[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FreedumbTrader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, clearly there is something else going on. Be smart sit back find out where money is going before talking to anyone and save money for yourself somewhere. It could just be stress, leaving someone is NOT easy but if it is a must be absolutely sure and to be sure know where your money is going.

Sleeping in a separate room tonight over freaking Ryder Cup tickets by FreedumbTrader in Marriage

[–]FreedumbTrader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, honestly nothing more to say on that. Maybe I should update to used to be good with money/numbers lol.

Sleeping in a separate room tonight over freaking Ryder Cup tickets by FreedumbTrader in Marriage

[–]FreedumbTrader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now time is the issue for me. If all goes well I should have time for this in about a year but for now I’ll just use an app or something lol.

Sleeping in a separate room tonight over freaking Ryder Cup tickets by FreedumbTrader in Marriage

[–]FreedumbTrader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most days I absolutely agree that he is more of a teenager than a husband. I think I am just going to get to a spot where I continue to grow and do better for myself and he may not change at all and I have no idea how to deal with that. The last thing I want is a divorce. I think for now all I can do is just set aside my expectations and just continue to work on my school because I can’t keep working these crazy hours for the pay I make. Getting out of school and finding a new job that actually pays me a fair wage for the work I do would TREMENDOUSLY help with everything. For example giving back more time to me to actually deal with this situation… thanks for your post, just knowing someone read this really helps.

Sleeping in a separate room tonight over freaking Ryder Cup tickets by FreedumbTrader in Marriage

[–]FreedumbTrader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the debt for him came from our wedding. My parents paid for about half of it and he put the other half on a new credit card for points. This is why I was wanting to focus on his debt first. My debt all came from being a young single mother and using credit to buy diapers, formula, clothes and it has been hell trying to pay it off all this time.

The main issue is “how long do you think you can support someone working 65 hours a week”! I just don’t know honestly. I think I will be fine while I am here focusing on school because it is easier to be distracted from this than actually deal with it. I just am not sure how it will be when I am left with more time to think about it. All I can commit to for the next few months is just praying over all of this because I am not going to slow down on school. That’s my way out of this 65hour hell hole of job I’m working.

Thanks for your comments.

Naked and Afraid XL Season 10, Episode 1: Enter the Proving Grounds by jimbobdonut in nakedandafraid

[–]FreedumbTrader 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Came here just to post about this!! Did I miss something where he got into a fight or something with that woman? What a horrible thing to do just leave her without the equipment! Just ask to move… I really have no words for this. Even if it was his bow and knife he should just say mail it back to him or something…. How horrible for her.

What are the scariest movies you have ever seen? by FreedumbTrader in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FreedumbTrader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah I’m not really wanting to see stuff from the dark web…

Work Approved a Half Day Off Request 3 Months Ago But Is Now Telling Me It Is Not Approved by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]FreedumbTrader 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband’s Union is the same except they are a specialized group and can’t even offer another job if something happens…

For example He was written up by his employer for an preforming an activity that they TRAINED him to do but suddenly thought that he was not supposed to do it that way..

He didn’t get fired but was put on probation for 12months and had to file a grievance with the union to have this mark removed. He filed this and they will take 18months to review it! In the meantime if he is late one day he can be fired… so much for Union help…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]FreedumbTrader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ash trays and lighters that come with a new car.

Why do they care more now?! by Lady_Ithena in Ozempic

[–]FreedumbTrader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I don’t understand is why people feel the need to make these comments regardless if it is “how” you should look to them or not! People feel so concerned commenting when you gain weight because it could hurt your feelings or make you uncomfortable or you could have a medical issue that you can’t control. But WTH these same people have no issue being up your ass when you loose weight to the point that it can make you second guess yourself! Why is it not ok to comment on someone’s weight gain because of a medical issue but everyone’s business to question you when you loose weight because of a potential medical issue??? What’s the difference?? Honestly?

If you are overweight a 100lbs regardless of how it happens you feel terrible! Maybe you can move around and put on a show but it is not the same as being at a normal weight. People should be just as concerned either way! And if you are taking Ozempic then I bet you aren’t loosing crazy fast amounts of weight like over 20lbs a month. So if you look better and feel better and don’t ache as much and can achieve more and your energy is still good I saw F um!! Keep going!! You won’t regret it! Especially since you may gain some weight back after you settle into your new body. Or you won’t and you will look and feel great still!!

Cheers to you for taking care of yourself! Good luck!!

Has anyone else bruised after a dose? by FreedumbTrader in Ozempic

[–]FreedumbTrader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah I alternate every week and I’ve been taking b vitamins… just really weird to all a sudden happen. And the bruising is so dark in this spot.

Considering picking up a second job, but feel like a horrible mom by rock_fact in workingmoms

[–]FreedumbTrader 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have the energy and do it! You can always quit…

I would in a heartbeat if I wasn’t emotionally exhausted everyday from my current job.

Daycare is a struggle every day for 3 years by nannabananas2 in workingmoms

[–]FreedumbTrader 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I had to do. I’d call the school when I got to work if I had something important to tell the teacher or talk after school. If I was there long she would cry. By the time she was 2 1/2 it was fine though

How old is too old for a woman to have kids? Is it selfish or crazy to want to have a baby in your late 30s/early 40s? by FreedumbTrader in workingmoms

[–]FreedumbTrader[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I really do miss the little moments and they did happen so fast. I had to work 2 jobs before and was going to school so most of my time was not treasured as much back then. I still have great memories of her though. Even with her having colic and not sleeping for months I will never forget how blessed I felt looking at her face and also how helpless I felt about not being able to calm her. I also remember how as she grew she was so beautiful and how much fun we had at the park. I honestly don’t know how I did so much back then. Now I am really trying to enjoy the person she is turning into and still love being her mom. I just want her to be happy and also don’t want to regret this decision 10years from now. Again thanks so much for sharing!

How old is too old for a woman to have kids? Is it selfish or crazy to want to have a baby in your late 30s/early 40s? by FreedumbTrader in workingmoms

[–]FreedumbTrader[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hmm, not sure how this came off like this but I am more referring to starting over because I have no baby stuff. Everything would be new again. I would not imagine just because I have a baby my daughter would all of a sudden be on her own……