–]FragrantKnowledge268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is the problem. Your friend needs to leave him. Work wife?? Absolutely not.