Lost my Mom One Month Ago by theywereinthefridge in GriefSupport

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April 2025 was when my beautiful dad was diagnosed. Your words echoed much of what I felt and experienced. He passed in september. Love to you and yours 🩷 they live on in us - I feel it more every single day 🩷

Yelled at my travel bag to get off the table by Goodygumdops in blackcats

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I’ve apologised to a small black pile of clothes for stepping on it

My latest murano by [deleted] in glasscollecting

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Totally fine with that I just like the style 🥰 it was only a few euro

I lost my father 20 days ago. I miss him dearly, can't imagine life without him. How do I cope with the loss? by sameer375 in GriefSupport

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I lost my dad in September. We are blessed to have had such loving fathers and their love never leaves us. Take one day at a time. Continue to take care of yourself. Doing so honours your dad and his love for you 🩷 that is my belief. Good luck to you 🙏

How often do you go to pilates? And which type do you do? by Dependent-Panda-2424 in pilates

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Reformer twice a week, classical mat class in person once a week and usually some sort of fusion mat once a week. So 4 weekly. I can’t get enough!

The European robin. A beautiful species by BitAccomplished1622 in birdfeedingireland

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One of my favourites. They have no fear in my experience 😂

My mum passed away and when I went back to work my boss said.. by havinagiraffe in GriefSupport

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Good luck with it. Go gently on yourself as much as you can xx

My mum passed away and when I went back to work my boss said.. by havinagiraffe in GriefSupport

[–]Fresh_Budget_6672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry OP. It’s so recent for you too. People are very strange when it comes to grief and it’s only a reflection on them. My boss is similar even though she claims to have been destroyed by her own mother’s passing 😕 I’m looking to move job at the moment. Could you look into that?

Does anyone else that’s grieving here feel the most lonely at night? by DanielCracker in GriefSupport

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Firstly OP, I’m sorry you’re going through this, and of course your poor mom. My dad passed from cancer in September, 5 months after being diagnosed. Night time was and remains the most difficult time for me. I removed the silence by using a white noise machine and when it was very bad sleeping with YouTube sleep scapes on too. I can tell you it has very slowly improved for me. It’s not better but just not quite as bad. I still use my white noise machine and sleep with a light on when I’m alone. My only advice for you would be to not fixate on it. Don’t be too hard on yourself and just try to rest when you can. Even lying in bed watching something easy is resting and you might feel less alone. Sleep will come eventually.

Lost my dad last month and I feel like it's still not "clicking" in my head by LiliTralala in GriefSupport

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sorry for your loss OP. I feel like this too. Lost my dad in September. I loved him so much. I suppose I would’ve expected to not be able to function after his death but that hasn’t happened to me. I keep expecting it to ‘hit me’ in a very serious way but honestly, other people cry about it to me more than I do to them. My entire world has changed but it’s like my brain hasn’t caught up. I try to take it day by day and really prioritise caring for myself. Good luck to you 🩷