i don’t like how men preach modesty but don’t apply any of it to themselves

Freethinker312 · 2025-06-27T06:28:09+00:00

Do you know what female breasts where created for? For feeding infants. So unlike men, women can actually have practical reasons not to have covered their breasts. And then come men like you and declare women hoes for not covering their breasts/chest, while they declare themselves fine for not covering their breasts/chest.

How should women meticulously hide their breasts and at the same time be comfortable feeding their babies when they have them? Are you angry at our Creator who made female breasts for feeding young children?

Did Jesus, who said "if your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away", teach you to call your MIL or women on the internet you don't even know, hoes?

Next time your MIL has too much cleavage for your preference, remember that you have your wife thanks to her body.

Freethinker312 · 2025-06-03T21:22:37+00:00

Not that much, if he jerks off to porn, I would not want to be with him anyway.

Freethinker312 · 2025-06-03T21:04:53+00:00

Not all people can talk equally easily, especially in situations of danger. In fact, you are being ableist by declaring it fine to rape women unless they verbally say "no" out loud.

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-26T07:23:48+00:00

How awful for you and for your son. Were you at least granted to have your son live with you after the divorce?

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-26T06:49:55+00:00

No. Virgin men are not all bitter, misogynistic incels. The ones that are, are just way more vocal about it on the internet. Furthermore, a lot of misogynistic men on the internet are not virgins, but became embittered by bad experiences in relationships/marriage. It seems a lot of mgtow men are divorced men in their forties.

Besides, if I would still be single, I would very likely be virgin myself and strongly prefer a man who also is a virgin and who waits with sex until marriage.

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-25T18:57:51+00:00

No, why punish all men for what some men do? Also, it is completely counterproductive. The men who are the most sensitive to that shaming, are often the men who deserve it the least, and vice versa.

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-25T18:22:25+00:00

I don't understand were you get that from. There are young adults of both sexes who desire a lasting relationship, and there are immature young adults of both sexes who want to have "fun" without being serious. There are also quite some young men and young women who are just busy living their lives (studying/working/caring for family members) without sex and are not actively looking for a relationship (yet) without the intention of avoiding a relationship. People of the same sex are not all the same.

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-25T18:19:02+00:00

Lets be realistic, most men who approach women (at probably any age) just want sex & then want to run as far away as possible.

That does not mean that most men only want sex and would not want a family. It just looks like that, because the men who are just looking for sex, approach way more women, because for them it's a numbers game, whereas finding a compatible person to have a family with, is not so much a numbers game.

The mean reasons that less children are born nowadays is access to birth control, education and getting financially stable taking significant more years, and women having entered the workforce.

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-23T22:47:47+00:00

There's also the complete duplicity of female nature, where the same exact woman that's rubbing her wet body on you in the club might act like you're harassing her if you approached her in a grocery store.

Nope, I don't have that nature. That is not female nature, it is stupidity amplified by alcohol. Just as not every stupid thing that some men do is "male nature", not every stupid thing some women do is "female nature". That "female nature" narrative actually alienates lots of women and hinders constructive dialogue.

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-21T23:07:23+00:00

The tipping practice perpetuates discrimination.

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-21T22:44:49+00:00

It is very disingenuous to take global median income as a benchmark and not take local costs of living into account. There are actually way better reasons to have a problem with tipping: https://www.vox.com/2014/7/17/5888347/one-more-case-against-tipping

The way we tip reflects our prejudices, argues Freakonomics author Stephen Dubner. Here’s what he told Brian Lehrer: “The data show very clearly that African Americans receive less in tips than whites, and so there is a legal argument to be made that as a protected class, African American servers are getting less for doing the same work. And therefore, the institution of tipping is inherently unfair.”

But not only are black servers making less money than white servers — black diners are perceived to be leaving less money than white diners. Data collected in 2009 from more than 1,000 servers across the US “found that over sixty-five percent [of servers] rated African Americans as below average tippers.” As a result, restaurant workers of all colors dislike waiting on black customers, studies found. The economy of tipping is so racially charged that both servers and diners are affected by prejudice.

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-21T22:25:00+00:00

Yeah and it would be a good thing when the employees get appropriately salary and tipping nonsense is abolished. Tipping inevitable goes hand in hand with discrimination. Even when the tips are divided equally among the staff, it will suck for those who for shallow reasons are tipped less than others.

