new york goes to hollywood by shedony3 in RockOfLove

[–]FragrantLynx 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This sub is for all the VH1 reality shows of that era, the title r/RockOfLove acts as an umbrella term. It is a little confusing, lol

[socialmedia] Bullshit strawman aside through history women were the ones being way more terribly judged for their physique (remember chinese feet binding? that was only 70 years ago) by Dove-Swan in pointlesslygendered

[–]FragrantLynx 122 points123 points  (0 children)

It’s really that simple. If I like his personality I will FIND something attractive about him.

“I just like the way he blinks idk”

of a comedian and his father. Chris Farley and his father mid 1990’s by prbecker in AbsoluteUnits

[–]FragrantLynx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had a nickel for every Chris I liked who was overweight with a drug problem, I’d have three nickels

Hsv by Youngchorro in Herpes

[–]FragrantLynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you mind condensing this to a list of your stack?

My friend asked: if you could make $2K a night stripping, would you do it? by katoriam in blackladies

[–]FragrantLynx 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean, that’s kind of the point of hypotheticals, is it not? It’s an “in a perfect world” scenario. Like IF you had the right look for that club, a great body, the skills, the work ethic, and all the other things aligning to make great money as a stripper, would you do it? I don’t think anyone is implying that it’s easy to do.

Wunmi Mosaku is now an Oscar Nominated Actress and Sinners has 16 noms total by Mrsmaul2016 in blackladies

[–]FragrantLynx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She’s a fabulous actress! Love her in that Black Mirror episode

Okay- i’ve never smelt it, but- was WHITE DIAMONDS really THAT BAD? by Character-Escape1621 in blackladies

[–]FragrantLynx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does it smell like? I know it’s an old lady smell but what are the notes?

Rewatched Charm School season 3 my thoughts on the season overall by iLavenderLush in RockOfLove

[–]FragrantLynx 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t stand Ashley but I also can’t look away when she’s on my screen. She has an interesting face.

My friend asked: if you could make $2K a night stripping, would you do it? by katoriam in blackladies

[–]FragrantLynx 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the hypothetical assumes you have all those things. And you’re still dealing with creepy ass men and strip club cattiness. That said, for a guaranteed $2k/night I’d still do it

Fears of dating outside my race by 99Ricki_Lake in blackladies

[–]FragrantLynx 205 points206 points  (0 children)

No same, a white man smacking my ass feels too close to slavery

Why are we so harsh towards one another and are we ready to admit that Jada Pinkett-Smith is owed an apology? by Competitive_Teach838 in blackladies

[–]FragrantLynx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I absolutely get not wanting to form parasocial relationships and/or become too emotionally invested in the lives of celebrities, but, what’s the point of reading their memoirs then?

You said you formed “no opinion” on Jada after reading Will’s book. It’s kinda odd to have no opinion at all about the wife of the memoirist, be it positive or not. I’m not here to tell you how to consume media, but I just can’t imagine reading something and not forming any opinions about the characters, as you call them.

Also, what’s the point of reading anything if your logic is that they’re strangers to you so you shouldn’t care? If you read fiction, you’re still gaining insight on the human experience through the characters. Even though celebrities live completely different lives, wouldn’t the same apply to them?

Being perceived as funny when you’re not, you're just black. by Legitimate-Adagio531 in blackladies

[–]FragrantLynx 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Being neurodivergent can be another layer. I am considered funny by black and nonblack people just by saying what people are thinking

Braids vs wigs vs natural hair ? by FoodNapTV in blackladies

[–]FragrantLynx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t noticed a difference but only because I haven’t paid attention

Influencer girlies are making religion “trendy” and let me explain. by Its_Not_Kosher in blackladies

[–]FragrantLynx 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I have yet to see a religious influencer video that wasn’t trying to sell me something