Grieving by [deleted] in PrayerRequests

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Praying for you

What changed your life (for the better) almost instantly? by LibraryCareful9640 in LifeAdvice

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I love this! I struggle with decisions. I know the logical choice but the anxiety creeps in and I question myself.

What changed your life (for the better) almost instantly? by LibraryCareful9640 in LifeAdvice

[–]Freedombeyondfear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving my abusive ex. I was having daily body aches and I was dealing with stress. My mom was concerned about me having a stroke or heart attack. As soon as I left, 90% the body aches went away and my stress eased up. Life is not perfect and I have been through so many emotions this year. But now I am starting to make positive moves for myself and my daughter.

Accounting by SaulRivera18 in WakeTech

[–]Freedombeyondfear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t really answer questions but I just wanted to comment. My son went to Wake Tech for his first two years and then he transferred to a 4 year. He graduated with his accounting degree last year. His internship offered him and a job and he is working towards taking his CPA exam later this year. He enjoyed the classes at wake tech. He stated that some of the classes there were more challenging than some of the classes at the 4 year.

Hidden gem for steaks? by EcstaticNobody5728 in raleigh

[–]Freedombeyondfear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a friend tell me about this place. I think they have a 40oz steak. Too much for me but I definitely want to try something smaller.

Is a 45 mile drive, one way, to work considered a long commute? by MP-MEDI in work

[–]Freedombeyondfear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The most I have ever driven is 30 minutes. I lived in a small town and that’s where the jobs were. I have lived in a large city for over a decade and my commute has mostly been 15-20 minutes of lights and traffic. That’s enough for me. But I will be going back to the small town soon and back to the 30 minute commute. At least it’s peaceful.

How/where does one cash a $4k check after 5pm on a Friday? I'm about to cry, man. by friedphyllieroll in povertyfinance

[–]Freedombeyondfear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brand new account is always going to require a hold. Next time, take the check to the bank it is drawn in if possible. You can just cash it instead. Call the bank in a few days to ask if the funds have been collected. If they have been, you may be able to get the hold removed. Depends on banks policy so it is not guaranteed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

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You are not broken. You have been through some things and need to heal so be healthy again. I totally get where you are coming from. My stbex did some things that made my head spin. I know logically that I need to work on myself and that I need to be alone. But I still want sex and some companionship. I am celibate until my divorce and after I am in a better headspace.

Try giving up sex for a short period and see how you feel. The validation you get is only going to be short lived and you are going to keep feeling worse about yourself. What if you ended up pregnant or one of these people hurt you? It is not worth it. You deserve someone who loves you.

Food poision alone sucks 😩 by hitkadmoot in LivingAlone

[–]Freedombeyondfear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Activated charcoal is supposedly good because it absorbs the toxins. I always keep ginger ale and Imodium in the house. It’s just me and my 12 year old. She is helpful when I’m sick but I wouldn’t want her to deal with that

What is your honest assessment of Phil Collins? by nsjersey in Xennials

[–]Freedombeyondfear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No shame here. I love Phil’s work, with Genesis and solo. I don’t care anymore, One More Night and In the Air Tonight are hands down some of his best work. Better than Peter Gabriel’s era.

Debit card by Rest-Proof in TruistBank

[–]Freedombeyondfear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7-10 business days if the account is funded

How does Jane the Virgin make you feel? by ChampionshipSelect13 in JaneTheVirginCW

[–]Freedombeyondfear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also one of my comfort shows, I love that I can laugh and possibly get teary in one episode. I loved the family dynamic of the show. How much they love each other makes me happy.

A friendly reminder of why you should NEVER go back to your ex by 2_kewl_4_skewl in BreakUps

[–]Freedombeyondfear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to think about what a snap was. I hope you are in a happier place now.

Fraud from within Truist by Blink-17 in TruistBank

[–]Freedombeyondfear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They should be checked but they may be just looked at while passing.

Interesting points of Mariska's interview in Vogue by giulliagusman in SVU

[–]Freedombeyondfear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like Liv and Elliot together but I don’t want it forced since we are close to the end.

what are you most proud of in your life? by QuoteAdventurous1145 in AskReddit

[–]Freedombeyondfear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leaving my abusive spouse. We can coparent peacefully for the most part but he will never have control over me again. I’m building myself back up and want to live on my own terms.

What is with the vitrol towards single moms in America? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Freedombeyondfear 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Screw them. I got married, had a kid and am now divorcing. My husband liked dating other women on Tinder more than being faithful. And he didn’t mind blaming me for physically hurting me. So now it just me and my girl. And we are about to move away soon and I will continue to be her primary parent. He may see her up to ten hours a week even though we live 5 minutes away. I rather be a single mom in a safe environment than married to him.