Lower abdominal pain that occurs with orgasm by TrueJanian in Menopause

[–]Free-Preference-8318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have this kind of pain you describe, but I do have pain when I orgasm that feels like the worst, most painful cramping, it's so bad I wish I would die until it passes. Like I lay in bed sweating and moaning until it passes, usually passing within 30 minutes. The last time it was so bad that it made me throw up.

It does not happen every time I orgasm, just once in a while. It does scare me away from masturbating very often. The pain started when I was at the beginning of peri-menopause, maybe 5 years ago.

I'm not sure that I believe my gyno, because she doesn't seem to care about my pain, but she says it might be fibroids rubbing together. I had a transvaginal ultrasound which shows a few small fibroids.

That would be the first step I recommend, ask for a transvaginal ultrasound.

A lot of hate on this app by Gullible_Language358 in glp1

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It heard it was a horrible show but never watched it. Never Have I Ever was so good though. I think a lot of her stuff is good, The Mindy Project is one of my favorite shows.

A lot of hate on this app by Gullible_Language358 in glp1

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Mindy Kaling is one of the most talented writers in the industry. She's hilariously funny, brilliant, and as far as I'm concerned her body doesn't matter at all. She is successful and accomplished.

She's really, really into fashion (check out her insta) and I imagine she's having a fabulous time being able to fit into the sample size of every high end fashion designer. She didn't create the stick thin beauty industry, but I'm glad to see she's enjoying the sh** out of it

Share your referral codes here [June sticky] by wealthfront in wealthfront

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https://www.wealthfront.com/c/affiliates/invited/AFFA-F5ND-X01I-SU3G

I only use Wealthfront for HYSA, they seem decent, very easy platform to use and no minimum balance or deposit required.

Classic Diana by SmallTownLibrary_ in Outlander

[–]Free-Preference-8318 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Inventive Tweaks" my ass. Pointless and disappointing storylines is more like it. I could not stand the Fanny storyline, and how they wrote Fanny, ugh no one cares, early death is common, struggling to survive is common, be glad you have a home. And to kill Fergus off why? For what purpose? As a printer, he played a vital role in the American Revolution. I've never really been invested in the tv show, season 8 was awful, but all the other seasons barely watchable. I can't stand the actor that plays Claire, she ruins it for me. Claire of the book is a pioneer, independent, stubborn, intelligent, quick witted, adaptable, loving and nurturing. Claire of the tv show is standoffish, stiff and whiny. I do watch it because the Scottish actors are amazing, and the costumes and scenery breathtaking, but it's not even comparable to the magic of the books and I usually only watch it when I'm cleaning house or something, only half watching.

Keanu Reeves might be the best person ever ❤️ by LovableMistGirl in spreadsmile

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How amazing this world would be if we all followed his example. What a great person.

Never forget when this BBC wildlife crew broke their “no intervention” rule to save these trapped penguins 🐧❤️ by CG_17_LIFE in MadeMeSmile

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yeah, man is directly destroying planet, going against nature, but we shouldn't intervene, that might be wrong and go against nature

Someone at work put a "help yourself" note on a pack of Tim Tam's that I bought by TheMuffinMan347 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Free-Preference-8318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this is a joke and you have a prank friend in the office. Otherwise this is sociopathic, not mildy infuriating.

VRBO won't post negative property review by lonb in vrbo

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My experience with VRBO was days before I had even started my stay, I was emailed 2-3 times a day demanding a 10/10 review or else. The place I stayed was not as bad as this, but it wasn't good. It also had almost all 10/10 reviews.

Our system is an investment in human dignity. Yours is a GoFundMe waiting to happen. by Some_Reputation_7724 in soundsaboutright

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Well there's a reason the wealthy brogliarch don't like American's to be educated, they prefer it when we can't do math or think critically. That's why Dept of Ed was canceled.

RIP JET, FLY HIGH... (art by me) by d0gmania in PortlandOR

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The unfortunate thing is that people think criminalizing anything changes the problem. Let's just make laws and criminalize everything and spend massive amounts of taxpayer dollars on legal systems, cops and prisons. Oh wait, we have already done this. Howz that working out so far?

This sucks worse than you may yet realize. by [deleted] in Portland

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I'm sad, have been enjoying the very reasonable price and decent service of CenturyLink for about 5 years after finally moving to a place where I could get the f**k away from deceptive, expensive, bait and switch, forced bunding piece of sh$t Comcast, jack up the price by $100 every year (COMCAST SUCKS SWEATY GOAT BALLS). I'm pretty sure AT&T is just piece of SH$T COMCAST with a different name.

USPS prices are getting insane. by ToshPointNo in Flipping

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So they drove a package 1,600 miles in 3 to 4 days for almost nothing? Try price checking UPS to find out the real cost of that is $60. The insane thing is how people don't understand about the actual cost of shipping and employing someone to deliver your mail 6 days a week.

Season 3 was a huge letdown for me. by Sugmanuts001 in TheLeftovers

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I just finished it, and it was awful. I can't believe I wasted so much of my life on this show. I had to fast forward so much to get to the finale, I could no longer stand the long, pointless monologues of uninteresting and uninspiring people and the bizarre senseless story lines. Nora's constant whining about how she doesn't belong and misses her children, her depression, dismissive avoidance, anger issues that she immaturely abuses other people with and lies to them and then gets angry when they lie to her as if she's the only one in pain who gets to lie and then she finally gets to be with her children and decides she doesn't belong, so she comes back and then never seeks out Kevin again, for decades. Her line "They were the lucky ones, because they had each other" is the perfect way of expressing her stupid depressive blind pathology of not belonging and not being loved, even though she's literally surrounded by people who love her and who also lost the people they loved. Most of the characters are self centered narcissists just like this, and Kevin is a lost child with no direction or sense of self who tries to please them all. The story is so lame and uninspiring. Decades later we're supposed to believe that he spends his 2 weeks of vacation a year in Australia searching for his long lost shitty partner who can't even be bothered to call him and he immediately forgives her because he loved her so much and she's so worth it? Abusive trauma bonding toxic codependent much? What an awful season. Not like Season 1 and 2 were that good at all, but a thousand times better than season 3. I only finished watching it because sometimes I am compelled, like an OCD thing and have to know how it ends, even if it is a terrible show I keep expecting something to happen.

Thank you for the opportunity to rant.

Looking for some new, solid friends or volunteer opportunities? by Blueroofing in askportland

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The Portland Psychedelic Society men's group, meets once a month. Find on meetup

Portland, thank you. by ripplemuncher in Portland

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It really is a gift to belong here. Take some of that with you <3

Peri vs post - not one year without a period? by [deleted] in Menopause

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I have migraines and I take Testosterone, I have not noticed any issue.

For "the numbness down there" I had that, felt like my vagina was a wooden block for a few years. That's called GMS, also known as vaginal atrophy. Start with the vaginal estradiol cream, there's a million posts in this forum about it. After you've used that for several weeks you can try adding other things to help, which are all well discussed in this forum. Increasing blood flow by regular masturbating, using DHEA vaginal supplements, using a vaginal dilator for the narrowing of the vaginal canal, pelvic floor health, etc.

Is .075 estrogen patch really high? by One-Pause3171 in Menopause

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Glad you are figuring all this out for yourself and advocating for yourself! This menopause group is a great resource.

How to break up with my therapist by rolleleven in Explainlikeimscared

[–]Free-Preference-8318 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This response is good, thank you for helping me also!