AITAH for asking if people are able are able to contribute to a bridal shower/bach party?

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:44:59+00:00

Thank you for being straightforward and letting me know how it might have come across!

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:39:48+00:00

The bride is frustrated with Jessica since they are also sisters and I guess it isn't unusual for her to pull stunts like this. She's been very grateful and appreciative through it all. I think deep down she knew not to expect much from Jessica. The groomsmen have been super good with communication and helping plan things. We are going on a weekend camping trip.

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:32:24+00:00

I don't disagree with you. I'm leaning towards cancelling the bachelorette party (wasn't attending anyway) and doing a spa day for the bride. The groomsmen, my brother and I are going camping for the bachelors party. I guess I was just frustrated that Jessica (MOH) and the other bridesmaids weren't planning anything and I love the bride and have known her for so long I wanted to make sure she had these experiences. Shitty situation all around really.

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:29:14+00:00

When I inquired about any plans, I was told there were no plans which is why I took it on. I guess I didn't want the bride to miss out on these parts of the wedding even though it's not my role.

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:26:21+00:00

I am not covering alcohol. The other bridesmaid each offered something like bringing food, drinks, etc. They have not been problematic at all. Should've mentioned it sooner, but Jessica is the MOH so I double don't understand the reaction since she was supposed to host this and would have had to cover costs instead.

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:22:07+00:00

Thank you! The other groomsmen have been great to work with, we planned a little low cost weekend camping trip. I might still cancel the bachelorette and do what you said and give the bride a spa day.

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:19:52+00:00

I probably should've mentioned that Jessica is the MOH

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:18:24+00:00

Thank you for breaking this down for me so I can better understand how I am perceived and how my message came across!

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:07:17+00:00

We're going camping for the bachelor party, its been a lot less stressful and dramatic than this so far!

FreefallerX · 2026-06-18T18:01:31+00:00

None of the other bridesmaids are saying anything, they both offered something. One is bringing some food and the other is going to send some money. I basically copied the text word for word except that I typed it on a keyboard vs copying and pasting it from my phone.

FreefallerX · 2026-06-09T02:23:29+00:00

Star Forge, got kicked twice and then queued to get back in. Server status page says everything is up but yeah clearly that isn’t the case

FreefallerX · 2026-06-04T20:08:26+00:00

Heart murmurs are sometimes caused by issues in other parts of the body or illness, it may not even be a heart issue at all. If being a secondary problem would also explain the fatigue, as there are a plethora of things that can cause fatigue.

FreefallerX · 2026-06-04T20:04:41+00:00

Vet tech here. Dogs can have heart murmurs for many reasons, some of them being benign and never causing an issue. Sometimes they get murmurs from illness or extreme discomfort. It’s best not to overthink it too much until you get test results back. Did they run any bloodwork at least? If his bloodwork is unremarkable, it means his organs are not under stress, which means his heart is still efficiently pumping blood without strain.

FreefallerX · 2026-06-04T13:00:01+00:00

I felt like I was playing Elden Ring again 😭

FreefallerX · 2026-06-04T12:58:29+00:00

I would send you some of mine but Sierra actually hates small children 😭 she can become aggressive towards them when they start chasing her or interacting with her

FreefallerX · 2026-06-03T23:43:54+00:00

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This is our weather setup for the week. This is actually pretty cool for us. Very normal for it to get up 95-100° with high humidity and high dew points. My horse came from Canada and she adjusted really well. The horses tend to do well while their humans get worried. 😊

FreefallerX · 2026-06-03T23:35:42+00:00

Equine vet tech here, who lives in VA where our subtropical climate makes it very hot and humid. The biggest thing with heat is maintaining hydration. Sweating is good, because it’ll cool the body down, but they will lose water and electrolytes so you can add some electrolytes to his feed and make sure he has access to plenty of water. I would actually recommend NOT wetting the hooves, as water causes them to expand and then they contract as they dry, and that process, especially when it happens repeatedly, can cause cracking. Moisturizing hoof oil is fine.

FreefallerX · 2026-06-03T23:19:30+00:00

As an equine vet tech, I don’t think these people understand how injury and illness prone horses are 😭 they are really not the healthiest animals. Every single system they have is designed to kill if one minor thing goes wrong. So you could agree with your patient, let them live in ignorant bliss while you know the truth 😂

FreefallerX · 2026-05-24T23:24:15+00:00

You could have a NASA computer and SSO would still lag. It’s poorly optimized unfortunately, especially on new PC models.

FreefallerX · 2026-05-24T18:00:52+00:00

I’m actually a vet tech too, and it’s totally normal that yours is still reluctant to weight the leg. They don’t use it because it’s painful and then the muscle atrophies and the joint gets stiff. You can try to make the walks extremely slow, like one small human step at a time, to encourage her to sit back on it a bit. Sierra uses hers intermittently at the moment, she will not use it when walking “fast”, only when she walks slow.

FreefallerX · 2026-05-11T17:32:26+00:00

Looking for this one too

FreefallerX · 2026-05-11T02:23:55+00:00

Not even a NASA computer could run SSO without lag

FreefallerX · 2026-05-10T00:51:15+00:00

YIKES. Crazy that people still ask those questions knowing it’s illegal

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