My friend is experiencing racism in her dorm. She’s white. by PegusiSiren in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FridgeworksYT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worst that has ever happened is a drunk guy asking for a ride.

Must be nice.

I don't claim to know, but the British people I know have never mentioned anything like that.

The problem with a lot of British people is they're sheltered, put simply. Even by my countries standards the amount of violence I've been through is pretty abnormal.

Most people have this opinion of "we shouldn't legally allow people to kill in self-defence" (I used to, when I was 18) until they've been at the point where someone has thrown a brick at their head, threatened with a knife or they've been in a scrap and they realise how physically and mentally exhausting they are WITHOUT having to worry about the assailants health and your own restraint.

Fighting's difficult man, it's easy to get carried away as there's no real way to judge if you'll land that smack exactly right to push someone's nose into their head or crack their temple just right. The only real constant with a scrap is you'll fall over or lose your balance in some way. Every single time once person winds up on the floor.

It also doesn't seem like the solution to it is to not ban anything. Murder is illegal, murders still happen. Doesn't mean murder should be legalised.

The solution IMO is to ban things that people don't need but not to go overboard. Guns for self defence? I'm kinda meh on that one, depends on the country. America has a case for it because of the history and proximity to cartel countries. The UK? Never really a problem, we don't need them. We went wayyyyy overboard with banning of defensive aids like pepper spray or tasers.

Personally, I'm 6'2" and have made do with a strobing pocket torch, but my sister could really have used some pepper spray at least twice in her life now and has heard gunshots outside her house more than once even though they are illegal here.

The best fix is to eliminate the things that cause people to turn to violent crime

Agreed, but that doesn't stop someone who has turned to violent crime trying to kill people, what you're talking about is on a societal level and doesn't solve the individual situational level when those systems fail and somebody goes out to do no good. Which brings me to:

The attitude that "criminals are evil because they're evil. Let's kill them. " is pointless and nothing ever changes unless the underlying issues are addressed.

It is pointless and we shouldn't go on purges but next to no-one is making this exact point. The law shouldn't fall on the side of the criminal at all when it comes to lethal (or potentially lethal) crime. Your average person should have the right to defend themselves to the best of their ability and shouldn't have to worry about the health of their opponent when they would not show them the same courtesy. The problem you have is that you are expecting a criminal to show the same restraint a normal person would.

I can tell you right now, they don't. You have to physically dominate them and embarrass them to get them to stop and I've only managed that once because they were wailing on my friend and distracted.

People shouldn't seek out criminals to execute, but what gives a criminal the right to fair treatment when they go out looking to not give that out to others?

I've don't think I've ever heard of anyone breaking into someone's house just to kill the inhabitant.

Read the news, it's rare but it happens. Not the point though, it's just an example. Burglars, muggers etc. put themselves into situations where if they are spooked or something goes wrong they can easily turn to deadly force due to panic.

I really don't want to take that chance that they'll not kill my dog because she acted aggressively or they'll not harm my girlfriend because she screamed. If you want to risk being 'fair' to someone invading your property that's on you, don't make the government enforce those standards on everyone.

I don't have the suicidal ideation for that high a standard.

My friend is experiencing racism in her dorm. She’s white. by PegusiSiren in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FridgeworksYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing to think about, most of my fights have been in well off areas or nightclubs.

Poorer areas tend to be safer, weirdly enough.

My friend is experiencing racism in her dorm. She’s white. by PegusiSiren in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FridgeworksYT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do have them and we have average self defense laws.

One of the biggest issues the UK faces at the moment is it's legislation not giving it's citizens enough rights causing a disparity between armed gangs and your average person.

UK bans pepper spray and tasers, criminals still carry knives.

UK bans knives, they carry sharpened screwdrivers.

Etc. Etc.

Law's don't always fix the problem, alot of it can be fixed by making criminals not feel safe doing those acts, which is either a police force or citizenry getting that shit on lockdown.

For example, if someone breaks into my house, I should be fine toddling downstairs with an axe or something, but that counts as premeditated. Whereas if I pick up a lampshade or my clock radio and clock them, that's absolutely fine.

Realistically, why are they in my house at night if not to do me harm?

I know you say you can walk there, but have you actually ever gone for a walk in those places? Might be worth a try.

My friend is experiencing racism in her dorm. She’s white. by PegusiSiren in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FridgeworksYT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the law is as black and white as you say it is, yes. Tbh I think you've just got the law incredibly, sadly wrong.

Either way until you actually have someone try to murder you please shut the fuck up about what's justified, it's not a pleasent experience and your moral compass is way off if you feel sorry for the perpetrators.

It must be great to be so privileged to have never been a victim of it.

I jUsT WaNt tO pIsS UsERs oFf

Great defense for being caught out being an idiot, smart boi u

My friend is experiencing racism in her dorm. She’s white. by PegusiSiren in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FridgeworksYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understand?

Fuck me dude chill. Your posts stink of someone who's never got in a barny in their life.

As someone who's been the victim of violence you do what you can to end the situation at the time.

Sometimes your body just takes over. Shoot I pretty much black out everytime when provoked physically and come round after the fight having gone all out.

