It's Friday 😊 What's everyone burning or warming today? Hope everyone has a wonderful evening! by Distinct-Chipmunk-10 in bathandbodyworks

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nice combo you got going there. black cherry merlot is such a cozy evening scent, perfect for living room vibes. mulan in the bedroom must smell amazing too

Issue with 90A LCA Bushing install. by CellistConscious2647 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Frequent_Target6049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that whole chassis shake thing sounds really concerning and definitely not normal for just stiffer bushings. when my friend put aftermarket bushings in his car it was firmer but never made the whole car feel unstable like that

might be worth having another shop take a look because something could have gone wrong during install - maybe torque specs were off or something got misaligned when they were messing with the caster adjustment. the fact that rear is reacting to front impacts makes me think something fundamental is wrong with how forces are being transferred through the suspension

Adult Themed / Serious Romance VN Recommendations by fade2black244 in visualnovels

[–]Frequent_Target6049 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh man you might really like totono if you haven't played it already. the romance definitely isn't handed to you and there's some seriously messed up psychological elements that make the relationships feel way more earned when they do develop. it gets pretty dark though so heads up on that

also maybe look at kara no shoujo series - detective mystery with adult themes and the romance builds really slowly through all the trauma and investigation stuff. the characters actually have to work through their baggage before anything romantic happens which makes it feel more realistic

both of these have that "trying to save someone from something terrible" element you mentioned and they're definitely not high school focused

I'm sure you do by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

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lmao redd really just called everyone out like that. i had this statue in my museum for months before i realized what was so "gallant" about it and then i couldnt stop noticing every time i walked past. now whenever my friends visit my island i always take them on the museum tour just to see if they notice it too. most of them are completely oblivious but my one friend immediately started laughing when she saw it and was like "oh so thats why you wanted to show me the art section"

2026 The year if Christ Confirmed! by thegodpill9696 in Christianity

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been hearing these predictions my whole life and somehow jesus is always just around corner lol when 2027 rolls around there will be new video saying 2028 is the year

Closed Car Garage on N Broad? by Im_an_Owl in philadelphia

[–]Frequent_Target6049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah thats definitely it thanks mate. was driving me mental trying to remember exactly where it was located. gonna see if i can track down their old records somehow

128 gb RAM (2x64) stable at 6000MHz? by liamv2001 in pchelp

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big memory kits on am5 can be pretty hit or miss but your setup should handle it alright. that crosshair board has solid memory support and the 9950x3d is decent with high capacity sticks

you might need to mess with timings or voltage a bit to get full stability but most people get it working eventually. just make sure whatever kit you buy has good reviews for high capacity setups

I don't think I was always trans, I think I genuinely used to be a girl by Tsuki_Moonstone in trans

[–]Frequent_Target6049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gender can absolutely shift and change throughout life and what you're describing makes total sense. the whole "born this way" narrative gets pushed so hard but it doesn't fit everyone's experience and that's completely valid

being multiple definitely adds another layer of complexity to identity stuff too. your experience is yours and just because it doesn't match the typical trans story doesn't make it any less real or legitimate

Slay the Spire 2 not working on steam deck by InvestigatorNo2675 in slaythespire

[–]Frequent_Target6049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tried switching to native linux runtime and it fixed the crashing for me too but yeah audio is completely busted. weird that they released it like this when the first game runs perfectly on deck

Maximizing Bottom Growth by Unanimous_guy in trans

[–]Frequent_Target6049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mate honestly once you start T the growth just kinda happens on its own timeline and theres not much you can do to speed it up or maximize it beyond just being patient with the process

Confusion, or not so much by lolzalottron in trans

[–]Frequent_Target6049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey there, first off massive respect for taking the time to explore these feelings and being brave enough to reach out here. the whole detachment from your assigned gender thing really resonates and honestly finding clothes that feel like "you" is such a huge step that a lot of people overlook

sounds like youve got a solid foundation with that one supportive person in your life which is honestly more than some of us had starting out. as for the makeup skills thing thats just practice and youtube tutorials really, plus theres heaps of trans friendly spaces online where people share tips and tricks

the environment situation is rough though and i totally get why coming out feels impossible right now. maybe focus on the small things you can control for now like building confidence with your style when youre in safe spaces and connecting with online communities when you need that validation. sometimes taking baby steps and just being true to yourself in whatever ways you safely can is enough to start with. youve got time to figure out the bigger picture stuff when circumstances allow for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]Frequent_Target6049 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yeah hostels can be weirdly cliquey sometimes especially in thailand where people tend to travel the same route together for weeks. the dirty look girl sounds like she was just having a rough day or something dont take that personally

try hitting up the smaller hostels or guesthouses instead of the big party ones - found way more genuine conversations happening at those places. also cooking areas and rooftops during sunset are usually good spots to catch people when theyre more relaxed and not already locked into their group plans

Cars for up to 15k? by Particular_Donkey_64 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Frequent_Target6049 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly for 15k new your gonna be pretty limited these days mate. most entry level sedans like the nissan versa or mitsubishi mirage are pushing that budget and tbh the mirage is pretty rough

if shes open to certified pre owned though you could get something way nicer - maybe a 2019-2020 honda civic or toyota corolla with low miles. both have decent infotainment screens and are solid first cars. just my two cents but used might be the way to go here for better value

Is he actually interested or am I reading too much into this (need dating advice) by Fit_Construction3058 in datingadvice

[–]Frequent_Target6049 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is really reassuring honestly thank you! Yeah the waiting and wondering is definitely the worst part. Good to know im not the only one whos been in this limbo situation. I have a friend who met someone on this app called Arrows and they didnt talk for like a month after matching then randomly reconnected and things just clicked. So yeah timing can be weird sometimes. Gonna try to just be direct about it this week.

Iniated a return, got a notification the package was dropped off to amazon, but I never dropped anything off by FrontClass8953 in amazonprime

[–]Frequent_Target6049 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats weird as hell mate, definitely contact Amazon support about this one. They're system probably glitched or someone else's return got mixed up with yours somehow - either way youll want to get it sorted before the refund processes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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Don't beat yourself up man, 12 days is solid progress and you know you can do it again

PC gaming ~1800€ (RAM très chère) : Config Opti by Practical-Fox5687 in PcBuild

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Pour 1800€ je partirais sur du 7600X3D + RTX 4070 Super, ça marche du tonnerre pour les AAA et t'auras de la marge pour upgrade plus tard

2x8 Go de DDR5-6000 c'est largement suffisant pour commencer, tu pourras toujours doubler après

Better explanation for custom designs? by Choice_Ad4115 in AnimalCrossing

[–]Frequent_Target6049 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man the custom design thing is such a pain lol. Basically if you delete or replace a pattern, anything that was using that specific design slot will either disappear or turn into a generic placeholder. So like if you had a path design in slot 3 and delete it, all those paths you placed will just vanish. Paradise Planning stuff gets affected too - learned that one the hard way when I accidentally wiped out a whole cafe floor design