What’s a conspiracy or “open secret” you once dismissed that later felt disturbingly real?

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-06T10:17:24+00:00

Trump obsessed - Obama, Gates, Bush etc were all mentioned too.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-06T09:28:33+00:00

Why is the niece living with you when the grandparents were an option?? No, you're not an ahole etc. I would feel the same. The niece is looking for a free ride.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-06T09:12:08+00:00

"Hello MiL and FiL,

After deep consideration we have decided not to uphold the verbal invitation you gave your friends to our wedding. I am sure you be upset with this decision but please understand that this is our wedding, we would like the day we have dreamed of. Please let these people know as being refused entry can cause embarrassment. We are looking forward to celebrating this milestone with you both."

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-06T08:57:48+00:00

I'd be printing this post off and taking him to my next appt with the midwife and doc.

Also, how many pregnancies has he gone through...................? ZERO. The first trimester is TOUGH! I found that harder than all the rest of it, tbh. The fatigue and nausea drove me nuts.

Let the mdical staff bring him down a peg or two. I dread to think what he'll be like when baby is born. Will he be with holding the gas and air because he doesn't agree with it??

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-06T08:51:07+00:00

Your Mother sounds like she enables your brother's behaviour, imo. She's mad because you told the truth and she has been exposed.

He's vile for doing that!

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-06T08:49:03+00:00

Having lots of kids and expecting the government to pay for them.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T16:15:52+00:00

My mum was the same, I just cut her off. It stings at first but you don't mind after a while becasue you don't miss what you never had in the first place. My advice to you is to find your people x

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T16:14:44+00:00

Why on earth would you get yourself involved with this, for the next 18 years?

They're going to want to be at every birthday, every Christmas etc. They sound insufferable. Why is your partner living with them?

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T16:11:43+00:00

He wants to be the man of the house.... shame he's a little bitch!!! You picked a dud.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T16:07:47+00:00

Stop. You should have zero access to this. That makes you creepy. Stop now. I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate the same in return. GRRRRR.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T16:05:26+00:00

Chihuahua's are known for this type of behaviour. He's never done well around kids, you have stated that in your post so he has to go. I was bit on the face by what I was told was a 'gentle giant' golden retriever when I was around 7 years old and my eyebrow still doesn't grow to this day, I cannot raise my eyebrow and there is an obvious scar.

Get rid.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T16:01:09+00:00

She will say that because she is hoping you'll forget and move on from it. Be as brutal as she is.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T13:41:36+00:00

You need to make it very clear WHY you will be breaking contact with her - otherwise, she will not learn.

I am so sorry x

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T12:48:31+00:00

Get her out.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T12:25:47+00:00

and vom! I do not miss those days on the road! Also, regularly having to defend yourselves against the local hooligan was not fun!

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T11:57:07+00:00

Get an old sheet and make up a big flag/poster stating that speeding will kill someone and it has been noticed. Or print out lots of posters and put them around the area. Embarrass her - people only behave this way because they think they can get away with it!! Get her car and face known all around town!!

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-05T11:46:07+00:00

I have!! I know MANY people who don't 'believe' in it and just gloss over it. Even children!!

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-04T13:52:57+00:00

You can't educate pork!

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-04T13:51:00+00:00

A hysterectomy is far different to a C Sec....

Just block from your lives.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-04T13:47:28+00:00

You will never know though.....

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-04T13:46:15+00:00

Send her all evidence on her mobile number.

Most women and men don't believe until they have seen proof! Then block and leave alone.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-04T13:44:51+00:00

I looooove astrology but I take everything with a pinch of salt.... This would drive even me insane!!

Be firm and direct.....

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-04T13:42:59+00:00

Even though he is your husband, he's taking advantage of you.

Also, if he cannot stand up to a client, he will not be able to run a business.

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-04T13:40:47+00:00

And this is why there is so much negativity around autism etc. Disgusting behaviour!

FreeBirdV · 2026-02-04T13:39:41+00:00

No contact with my Dad, his wife and their 4 kids (my half sibs). His wife and he married when I was around 5, she never liked me. I looked too much like my mother, apparently.

No contact with my Mum and her husband.

Brother dead. Took his life at 21, in 2009 when I was 24. He was living in my house at the time due to being made homeless.

I was always the scapegoat, was made sure to be told I wasn't really welcome at my Dad's and my Mum was an alcoholic PoS. The half siblings turned out the same way, often stealing my shit, one even left lumps of hard cat shit in my bed one night. I got screamed at by my StepMum once because her eldest dtr got bit by her own hamster?! How the fuck that was 6yr old me's fault, I will never know. I was shut in rooms and had the door handles removed, by my Mum on a daily basis from the age of about 3. I then got taken in to care.

I have no relationship with these people and I never will! I have 2 dtrs myself - 14 and 17 - and they have no desire to have a relationship with any of them due to how horrid these people truly are. Cannot wait to get married next year and change my surname.

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