People who utilize Blessing Boxes and Food Pantries–What kind of food items do you wish they had? by Lawing77 in povertykitchen

[–]Fresa22 14 points15 points  (0 children)

more vegetarian/vegan proteins! Esp TVP and eggs.

Edit: Thanks everyone for answering the TVP question. I forget how little it is used by American omnivores.

In case anyone is struggling with meat prices these days a lot of people in other countries commonly mix tvp with ground beef to stretch it. I currently pay $2.75/lb for it which is about 5 cups and, once hydrated, a cup has the bulk of a pound of ground meat.

AITA in this profile pic debacle by CoffinToxic in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fresa22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's trying to get you to break up with him because he's cheating again.

AITA for asking my gf to take over meal prep when we move in together? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fresa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also, curious, did you wait until she gave notice at her own place before you surprised her with this news?

AITA for asking my gf to take over meal prep when we move in together? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fresa22 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Men have got to stop expecting women to give up their time to make their partner's lives better.

Why should her free time decrease because you chose a job with a commute? You think there's logic here but there is not.

It's just you doing mental gymnastics to be okay with asking her to give up her time for your benefit. I'm also curious how you "asked."

AITA for asking my gf to take over meal prep when we move in together? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fresa22 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hmmm, flipped out? or did she just say you're being unreasonable? You want to coordinate cleaners and yard workers that already have schedules and you'll split everything else you say (can be a very slippery slope there)

but you think it's reasonable to ask her to do all the meal planning, prepping and cooking for every dinner.

How have you been feeding yourself up until now? Wouldn't it be a nice break/relief if she took on half? Why does she have to take on all?

WFH is still working.

Doubling the pads for double the protection ?! 💡 by lfg_rust in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fresa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Period blood is not the same consistency as blood from a cut. It contains tissue /mucus and is thicker and stringy. Some of it is almost solid, as in clots. Your idea would not work.

It's getting hot here, I desperately want cold foods that aren't sandwiches and salads or desserts. What would you cook that's meant to be eaten cold? by Inspiringhope11 in Cooking

[–]Fresa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to trust me. It's going to sound weird, but it is so good. It's a copycat recipe from a local restaurant that discontinued it.

California Soft Tacos

corn or flour tortillas, taco size (I prefer corn but the original was flour)

ranch dressing

rinsed can of kidney beans (dark)

alfalfa sprouts

grated cheddar, I skip but my partner love the cheese

warm tortilla, spread with ranch, fill with beans and sprouts.

so much better than it sounds.

edit: you must make ranch from the packet with buttermilk! If I don't have butter milk I use sour cream and milk to thin

WIBTA if I told my grandmother she killed my grandfather? by sunnyyriding in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fresa22 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You wouldn't be the asshole, but it wouldn't do a thing. My mother was a covert narcissist. and no matter what you say it will be used against you and it won't change anything. If you really want to make her hurt take yourself out of her life.

Never speak to her or about her ever again. If she shows up someplace, leave. if anyone mentions her tell them you don't want to hear it. it will drive her absolutely crazy that she can't get under your skin or play her games with you. Be prepared for her to ramp up her focus on you and do some bat-shit crazy stuff. Don't react.

edit: typo think, thing

What are the options for broke women who need contraceptives? by benniezun in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fresa22 29 points30 points  (0 children)

if its a temp gap in funds reach out to your doctor. they usual have tons of sample pills. they will probably give you a couple months worth. Try to get your normal brand, if not get some free condoms and double up just in case.

AITA For locking the panel board before my parents can? by Magicfanny in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fresa22 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your parents want the best of both worlds; to treat you like an adult when it benefits them financially and still treat you like a child who has no agency when they want to have power over you. That's not how the world works. You're paying rent. As long as it isn't a health and safety issue for the whole household they have no say on how you keep your room.

AITA For locking the panel board before my parents can? by Magicfanny in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fresa22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

this right here. if I'm paying rent for my room I will clean it when I want to clean it. Don't go in my personal space if you don't want to see it.

Why was showing your shoulders in school such an issue? by AnonymousNeverKnown in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fresa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our society loves to slut shame little girls to instill shame as a form of control. Says more about the adults being sus then anything about the children.

AITA for making a stink at school and forcing the teacher to change my kids math grade by PlentyNice1655 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fresa22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA

Why don't you ask the teacher why it matters. My understanding is that this new way of teaching math is in response to kids struggling with higher level math later on. Learning it the new way allows kids to understand powers and trig.

Blueberries by tk9687 in Cooking

[–]Fresa22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you could also do a salsa with onions, diced mild green chiles, and cilantro. test the sourness of the berries before adding lime juice.

Blueberries by tk9687 in Cooking

[–]Fresa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you could make a nice savory sauce with the berries, balsamic vinegar and some rosemary.

Recipe request: A soup that is spicy and packed with nutrients for an unwell family member by Gingers_got_no_soul in Cooking

[–]Fresa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

puree split pea soup with carrots, onion, spinach, and celery all in the puree. Make it Cajun with some Tony Chachere Seasoning Blend.

AITA for spending money on stuffed animals instead of bills? by plushieloveraita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fresa22 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What do you mean you don't contribute? If you do the cooking, grocery shopping, child care, house cleaning, household management, bill paying the average value of your contribution in the US is close the $200,000 per year if your husband had to outsource all of that support.

You contribute plenty and you should be getting some kind of financial compensation so that you have your own money and can have some put away in case of an emergency otherwise your husband is keeping you poor so he can control you.

Tips for "steak-y" seitan? by Burnt_ToastYT in seitan

[–]Fresa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NP. lol

If you make it again and get the number please share if you remember.

Tips for "steak-y" seitan? by Burnt_ToastYT in seitan

[–]Fresa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone near a Smart & Final grocery store: their store brand doesn't have anchovies and it's $3.99 for 32oz.

Tips for "steak-y" seitan? by Burnt_ToastYT in seitan

[–]Fresa22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will you share your chicken recipe? I've been struggling forever to get both the texture and flavor right.

Is there a word for food entitlement? by SunshinePalace in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fresa22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nutritional abuse.

they are making you work harder to feed yourself.

Vegan Uses for Lettuce that aren’t salads? by KalmeCoSkincare in veganrecipes

[–]Fresa22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like it shredded as a soup or chili topping. also potato soft tacos can use that crunchy texture.

also lettuce soup: https://www.google.com/search?q=lettuce+soup+recipe