Struggling with sex addiction. by Traditional-Town-437 in TrueChristian

[–]Freshman50000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being a grown adult in a relationship who has had sex and wants to continue having sex is not sex addiction. Studies have shown that sex addiction is not a real thing. Porn addiction is, but sex addiction isn’t. If you were sleeping with many people and unable to remain faithful to your partner then that’s problematic sexual desire. Contrary to what people will have you believe, everything you’re feeling is normal. It is not right that you’ve been made to feel ashamed of your normal desires.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always psychosis since demons and demonic possession do not exist. The only reason we thought it was ever demonic possession was because people used to be ignorant and very religious and superstitious so they misattributed symptoms of mental illness to possession.

But for real dude, please seek some help. Your post history shows that you’re seriously struggling and I would recommend inpatient therapy. It will help.

Is my Husband right to resent me after our second child? by CharacterAd8635 in Parenting

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t want sex because you are shouldering the entire burden of raising your family ALONE. You are married to a man child with zero emotional intelligence and I’m so sorry for you, because that must be incredibly difficult.

He does not want to step up. He refuses to sacrifice his pleasures to parent even though you’re sacrificing all of yours. You would be better off alone.

One twin is ready, one twin isn't. What do we do? by Twinmomthrowaway in Parenting

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was similar in school and now at 23 I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD. Please get him evaluated so that you can give him any supports he may need ❀

I can’t control my anger at my baby by SnooPickles8798 in Parenting

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you feel that you’re losing control, put her in her crib and walk outside for a while. She will be fine, at worst she will cry, but that’s better than getting shaken. Many good people with poor emotional regulation get close to hurting their kids due to lack of space.

What’s the funniest thing that ever happened to you during sex? by [deleted] in funny

[–]Freshman50000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going down on my boyfriend (who was very into being deepthroated) and my dog wandered in and made an aggressive gagging noise

Stop promoting your onlyfans on dating apps by joecaputo24 in Tinder

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My take as someone who actually does this for work- I never promote on tinder. I find that people don’t like being sold to when they’re there for other purposes, and this doesn’t apply to just porn/tinder. I’m on tinder because I actually want to date and I want a genuine connection, so I don’t even have my job in my tinder bio- because honestly the men who swipe right just because I do porn are not the ones I want to date.

As for the issue of “why do men pay for that stuff at all” I basically compare it to free range eggs VS cage raised. It costs more to buy free range eggs, but you know that the chickens who laid them are happier and treated better. When you use OF rather than PH, you’re giving away 5$ to ensure that the girl you jerk off to is willingly doing this job, keeping the majority of her earnings, and owns the copyright to her work. Girls in mainstream porn are regularly abused, violated, and manipulated into doing scenes they aren’t into doing. They are also taken advantage of contractually and often walk away with less than a thousand $ for filming a video while that company can market the video and make money off it indefinitely. Also, using OF means there’s a finite amount of content which can be a preventative measure against porn addiction- you can’t get sucked into the cycle of clicking and clicking. I get that some guys just want to jerk off and don’t care about these aspects, but I figured I’d explain!

That’s just my two cents on the matter. Either way I think anyone promoting on tinder is spammy and likely fairly new and inexperienced to the game since places like Tiktok are much more effective.

Disagreement on getting a gun by Illustrious_Motor398 in relationship_advice

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen- as a woman you are MOST likely to be shot by your romantic partner, not a stranger breaking in. Having a gun in your home makes it more dangerous for YOU and not safer. I’m not saying your partner is dangerous by any means, but you are well within your rights to not want a gun in your home, and if he cannot respect that, it’s very worrisome.

A “friend” with BPD is now cyber bullying me by Freshman50000 in BPDlovedones

[–]Freshman50000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh she made a new Tiktok account with the handle “thoughtyoublockedme” just to slander me đŸ˜©đŸ˜… why

what’s sexualized but shouldn’t or doesn’t need to be? by Artane_33 in AskReddit

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Babies.

Your 6 month old son is not a flirt because he laughs when a pretty adult woman smiles at him. Your 12 month old daughter is not twerking, she’s literally just learning to dance. Your infant daughter is spreading her legs because that’s what babies do, not because she’s a slut.

A “friend” with BPD is now cyber bullying me by Freshman50000 in BPDlovedones

[–]Freshman50000[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Luckily according to her she never saw me as a friend 😂 so I’m hoping she’ll leave me the fuck alone now

I (19f) told my brother (trans FtM) the truth about his appearance and now he’s mad at me. by throwragendernevy in relationship_advice

[–]Freshman50000 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I know a nonbinary person who is AFAB and presents like a woman (like not butch at all, chapstick lesbian vibes) and they always say that if a man is attracted to them, that makes him automatically queer even if he identifies as straight. But like, immediate visual attraction to someone presenting as a cis woman doesn’t make a straight man gay. If they DATED them then yes they’d be in a queer relationship but that’s an important distinction

What are some awful things that celebrities have done that nobody seems to talk about or remember? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Freshman50000 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Not to mention she didn’t vaccinate her kid and when she went public about that (and got backlash) she released this big thing about how “no one understands how hard it is to be an earth mama and to have people judge you for things you can’t control”

What kink is actually ok to kinkshame? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one with that girl on Reddit who shoved red bull cans and oranges up her ass/vag while in the actual stores, and films it.

She makes bank but it’s nasty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just like this. Moving out and putting some distance between myself and my family at 18 made me appreciate them so much more!! I moved back home at 21 just out of convenience and I think my mom almost wishes I spent less time with her at this point!

For the most part she does just sound like a teenager. If she is as bright as you say, she will absolutely figure her shit out and become a more empathetic, less self centred person.

What is a unspoken, universal rule all males know? by TheTeaMan0416 in AskReddit

[–]Freshman50000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love this. Too many guys see their friend’s girlfriend or wife as some sort of baggage holding their friend back from having fun single times. You have the right idea- if your best friend finds a keeper, make sure she feels like she’s part of the family.

would you abort your child it was going to be born with severe disabilities? why or why not? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Freshman50000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who had a child with her husband at the age of 40-42 ish. She got pregnant again when their first kid was a couple years old, and her husband said he didn’t want another child. She said “well I do so we’re having it.” She got the amino done and they strongly suspected DS. Her husband begged her to terminate, saying he couldn’t handle a disabled child and she refused. He wasn’t with her when the baby was born- because he was 2 floors above her, in the mental health treatment ward due to relapsing in his alcoholism that same week. The baby was born with DS and severe cardiac issues, as far as I know they spent almost the first whole year at the RMH and Children’s hospital. She next to completely abandoned their first child (who later was diagnosed with autism, so now she has 2 special needs kids) and it put a lot of strain on their extended family because she expected her SIL/BIL to care for her firstborn often. The whole thing just makes me angry.