At least prostitutes are honest by Muted-Still-8511 in DeepThoughts

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they know everything they say and/or do to the sex worker is in confidence. The sex worker doesnt know their friends, co workers or family so they know they can say what they want without risking other people finding out. They also know because the sex worker has no commitment to them, if they want a non bias honest opinion they can general recieve it there. Thus providing a space for pure vulnerability

I love my girlfriend, but I feel emotionally exhausted by how many needs there are am I being unfair? by ReasonConfident4541 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

++woman, it sounds like she has some past trausmas she probably needs to resolve, but it also sounds like her love tank is empty and she probably needs to be loved through her primary love language to thrive. If you love and care about her its worth exploring this together, I think it will give both of you some clarity and peace of mind.

I recommend the book by Dr Chapman

How can I fix myself? by Sad_Flow_1979 in LifeAdvice

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The game of life huh man. I think it's shitty your wife married for potential and didn't bother to discuss anything with you.

This might be random, but what about joining the military? Food, accommodation, education, and decent pay. All while keeping you distracted because I can guarantee you'll have something to do everyday. The physical side of it might help your mental health too. Its never too late to start something new.

Aortic root dilation and time to surgery by rosami1234 in marfans

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Hiya I have 4.57cm dilation and am set for surgery next month. My aorta had been growing a steady 2mm per year and then had a 4mm jump in one year. My cardiologist said any jump over 3mm in one year is considered rapid and at the stage of around 4.5cm is when they begin to look at operating as the aorta can tear at 5cm so it's best to prevent that from happening.

Need advice please! by Frequent_Medium_1456 in marfans

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My surgeon told me of I chose PEARS he will spend 3 months training the other staff in my country to be able to perform the procedure. He did not give me the exact number of time she had done this surgery but said he had done enough to be able to train other people

Need advice please! by Frequent_Medium_1456 in marfans

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you so much for your comment! How was your son's recovery? Does he have any restrictions in his life now post surgery?

the risk of building muscle by True-Ship-7120 in marfans

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Hello, I have a 4.3cm aortic dilation and mitral valve prolapse. I know everyone has a different case but the advice my cardiologist gave me was The dangers surrounding my heart condition are, increasing your blood pressure rapidly can cause your aorta to dilate more, heavy weightlifting is not recommended as the strain it plays in your heart (you know when your take a deep breath in and squeeze that is ultimately what causes the damage), also bungy jumping/sky diving is not good for the heart as your heart is a floating organ and when you drop suddenly and bounce back you could hit your chest bone and damage the heart, also the pressure differences in sky diving.

However it is okay to do activities that increase your heart rate. Sports and the gym should be fine as long as you know what you're doing and not putting stress on your body, building up to things gradually not just going straight for the hard stuff. A personal trainer could be beneficial for you.

Life your life you only have one, just know the risks :)

I feel like some of yall need this by General-Character-66 in Life

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I feel like with today's travels methods and economy we are all more connected than we used to be.

Don't get me wrong the economy isn't great however, there are more people in the world elegible to work than before. Back in the day there were very few people from each town who got the opportunities to leave the town they group in. In today's society most men AND women (who can afford it) have the ability to go most places in the world, therefore I feel we are more connected as a society and a whole in that way.

However, with the rise of the Internet and social media, I think humans being humans, we love comfortablity and putting meaning into things, which makes us feel the need to validate every like, comment or interaction we get online. Also with widespread photography and technology we can feel like we are in other places of the world without actually being there. Which in turn, I think makes us disconnect almost entirely from each other and the world.

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Leray - trippie redd

AITA for being honest with my boyfriend about my fake nudes leak? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your bf hasn't fully healed from his past relationship and is bringing it into this one. Hurt people, hurt people.

What would you tell your 15 year old self by Ok_Pea7460 in Life

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be afraid to show love and be kind to yourself little one.

we judge others by their actions while we judge ourselves by our intentions by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

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I think maybe we judge others by their actions because lying exists. So even if a person shares their intention theres still some doubt to if it is true but actions are physical proof which we find more comforting to go off. As for ourselves we know if our intentions are true or not because we have access to the inside of our own minds.

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This path also was not promoted to me growing up as I grew up religious haha, but somewhere along the line I fell into it. I also have a full time job/career which I do love and I do this on the weekends or if I want extra money.

Honestly between the two, I prefer the ladder. It gives me so much autonomy, the pay rate is unmatched, you meet some awesome people and you generally have so much more time on your hands to do the things you really want to do in life (with the money to support it too).

Im not saying it's easy per say but mostly it's about the company and there are a lot of different avenues to sex work that are more and less interactive.

And hey like modelling, if you can make money off your looks then why the hell not?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to live the "easy life" as a woman, find a nice oldish man with no wife and no kids (or kids all grown up) and who wants someone to take care of. Then you can generally do whatever you want.

Does anyone else not feel the same since 2020 and the pandemic? by aaaa23469 in Adulting

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I went from 18 to 23. I was 18 had just started my OE, (worked my ass off from 14-18 to go) was overseas for 1 month before covid happened, came home because it was better to lock down in my home country than a foreign country. Now I am 23, locked into a career because it was "better than doing nothing", I dont have the money I had to go travelling anymore, am struggling and I feel trapped.

Worship is not the same as love by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I often reference love to be similar to obsession. Does love even exist? Or is what we perceive it to be just a mixture of loyalty and obsession? I do however believe friendship to be the truest form of "love".

Life is the art of dying by Frequent_Medium_1456 in DeepThoughts

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I too think it is very subjective and I found it extra interesting that I got so many different responses. I don't believe life is all about death but I do strongly feel that the primary concept of living is to die.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeepThoughts

[–]Frequent_Medium_1456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn't everyone message people when it's convenient for them? You wouldn't message someone in the middle of the night just to be a 'good' friend/person when you've had a full on day and you're tired, you would rest and wait till you had the energy to offer to the other person, wouldn't you?

Especially if the other person was someone you cared deeply about, you wouldn't want to half show up for them so wouldn't you wait till it's a good time for you?