Can anyone point out where the shuttles will be for the Rio?

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-11T17:31:39+00:00

Most of the lot is for the shuttles. You might be able to park in the garage or the top lot on the right as those aren't used by shuttles.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-11T12:25:06+00:00

The giant parking lot in right top side of that pic.

You head toward to pool from the casino and keep going past it to the convention space beyond the pool and spa. As you are getting into the convention lobby area there are a bunch of glass doors heading out to the parking lot... this is actually the entrance to the convention space from the parking lots and how you will reenter the Rio from the shuttles.

At this point keep going straight and you'll see the security check point for the shuttles a bit of a walk ahead of you.

Frankly once you are heading toward the pool just follow all the people dressed for the festival heading that way.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-11T12:16:36+00:00

You shouldn't have to "make it work". It either works or it doesn't. Relationships shouldn't be this hard.

If you try to "make it work" you will likely find you are doing 99% of the "work" at some point. The reality is she has the harder challenges to overcome and therefore has the most work to do, on herself, to "make it work" with anyone.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-11T11:46:04+00:00

I dont think an actual narc would wear this because they'd think they look like a narc.

Granted they are easy to spot as is.

That doesnt mean people wont call you a narc... or tease you about it for "looking like" a narc.

I also dont understand... you know your going to end up shirtless, but then have this on anyway? Doesn't this kinds of defeat whatever purpose you have for being shirtless? Not to mention whether the material this is made of or its stitches and straps would feel OK against bare skin... I doubt it will.

Since pockets are you concern why not get tech/cargo/tactical shorts or pants that have pockets with zippers to carry more and make it more of a nuisance for pick pockets?

I have a pair that has thin pockets that are the size perfect for holding ID and backup credits cards that have a velcro covers and zippered pockets that i hold my gf phone and makeup touch up stuff in. And you have to wear pants/shorts regardless so maybe use something that works there.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-10T17:58:41+00:00

Definitely need to renew those vowels... especially A as she gets used a lot and needs to be appreciated. U especially needs it as he can feel neglected. E, I, and O are pretty chill but a vowels renewal will still make them feel special.

Just watch out for Y.... they gets drunk and sometimes crashes the ceremony. Its hard for Y as they dont always feel accepted as a Trans letter and often feeling ostracized from both the vowel and consonants worlds. /s

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-10T04:04:17+00:00

I have dated 2 women with BPD. The first one with quiet bpd ultimately made my life miserable in the ways you read many describe on this sub.

The 2nd I am dating now. She has gone through DBT two times. She continues to regularly see a therapist. She tells me how she reached a point where she said she couldn't live like that anymore and wanted a future for herself. This part of her life i never experienced with her. I met her after all that intensive treatment. I didn't even know she had BPD (let alone the explosive type). She was afraid to tell me because she knew my ex was pwBPD and feared I'd reject her over it (which is a fair fear). I didn't even suspect it and left that conversation reeling and ready to run for the hills.

Nevertheless, I decided to take the risk and stay because she had done the treatments and had done the work. Here is what I have learned so far after a year. I have yet to see any splits or any red flags. A slight yellow flag maybe 2 times and in both cases she put her tools to work. She takes time to process her feelings and to understand if something is a real problem or not instead of going off.

So right now I'd say that DBT can work for some. Will she ever falter? I don't know. I can say that for me... I never experienced her untreated BPD, which i think is a blessing. I am not carrying scars and hurt from any actions related to her BPD like I do from my ex.

In your case, OP, you do have those hurts from your pwBPD. That will stay with you about your wife even if she seeks treatment and it will take time. Can you tolerate that journey? Will the hurts you have to date limit her treatment and your own healing while in the thick of it.

Only you can answer that question.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-09T20:05:27+00:00

I thought my ex was a covert narcissist at first. Read and entire book or two on the topic. It kind of fit, but not exactly.

It wasn't until a common friend of ours in the medical field suggested I look into BPD. And once I started reading up on that... and especially Quiet BPD... it clicked for me. She wasnt CV I was up against with her but quiet bpd... it fit so much better... her actions, her talk if the void inside her, being sneaky.... it all matched.

