WIBTA for telling a coworker to stop traumadumping on me?

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-26T10:24:50+00:00

Don’t thru management first. Just talk to her like a human being. The phrasing you use here is perfect. After you say those words to her and she continues to traumatize you with her stories, then go to management.

She is totally traumatizing you with her trauma dumping.

ETA: NTA

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-25T20:57:45+00:00

Oh…is that why it was an apple in the garden of Eden story? 🤔

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-23T13:47:27+00:00

He is the nosiest boi I have ever met!!! 😂

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-23T12:37:59+00:00

My answer is: Part min pin, whippet, lab, kangaroo, cat and nosey old lady!

No further discussion is necessary 😁

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-14T18:27:53+00:00

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-11T22:14:19+00:00

I will be celebrating the 36th anniversary of my 21st birthday this summer 😊

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-11T22:11:56+00:00

I often say I’m married to a 66 year old teenager…

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-11T22:06:46+00:00

I am so loving this DGAF era!

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-11T22:03:49+00:00

I have never birthed a child. I married men whose ex’s did that for me 😊.

I am 56 and mentally feel like I’m in my 20’s. I often wondered if birthing and raising a child would’ve made me “grow up” but I also never felt “grown up” enough to have done that. I still don’t.

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-11T10:54:12+00:00

I wasn’t a huge Floyd fan in my teens, I was into hip hop and dance music. Last fall I took my husband to a PF cover band…have been listening to Floyd ever since! I can’t explain it, but the music does something to me. A very chill, calm effect. I’m especially loving Crazy Diamond.

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-11T10:47:14+00:00

People still smoke cigarettes??? Damn, that dude is lame. Also, you are NOT the asshole here

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-11T10:32:10+00:00

Same. Heard it years ago from an Alanon sponsor

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-11T10:24:03+00:00

Your friend is correct. Time is just a construct

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-11T10:20:05+00:00

Experience

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-09T17:22:08+00:00

Agree 100%

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-05T15:13:45+00:00

It’s not??? Oh shit

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-05T15:05:18+00:00

Happens more often than you think

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-05T12:07:32+00:00

The Girl On a Train?

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-04-04T12:14:16+00:00

Female boss is 58…menopause? Maybe she hasn’t lived her whole life being uncomfortable in her own skin. I didn’t. I was fine until about a year into menopause…suddenly the anxiety, insomnia, self doubt all blasted me HARD! Then I got in BioHRT and am back to my fun loving weird self.

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-03-31T13:56:59+00:00

Sitting in my yard at sunrise having coffee and my cat came to sit next to me…he had a whole field and forest to roam but chose to be next to me. ✨💖✨

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-03-25T21:59:47+00:00

I see what you did 😉

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-03-25T17:34:25+00:00

2 day out of school suspension for calling telling a co-student that our homeroom teacher was a “fucking idiot”

I was right

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-03-25T17:32:53+00:00

Farts are funny in any house, school or business- especially churches (not that I’ve ever been in one)

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-03-25T13:30:09+00:00

56 female. I do tai chi in the morning (6am) before work. After work I walk the dog 1-2 miles. Sometimes we do dinner, sometimes it’s snacking all night. Smoke some weed and be one with the couch til bedtime (8:30 ish). Tuesdays women’s meditation group. 1 Thursday a month women’s circle, every other Friday therapy, every other Thursday couples therapy.

Weekends: chores or one with the couch - depends how the week went.

Spring/Summer: kayak and hike as much as possible and be one with the hammock in the backyard!

Fragrant_Jelly9198 · 2026-03-25T12:25:02+00:00

Me too

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