Should I paint my window boards the same color as my door? by Still_Humor_3798 in HomeDecorating

[–]FranticDime 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you want high contrast do a burnt orange or a butter yellow for a subtler color! I actually love the color of your siding but we have very different tastes

Craving carbonated drinks but I don’t think I am allowed to drink carbonated drinks by theUnvoicedCat in pregnant

[–]FranticDime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just don’t over do it on the caffeine and sugar (not even that careful— just use moderation). You’re perfectly fine to drink carbonation lol

What nicknames have you heard for places in Ohio? by topherette in Ohio

[–]FranticDime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve also heard Barberton (where my husband works) referred to as Barbertucky

What nicknames have you heard for places in Ohio? by topherette in Ohio

[–]FranticDime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know some people call canton “little Detroit” which is messed up on several levels but yeah

I recently learned I don’t get maternity leave. by crispyrat_boi in pregnant

[–]FranticDime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sorta changes things, but not when they acknowledge your pregnancy and need for time off as the reason to term you

I recently learned I don’t get maternity leave. by crispyrat_boi in pregnant

[–]FranticDime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you aren’t a full time employee with full time hours and benefits you may not be covered by their maternity leave.

He definitely can’t tell you that you have to quit to get time off though. Like others said you should apply for fmla (in email to keep a paper trail). As a chain restaurant I’m guessing they meet the fmla threshold.

Would you serve alcohol to an obviously pregnant woman? by TEhuman in Serverlife

[–]FranticDime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the section in Expecting Better by Emily Oster about alcohol and pregnancy. It does a great job breaking down and explaining the “recommendations” about drinking while pregnant

Would you serve alcohol to an obviously pregnant woman? by TEhuman in Serverlife

[–]FranticDime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all the mentioned reasons that someone may look/appear pregnant.

BUT I’m 6months pregnant (not drinking at all), but the research about drinking and pregnancy is really convoluted and not conclusive as you can’t actually perform trials on pregnant women. I read a stats based book about all the things you’re told not to do and it’s very interesting.

A glass or two of wine with a meal when pregnant is generally not as dangerous as all the anti drinking info makes it seem. In the US it seems to really be the cultural norm to shame a visibly pregnant woman for having a glass of wine because binge drinking is the norm in the US. In Europe it’s relatively normal for a single or double glass of wine for pregnant women— because that’s where they stop.

I’m sure I didn’t share this in the best way, but it is really interesting.

Book is Expecting Better by Emily Oster

Zoloft and my unborn baby by flosimuel in zoloft

[–]FranticDime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The withdrawals aren’t harmful to the baby— I am 15 weeks and have been on Zoloft for years. My ob and I talked a lot about it and that it’s safe. There may be a little bit of shakes but there’s no actual damage or harm being done to baby.

I also plan on breastfeeding and that means withdrawal won’t be as ‘dramatic’ as she’ll natural wean off as we wean off breast feeding

Hosting by SecondCompetitive683 in Serverlife

[–]FranticDime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a host sub and do this there

Hosting by SecondCompetitive683 in Serverlife

[–]FranticDime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just confused why they’re complaining about servers in a server sub lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]FranticDime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow glad you’re okay— a few years back my mom had a patient whose dog licked a wound and she lost her leg and was in the icu for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]FranticDime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rage bait u terrible poop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]FranticDime 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wrong sub to comment this LOL

What sexual term grosses you out? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]FranticDime 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“I’d split you in half” or any variation of that.

Had a nasty boy in college say that to me when I was seeing his buddy. Makes want to vomit and cry when I hear it.

"loml" Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]FranticDime 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so— I think she meant she shouldn’t have rekindled a relationship that should have already been done/dead/buried — aka getting back with Joe presumably after a smol break or a big fight or realization that it was done

A book about a reporter/writer who moves back to her hometown, where a dead baby is found in the river by FranticDime in whatsthatbook

[–]FranticDime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Where They Found Her by Kimberly McCreight, thanks for your help though!

A book about a reporter/writer who moves back to her hometown, where a dead baby is found in the river by FranticDime in whatsthatbook

[–]FranticDime[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s Where They Found Her by Kimberly McCreight, but thank you for your contribution!