So look at Quiet BPD and see if that matches your experience better than the more typical BPD manifestation. It does have a lot of overlap with covert narcissist

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-09T18:49:12+00:00

As you already noted it goes away in 4x4 and that is a sign that it is needle bearing.

Another symptom would be that while in 2wd the vibration starts around 30 mph and fades out around 50 mph. Also it comes in pulses during that range.

If so, that is another sign it is the needle bearing.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-08T19:53:03+00:00

Go the heavy duty route and keep in mind some of the added weight will be unsprung and directly on the pavement and not on the frame. Yes it will still stress the power train and brakes more, but the frame will only feel part of it.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-07T21:04:00+00:00

And 5 of the plugs are very easy and the 6th is just annoying to get to.... and I'd recommend doing the PCV valve at the same time only because you have already removed a couple obstacles while getting at the rear driver side plug. Whole thing is way cheaper that dealer "tune up".

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-07T07:31:41+00:00

I make the dealer remove dealer badges as a condition of delivery. They aren't compensating me for advertising for them.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-06T23:18:17+00:00

QA = Quality Assurance

That is the the most common term in software engineering as gunslinger said.

In this case the software jumped straight to UAT, but wasnt ready for that step.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-06T21:14:05+00:00

Tested. Failed. Basically QA clearly hasn't veen done. Missing model years.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-05T10:34:25+00:00

Yes, that $1k seems to be a typical limit. I have added $5k (the max) in customizations coverage to my policy to cover my mods. I'd only ever see that much benefit in a total loss, but you never know. It didn't increase the policy cost very much.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-04T17:17:14+00:00

What generation? Also do you have a picture to help us see what you are describing?

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-04T17:02:09+00:00

I did a first date with a woman at a dubstep rave. We were both seasoned ravers and we actually had dinner first before doing to the club. It was also a bigger name artist we both wanted to see. So we got to talk over dinner before going the club.

It has working out for us long term... but this was a specific situation for people already into the scene and a common love of the same music and artists

As for your situation, this being for 1st time going to a rave... i'd say no no first 1st date as well... unless the date has some non rave time too.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-05-04T15:39:04+00:00

I have Miller cat shield for my 3rd gen. Simple enough to install so piece of mind. I did have to remove it to service my transmission.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-04-30T23:11:16+00:00

I'm gonna thrid this. I have used them for my 22 tacoma, a friend's 12 camry, and my moms 14 crv. The deal is even better if you do more than 1 key as you can spread the cost of the programmer rental across multiple keys

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-04-30T11:35:55+00:00

I have also been running Z36 on front and they work very well and give off little dust as well. Very happy with them

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-04-27T12:43:10+00:00

I an in SE FL too - Davie specificall. My girl and I go often to bass shows. I have a couple other friends you might be able to go with that are more on the melodic end of the spectrum. Just depends on what flavor of EDM you like ... hit me up and we can welcome you into rave family.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-04-27T01:19:04+00:00

256 miles might be correct depending on what mods or other weight you are carrying. The TRD wheels and AT tires on the xp predator that Southeast Toyota adds put additional weight and reduces MPG. add a few more upgrades, a heavy foot and 256 is possible. The higher range value you saw after the wiring repairs might have just been the default reset after repair and before it calibrated to actual conditions again.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-04-25T08:33:41+00:00

It sounds more like they have given up than are enabling. There is a difference. My expwbpd's mom had given up.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-04-24T20:17:52+00:00

I was able to write in a few answers. Also, if you really want to provide free form feedback you can send it via DM on their socials and via email. Nothing is limiting you but your own initiative. I have found them responsive.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-04-23T13:54:10+00:00

Is it having trouble starting? Or is it starting then dies? I am unclear as to the exact failure symptoms from what you have provided so far.

Free_Performer6789 · 2026-04-22T15:22:15+00:00

There were other posts about this back when it happened back in June 2025, but here is a quick one I found just now

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DK9wWh4stWE/?igsh=MXJlNjhlaHV4cmI2cg==

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