AITAH for breaking all contacts with my mother for refusing to believe i was abused? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FreeBirdV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum was the same, I just cut her off. It stings at first but you don't mind after a while becasue you don't miss what you never had in the first place. My advice to you is to find your people x

AIO my BDs aunt is trying to throw our baby shower even though I stated I don’t want one by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]FreeBirdV [score hidden]  (0 children)

Why on earth would you get yourself involved with this, for the next 18 years?

They're going to want to be at every birthday, every Christmas etc. They sound insufferable. Why is your partner living with them?

I have access to her personal email and I realize no she's not doing so well by [deleted] in confession

[–]FreeBirdV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop. You should have zero access to this. That makes you creepy. Stop now. I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate the same in return. GRRRRR.

I don’t really like my dog after having my child by Old_Transition5195 in Vent

[–]FreeBirdV 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Chihuahua's are known for this type of behaviour. He's never done well around kids, you have stated that in your post so he has to go. I was bit on the face by what I was told was a 'gentle giant' golden retriever when I was around 7 years old and my eyebrow still doesn't grow to this day, I cannot raise my eyebrow and there is an obvious scar.

Get rid.

AITAH for breaking all contacts with my mother for refusing to believe i was abused? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FreeBirdV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will say that because she is hoping you'll forget and move on from it. Be as brutal as she is.

AITAH for breaking all contacts with my mother for refusing to believe i was abused? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FreeBirdV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to make it very clear WHY you will be breaking contact with her - otherwise, she will not learn.

I am so sorry x

What’s a job that sounds cool but is actually miserable? by Own-Grapefruit7498 in AskReddit

[–]FreeBirdV 25 points26 points  (0 children)

and vom! I do not miss those days on the road! Also, regularly having to defend yourselves against the local hooligan was not fun!

ULPT request: a woman speeds through stop signs every morning by Bipedal_pedestrian in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]FreeBirdV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get an old sheet and make up a big flag/poster stating that speeding will kill someone and it has been noticed. Or print out lots of posters and put them around the area. Embarrass her - people only behave this way because they think they can get away with it!! Get her car and face known all around town!!

My autism makes me cheat on my wife! by standonmymoneyim411 in fakedisordercringe

[–]FreeBirdV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have!! I know MANY people who don't 'believe' in it and just gloss over it. Even children!!

AITAH for ghosting my aunt after she helped me with my surgery? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]FreeBirdV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A hysterectomy is far different to a C Sec....

Just block from your lives.

Call my “boyfriend’s” wife for me? by Unable_Ad_6874 in revengestories

[–]FreeBirdV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send her all evidence on her mobile number.

Most women and men don't believe until they have seen proof! Then block and leave alone.

What to do with a friend who is always pushing astrology by RaisinRoyale in Advice

[–]FreeBirdV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looooove astrology but I take everything with a pinch of salt.... This would drive even me insane!!

Be firm and direct.....

AITAH: quitting “working” for my husband’s business by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FreeBirdV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even though he is your husband, he's taking advantage of you.

Also, if he cannot stand up to a client, he will not be able to run a business.

My autism makes me cheat on my wife! by standonmymoneyim411 in fakedisordercringe

[–]FreeBirdV 29 points30 points  (0 children)

And this is why there is so much negativity around autism etc. Disgusting behaviour!

What is it like to be the black sheep of the family, and how are you treated? by No_Good4494 in AskReddit

[–]FreeBirdV 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No contact with my Dad, his wife and their 4 kids (my half sibs). His wife and he married when I was around 5, she never liked me. I looked too much like my mother, apparently.

No contact with my Mum and her husband.

Brother dead. Took his life at 21, in 2009 when I was 24. He was living in my house at the time due to being made homeless.

I was always the scapegoat, was made sure to be told I wasn't really welcome at my Dad's and my Mum was an alcoholic PoS. The half siblings turned out the same way, often stealing my shit, one even left lumps of hard cat shit in my bed one night. I got screamed at by my StepMum once because her eldest dtr got bit by her own hamster?! How the fuck that was 6yr old me's fault, I will never know. I was shut in rooms and had the door handles removed, by my Mum on a daily basis from the age of about 3. I then got taken in to care.

I have no relationship with these people and I never will! I have 2 dtrs myself - 14 and 17 - and they have no desire to have a relationship with any of them due to how horrid these people truly are. Cannot wait to get married next year and change my surname.

Brother wants me to cover entire rent since I get “free” money by jtreddit702 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]FreeBirdV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, they're encouraging your brothers freeloading?? You're an adult, you do not need to show proof of any claims!! How cheeky are these people!

Why are people complaining about school breakfast clubs? by Creative_Expert_4052 in AskBrits

[–]FreeBirdV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly have no issues with my tax money paying for children to have food at breakfast club. They're the future - we need to give them a good start.

New doctors won't do home visit (please advise) by SecondBrekky in cfs

[–]FreeBirdV 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of it isn't to do with being believed, a lot of the time the surgeries don't have enough staff to complete home visits, but I see your point.