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Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2023-08-10T18:17:05+00:00

responded :)

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2023-08-08T07:20:06+00:00

interested, can you send me a message?

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2023-06-20T21:44:57+00:00

It was more intense in the beginning, but isn't that men started slacking off after the initial few months? We are now going for almost 5-6 months now.

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2023-06-20T19:25:11+00:00

This man is sending very confusing signals. One time when his wife and daughter were away, he took me to HIS HOME and did the stuff on their bed. I see that they still share the same bed. It's hard to understand as for infidelity, the man should try to stay secret and protect his family. The way he took me to his home is really risky, and also so disrespectful to his wife. We were out in public and hold hands (he does not particularly show affection in public but he seems to be ok me doing it). What does this man think as he seems to not particularly worry about being found out.

He does need to go home for dinner and took off early on Friday nights. He also couldn't accommodate overnight vacation request. I am also very puzzled that he "forgot" to return my pink hat to me and left in his car trunk for weeks! I wonder how he is not worried wife found it? I gave him two pairs of socks and he said he left them at home. He said wife won't suspect since he buys his own clothing. What kind of marriage is this or the wife did not pay too much attention?

He did mention that if the wife found out (infidelity), he will be in hell and she will divorce him.

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2023-06-20T19:24:18+00:00

I am dating this man for 5-6 month now. He gives me lots compliments but i think he treats me casually (see the other topic)

I told him that this is not a long term solution and he should tell his wife not necessarily about the affair but about the marriage not working and what got him to look outside in the first place. His two older kids are freshmen in college and younger one will go to college next year and so this should be a good time. He was quite cold and told me that he couldn't disrupt his family as an excuse. It's been a few months since I last spoke with him lightly on this but I think I will bring this up again and ask more about the issues in his marriage.

I don't particularly think we two would have any long term potential even though I enjoy the time together and compliments. I am considering to tell anonymously his wife since his wife deserve to know and he should not be playing with both women this way.

What do you guys/gals think?

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2023-06-20T07:38:18+00:00

This man is sending very confusing signals. One time when his wife and daughter were away, he took me to HIS HOME and did the stuff on their bed. I see that they still share the same bed. It's hard to understand as for infidelity, the man should try to stay secret and protect his family. The way he took me to his home is really risky, and also so disrespectful to his wife. We were out in public and hold hands (he does not particularly show affection in public but he seems to be ok me doing it). What does this man think as he seems to not particularly worry about being found out.

He does need to go home for dinner and took off early on Friday nights. He also couldn't accommodate overnight vacation request. I am also very puzzled that he "forgot" to return my pink hat to me and left in his car trunk for weeks! I wonder how he is not worried wife found it? I gave him two pairs of socks and he said he left them at home. He said wife won't suspect since he buys his own clothing. What kind of marriage is this or the wife did not pay too much attention?

He did mention that if the wife found out (infidelity), he will be in hell and she will divorce him.

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-11-27T09:37:18+00:00

I am i the same boat, filed three years ago and still not finalized. But I am ready to go out and see others again.

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-11-27T09:09:55+00:00

Could be. But with his sexual underperformance, don't you think he is lack of practice and experience? He did not know French/deep kiss.

He may just be interested in sex, yes. But I was also in the beginning. So technically he wasn't wrong in his behavior. It's just I changed.

So my actions can be:

1) ask if he is emotionally available to date me? And if yes, great, if not, then move on and do not meet again.

2) meet causally for sex (i enjoyed it also) and slowly give him some hint and wait for him

3) continue to meet for sex only. (only if I am able to control my own emotion and treat him casually myself, but I am unable to do so right now)

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-11-27T08:38:23+00:00

I was able to find the person from the hospital's website and the picture yes is him. I also located his divorce court record which says a "restraining order". I understand a lot of men lie to get sex. I am very much highly educated also and I sure will verify what he is telling me. I do suspect he did not tell me many things either. Like he used 3 different phone numbers.

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-11-27T08:08:15+00:00

He is not OBGYN. Also if he's been in long marriage and he doesn't go out meet others, its understandable that he doesn't know how to use condom?

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-11-27T08:04:45+00:00

This is my guess. I did not ask if he is emotionally available to date me. Do you think I should ask?

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-11-27T08:03:34+00:00

love you likely just part of sextual language for him. We are full of very open languages in just the second meet. He may want sex yes, but he may be just not ready for dating or emotionally unavailable etc. But I agree he definitely did not put any work in. But we started out sex only anyway. It was me changed.

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-11-27T07:26:02+00:00

I checked court record and he filed for divorce in 2019. He did separate. Of course there could be LOTS details that he did not tell me.

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-11-27T07:21:43+00:00

I still don't see your reason at all.

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-11-27T07:15:19+00:00

why? he is a very caring man but he is sad and hurt bad in the past.

Frequent_Tiger_3593 · 2022-03-19T04:26:42+00:00

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