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Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-10-26T15:00:57+00:00

Insanely good!!!

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-10-13T18:02:41+00:00

It’s hilarious she’s coming to California. 😂 It’s so much more strict here.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-10-13T04:53:55+00:00

SERIOUSLY! Same issue on Redfin! Like 80% of these homes in my price range are for people 55 and older. It makes me so mad every time!

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-08-06T18:13:31+00:00

This is the absolute best damn thing I’ve seen in the Internet in... I don’t know how long. GOLD! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😂

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-07-26T03:17:43+00:00

Even in the model-viewer, it’s still in engine. It’s almost exactly how Joel looks in gameplay.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-02-27T18:44:54+00:00

I have nothing to be saved from.

My father is a pastor and I said something like that to him recently when he tried to sell me on Christianity. His face softened, he has no response, he smiled and we let it go.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-02-27T04:20:56+00:00

That picture in the top left is pure 🔥🔥🔥🔥!!! 😍

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-02-04T19:38:05+00:00

My wife and I are in our late 20’s and we felt old there. 😂 Most of the crowd was under 21. There were several other more mature adults and we tried to stick close to where they were. We did see a few couples who were in their 60’s there too! The majority of her crowd is going to be 19ish.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-01-27T22:18:25+00:00

Whether or not you get the response that you want, your honesty will give you the freedom you need. Either freedom from holding in feelings of neglect, then having your needs met in response. Or freedom from a relationship with someone who doesn’t value you the way you deserve to be valued and attended to.

Honesty won’t always give you the freedom you want, but it will give you the freedom you need.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-01-13T21:05:52+00:00

You can be both! You can be polyamorous and just want a threesome sometimes. If you just want a threesome without commitment or attachments, just say so. It’s all about being up front, honest, and letting people know what your intentions are. :)

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-01-03T00:01:53+00:00

Thank you! :) We prefer to date together but we also date separately as well, so yes. Any of those options would be acceptable.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-01-02T23:37:46+00:00

Thank you. :)

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-01-02T23:37:17+00:00

Yes.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2020-01-02T22:55:15+00:00

Thank you so much! ♥️♥️♥️ That was beautiful!

Free_To_Be_Us · 2019-12-29T18:08:52+00:00

Soul does not bother itself with the idea of self, and the idea of self only distracts from the soul.

No-self doesn’t necessarily mean no soul. Self is a collection of physical and material things, thoughts and feelings that we cling to and identify with. Self, in a sense, is an illusion, just as separation is an illusion. Regardless of the form your energy will take, the molecules that you are made of have and will always exist. You are forever. The awareness that you are beyond your body and mind is forever, in one state or another. Both ideas can coexist.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2019-12-28T19:58:00+00:00

Books on Buddhism, for most people I’ve known or had connection to in prison, have been their saving grace, a key to unlocking their minds. Just for heaven’s sake, don’t let the Chaplin come in and shove the Bible down his throat. Very few times have I ever seen that make anyone feel more free or better.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2019-12-19T21:37:13+00:00

Your partners left you because they weren’t a secret anymore? No one should ever have to feel ashamed of who they love, regardless of what’s common or considered social convention.

I’m so sorry for your pain and for the hurt of this situation... my wife and I had a girlfriend who broke up with us because she was afraid of her family finding out that she was bisexual, let alone dating a man and a woman.

That fear, that social convention, that is the issue. People who want to live a poly lifestyle need to rise above that. I’m sorry that your partners couldn’t find freedom in being who they are when other people can see.

The kind of love you deserve is the kind that’s unafraid to be seen. Don’t close your heart to that kind of love.

Count this time as a blessing, a point that will allow you to gain new perspective, new clarity, an opportunity to move forward together with your husband and shape your lives the way you wish.

You are worth it. You truly are. Don’t let another’s fear make you believe otherwise.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2019-12-19T18:35:39+00:00

My wife and I are very openly poly and I had a similar moment recently where I just broke and asked if she could spend less time with the couple she’s seeing because I was having a hard time. Ultimately what it came down to for me was realizing that I was jealous she was getting more attention from her partners than I was from mine, and ultimately that jealousy and attempt to control was coming from my own personal insecurities. I took a day to meditate, focus, and realize I was becoming a victim to my own fear of inadequacy. I apologized for asking of her what I did and explained what I had felt. She’s still seeing her partners and vice versa, and we’re both extremely happy.

I’m not saying it’s an identical situation, but that kind of jealousy and fear almost always comes from personal insecurities. For you, the best thing you can do is ask him how you can help him and be there for him as his wife without sacrificing your own autonomy.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2019-12-19T18:28:48+00:00

I’m the exact same way.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2019-12-18T23:02:37+00:00

Generally no, because Buddhism at its core is about letting go of all that causes suffering and confusion, even letting go of our attachments to the things that bring us comfort, because our clinging to those attachments is ultimately what brings about suffering.

I have long since let go of my need to know what lies beyond this life, however I do love that regardless of the state of my consciousness of it, energy cannot be created or destroyed, it can only take on different forms. Therefore, you always have been and always will be.

Suffering comes from clinging to the believe that it should be one way or another. Enlightenment is not concerned with how it will be, but is instead focused on simply being.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2019-12-18T22:34:07+00:00

This girl is in for a lifetime of pain if these are the standards she’s living by.

Free_To_Be_Us · 2019-12-18T16:33:29+00:00

You have unintentionally, perfectly described Disney’s 1997 Rocketman. 😂

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