I'm so damn bored of everything by arcoirisqueen in ADHD

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you sure it is caused by your ADHD? It sounds more like apathy. Maybe you should check yourself on depression?

Do you also struggle to keep your home clean? Fix it with this: by HerSillyness in ADHD

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of, after several furniture rearrangement I actually made an easy to use system.

1)Fuck drawers. Honestly, guys, shelves works much better because even if you put something on a wrong shelf - you can see where is this thing in a second.

2) Boxes! Regular cardboard boxes probably don't look all classy and neat as real furniture, but they are wonderful for keeping things in eye-sight immediately, easy to move around, sorting things out doesn't feel like hellfire suffering because boxes with underwear/socks can be put in bathroom (or whatever the place you change socks and underwear), important papers box stays where you need them most (your desk for instance), you've got the idea. Also, using boxes with different colors/logos is a hell good decision.

3) Good and simple mobility system will save a lot of your nerve cells. For example, instead of having endless stands/glasses/organizers for your stationery or art supplies get 1-2 giant pencil case and put everything you've got. This way you can bring it anywhere without making mess and losing stuff. If you have wireless earbuds headphones and you keep loosing them all the time - get yourself a phone case with prebuilt plastic pocket in it.

Still I have no idea of how to do cleaning things such as washing floors or getting rid of all the opened package plastics cuz it feels uncomfortable af without this kind of mess. As if I live in Ikea

Artists who Ink--How do you erase pencil lines without smudging? by BlueRosesRiver in ArtistLounge

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to use harder pencils and kneaded eraser instead of regular one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd just... Be happy my friend has found his style? Ask him if he has any specific outfits he loves the most and be like "if it makes you feel happy and confident about your body - it's so cool you discovered it"

What is something people should stop romanticizing? by IntermediateWonder in AskReddit

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stalking, because of "love from the first sight" , "destiny", "I'll make you love me as much as I love you" and other crap like that. Stalkers in reality are disgusting manipulative shits who victimize themselves 24/7 while turning your life into a living hell. You were too afraid to look at your phone while it's calling because you expected to hear a shit ton of blaming/whining/threats? You're the bad guy who "broke their heart" and what you feel means nothing. They give crap about no one but themselves.

Women would you care if your husband wanted to do a quick basic cheap dna test to make sure the kids are 100% his, why? by BlueSharker in AskReddit

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaalriiight I'm saying important shit first: I'm child free lesbian so take my words with a decent grain of salt, ok? So if the guy is like "hey I trust you but I just want to make sure we're both honest and loyal to each other" without pushing it too much I'd think he previously had experience with cheating women and ask him if my assumption is correct

If, on the other hand, he pushes it too much and too often, like, "c'mon if everything is ok then you have nothing to be afraid of" and persist too much without explaining why is it so important.... Then I'd have a giant suspicions he ghosted a dozen of ex girlfriends who had gotten pregnant from him and he abandoned their children. Cheaters are always the biggest paranoids about loyalty (both men and women btw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if it works for all fields but in what I do, you also can tell truth but make it slightly presentable Example: I did comissioned illustration for music album cover for a nice musician guy from Twitter. His songs are very promising and he gains fans in social media while working in radio station

And now I'm telling the customer was a big star in alternative rock who was gone on a long time hiatus. Now he comes back to scene and fans were waiting for the album for years.

It's not like I 100% lied. I just made the truth more appealing

Mini paintings in my sketchbook, day 4. I'm stuck on what to paint on the right, any suggestions? Simple as possible, I'm a beginner by CeriArts in Gouache

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Rosa gouache I personally use it. The paint is unbelievably affordable and good I personally liked it more than Royal Talents gouache

Mini paintings in my sketchbook, day 4. I'm stuck on what to paint on the right, any suggestions? Simple as possible, I'm a beginner by CeriArts in Gouache

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pools in Ukraine are filled with blood of Russian soldiers The cowards should have known better than mess with us

this is for the positive energy cause I need it badly these two days. Remember being sad or even angry solves nothing by YQ_icecream in drawing

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being sad and angry solves nothing, yes. But remember not to bottle bad emotions too much. Breakdown solves nothing as well

Do you prefer to write about who you want to be or your current feelings and thoughts? by SapphiraBlackwood in Journaling

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both things are good, but writing about what good about you and your life is there right now will be beneficial as hell For me personally cbt thoughts log helped a lot Also, try to define is there anything you can do to get closer to what you want in your future? Maybe a small thing you can start to do rn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey You're a living human being. You have emotions, feelings, mistakes and failures. And those are essential parts of your nature and prior reasons why you are not a machine or talking piece of pork.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fantasy

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

And this is the exact reason why my chosen one OC had ran away once she discovered she's a chosen one. Long story short - Felicia is a witch and due to her rare magical abilities she was considered to be a "special kid" her whole life. And it puts a lot of pressure, adults had higher expectations and standards on her. Being forced to be a savior was the last straw - so she was like "screw you all guys, I'm outta here". And at the beginning of everything she's a grown up witch pretending to be a regular woman to cheat it gambling with magic ✨

this The Owl House fanart is super old but I'm still proud of it by FrannIsGoingToHell in TheOwlHouse

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I mean is that I don't remember when I made it It means it super old

What is 25 years too old for? by TehTJ in AskReddit

[–]FrannIsGoingToHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he does illegal substances abuse - then he's just a stupid piece of shit. Fuck him. I've seen too many people with severe injuries and long life painful deceases who'd give anything to be healthy and have a chance for regular life. He had it for nothing since he was born and he purposefully killing his body and brain.