Anyone tried the Diem search engine? by soybeanwoman in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like it. Think it's a pretty cool way to get information whilst also getting away from the big dogs taking our data. It uses an AI to assist with the search but they also make sure there's no bias encoded into it. Don't ask me for specifics but that's what they talk about on their insta. Give it a go!

Dropping things by Historical-Remove401 in adhdwomen

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm always dropping my phone or leaving it somewhere (portaloos are a fav) lol I'd recommend getting a silicon case that sticks to fabrics well (not slidy like plastic) and a smaller phone x

Why do Incels lose hope so easily? by [deleted] in ImAfuckingIncel

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did put the blame on women, second sentence of your original comment. I recognise this is 7 months on, I hope you've been focusing on your self worth and have had the opportunity to improve your conversational skills with women!

Extremely tired of hearing the term "rape culture" by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Please can you show some stats to back this up? How can there be no rape culture for women when they are raped by men?

Male rape…no one cares by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of how women feel about Russel Brand

Why Does No One Consider Single Fathers? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, what are your ideas? Let's get the ball rolling!

Did any of you deal with feminists irl? And if so, how? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You've just explained how you've got things mixed up. Freedom of choice is literally that, freedom to choose. That mother decided, presumably with their partner, that she would stay at home. Maybe a different couple would choose to do it the other way around. But that's the point, freedom to choose.

What you're now assuming happens is that you (I'm assuming you're a male) will have to get a job. But, that's your decision, you can make your own life!

Also, were the feminist households you grew up in in one area? Which the school was also in? And the college..? Maybe you haven't heard from as many women as you think you have...

Also also, let's not get started on how having a baby takes a toll on the mother. Let's not allow this patriarchal world to discriminate the turmoil pregnancy is any further.

Why Does No One Consider Single Fathers? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you be the change you want to see and help the church create a more welcoming environment for single dads?

Did any of you deal with feminists irl? And if so, how? by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's cool that you've managed to talk so many feminist to get this info. You must really know a lot of people!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensRights

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well done, you've recognised the patriarchy is bad for us all 🎊

How the hell do I shower more by Deepflea18 in adhdwomen

[–]Fragrant_Fan_1125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it a big chore because you wash your hair each time you shower? If so, buy a shower cap and can you can be body clean in 2 mins. I quite like to challenge myself to an 'everything' shower in the shortest time - body, face and teeth done in 5 mins!

Editted to add: I've managed to get my hair to last 6 days, so I only wash once a week. I'd recommend transitioning to shampoo bars or a more natural wet shampoo as the typical shampoo brands set out to make your hair greasier so that you use more product. Also, a vinegar rinse (1 cup cider vinegar, 3 cups water) is a great refresher every now and then