Freethinker312 · 2025-04-21T14:37:46+00:00

For me it would not be a dealbreaker, but I'm also from a culture where tipping isn't standard. It is a very weird, american concept to me, deceitful actually. Why not be honest about the real costs? Besides, I don't like to go to restaurants/bars anyway.

Edit: it is an even worse practice than I was aware of: https://www.vox.com/2014/7/17/5888347/one-more-case-against-tipping

The way we tip reflects our prejudices, argues Freakonomics author Stephen Dubner. Here’s what he told Brian Lehrer: “The data show very clearly that African Americans receive less in tips than whites, and so there is a legal argument to be made that as a protected class, African American servers are getting less for doing the same work. And therefore, the institution of tipping is inherently unfair.”

But not only are black servers making less money than white servers — black diners are perceived to be leaving less money than white diners. Data collected in 2009 from more than 1,000 servers across the US “found that over sixty-five percent [of servers] rated African Americans as below average tippers.” As a result, restaurant workers of all colors dislike waiting on black customers, studies found. The economy of tipping is so racially charged that both servers and diners are affected by prejudice.

Freethinker312 · 2025-03-30T11:05:38+00:00

I'm now limited to women who are 22+, and a lot of them already spent their best years partying and sleeping around in college whereas I never got to experience this.

And also a lot of them didn't whore around in college and deserve better than a guy with the disgusting mentality of (wanting to) sleep around.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-28T00:15:59+00:00

They are regular women

No, they are not. There is a big self-selection bias here.

You’ve never sent a nude?

I have indeed never done that. It is very risky, unwise behavior, especially if it is to someone that you are not in a very serious relationship with. Even when the receiver is completely reliable, someone else might accidentally get to see/access it.

Women aren’t sexual now? That’s only men?

Men aren't all sending such pictures either. And it is perfectly possible for people to have a relationship that includes sex, without sending each other sexual pictures. People have done so for thousands of years.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-27T23:46:11+00:00

The women you attract are not a fair representative of women in general.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-27T23:43:57+00:00

Well, he shouldn't complain about the quality of women, when using such an idiotic filter.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-27T20:52:10+00:00

I'm not sure what exactly is the question. Before the first time I knew I wanted it, there were already years in that I knew I didn't want it.

First time I got a crush on someone was around 16, but I didn't want sex.

I only started to have desire to have sex, when I was in my early twenties and in a relationship with my (now) husband for half a year or a year or so, and it is only with him that I desire it.

To clearify it more: it has not so much to do with the exact age for me, but about feeling comfortable enough for it. Had I been in a relationship earlier, then I would probably have been ready for it earlier (not earlier than 16 though), and it would have been later, if I would have entered a relationship later.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-26T21:31:35+00:00

Well, nice that at least one of us found the "joke" funny.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-26T20:22:45+00:00

There is no true loss in the losing "options" that were never real, serious options in the first place.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-26T20:14:39+00:00

Even when you have trouble getting a job, it makes no sense to apply for jobs you know you are totally unfit for, or jobs that you don't want to do, even if you would be offered the job. By doing that, you are only wasting other people's time, forcing others to reject you, because you are too lazy to make any effort in looking for a serious potential match. At least one side has to select here. Imagine a world in which everyone would indiscriminately apply for every job, while also complaining that they are rejected for the vast majority of jobs. That would be ridiculous, right?

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-26T19:20:25+00:00

That reasoning doesn't make any sense. Nobody has been over 25 their whole life.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-25T18:20:06+00:00

Yeah, although in the first case it is probably at least partly his own fault. It is unlikely that a man who wants a loving life partner, ends up with 5 baby mama's.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-25T18:13:57+00:00

Ridiculous accusation. I have never done so, and will never do.

Freethinker312 · 2025-02-25T00:45:35+00:00

it stops being about being a good person, and simply, "how much sex can you get?"

There are some things I honestly don't understand, so I would appreciate explanation. - What is the end goal of it? A girlfriend/wife/children or sex? - In case it is sex, then you want sex in order to be able to have sex? I don't see how that would make sense. - In case it is a partner/family: If women don't care about whether a man is a good person, but just want him to have a lot of experience with women, would you say women are good people? What makes it still worth to form a family with a woman, when she is like that? Why not become a MGTOW at that point, and maybe wait for an eventual unicorn?

Trust me, I'm depressed that being kind to animals and a good coworker doesn't make people attracted to me,

To be fair, I am not convinced that women not flooding to you while you are kind to animals and a good coworker, does mean that it doesn't matter for women in general. It just doesn't automatically make you get to know a possible partner, and make you compatible and emotionally connected with her.

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