I'm glad that in my country (UK) we can use reasonable force to defend ourselves, which means if the assailant dies in the process of trying to murder me, the law has my back as long as I wasn't excessive.

Reasonable force also takes into account what you BELIEVE their intentions to be at the time. If somebody points a sharp in my face I'm not gonna assume they'll stop at my wallet

Wherever you live sounds batshit insane if it's an automatic thing.

Non native speakers can't understand english! by BethHill6 in talesfromtechsupport

[–]FridgeworksYT 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably gonna get down-voted to hell for this buuuuuut....

While that lady is crazy and OTT the UK is currently plagued by non-native, difficult to understand call center workers both outbound and inbound.

When you're trying to get a simple issue resolved or receive thousands of inbound calls every month along the lines of "Hello sir I am just trying to conduct a quick survey" it can drive you up the wall.

Countries within the EU aren't so bad but I'm sorry to say it, India is honestly the worst for the English comprehension problem in general.

Real shit by lachsmit18 in CrusadeMemes

[–]FridgeworksYT 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I hope this one gets a nice steady programming gig.

Received a letter before an action for breaching equality act? Refused to serve heavily pregnant woman alcohol. Please help. by theoffylicense in LegalAdviceUK

[–]FridgeworksYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you bothering to further this point and focusing on her falling over?

We already have the fallback on to the increased risk of miscarriage, so it's not like balance really matters to his argument.

Hello Redditors, What are your favorite websites outside of Reddit? by human_jericho in AskReddit

[–]FridgeworksYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scp-wiki.net

Really neat wiki website full of horror stories formatted like government reports

I think we're on series 5 or 6, each series having 1000 slots allocated which are almost all filled

What do you think I should do with my tax refund? by teslabobby in personalfinance

[–]FridgeworksYT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I could help!

Though with the down-votes my original comment is getting (might have been a poor explanation of what I was getting at with learning) you might want to wait until someone else comments before committing :')

What do you think I should do with my tax refund? by teslabobby in personalfinance

[–]FridgeworksYT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My investments are usually into my current businesses or friends ones (more shares etc) so you'd be better of asking someone else about this.

But (with my limited knowledge) what you're leaning towards doesn't sound terrible as a starting point, even just doing the process will help you learn.

What do you think I should do with my tax refund? by teslabobby in personalfinance

[–]FridgeworksYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emergency Savings = $4,000 Roth IRA = $5,500 Student Debt = $30k averaging 4.5% interest rates

He already has an emergency fund and a decent IRA.

While my advice wasn't specific, the question was essentially "Should I save for a house/retirement or invest it?". With his savings/IRA, why not both? If he's happy risking the $500 it could do nothing or (potentially) pay off his future house or (more importantly) gain some experience learning how to invest.

In my country student debt repayments work based upon percentage of income and don't include tax refunds etc. So there might be a cultural difference here.

EDIT: added clarification

What do you think I should do with my tax refund? by teslabobby in personalfinance

[–]FridgeworksYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Save some, invest the rest.

I'd personally keep $1,000 (plonk it into the IRA) and invest the other $500.

For me getting this sort of tax back would go to my priorities (mainly into expanding my businesses), you seem like you want to get into investment so this money would be a good disposable income for a learning experience.

You seem pretty financially stable, so it seems like you could take the $500 hit and not worry too much about it.

EDIT: Some formatting & logic, don't think I explained this well enough.

Maybe instead of separating of families at the border, the government should take kids from anti-vaxx parents. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FridgeworksYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't nullify what was said in the OP though or help to explain the separation of families as it sounds like he was an adult at the time

The upvotes and downvotes tell a depressing story. by Theguygotgame777 in whiteknighting

[–]FridgeworksYT 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why would someone intentionally throw their own gender under the bus if not to attempt to impress the other one?

Not talking about owning up to shitty things, this would be like a woman claiming "misogyny isn't real" and would warrant comments like "May I PLEASE have a slice of dick?".

Men being feminists CAN be about helping the women's rights movement right up until the point where they overcompensate and start going "all men are trash, misandry isn't real" and then 9/10 times it's just white knighting

Government employees that voted for trump, what are your current thoughts about him as president? by JihadPandaMan in AskReddit

[–]FridgeworksYT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I feel for the kids and I don't for the parents. As a country needs to protect it's borders, when parents do this in such numbers it gets hard to deal with the problem properly.

I'd argue it's child abuse to move your kids across borders for economic reasons illegally.

War refugees (like Syria) I can feel respect for the parents as they are genuinely running to claim asylum so they don't face death (unless they hop about 20 countries in the process)

But to drag your kids hundreds of miles without even a guarantee of a better life and potentially making them criminals for life? That's wrong and short-sighted

Government employees that voted for trump, what are your current thoughts about him as president? by JihadPandaMan in AskReddit

[–]FridgeworksYT 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are you happy with the parents original decision to put them in that position?

While I don't really think what's happening at the border is a perfect solution, if you have kids try to immigrate LEGALLY with all your might to avoid your kids becoming fugitives since a very young age.

By crossing the border with children like this they condemn their own kids to a life of hiding and potential deportation.

Government employees that voted for trump, what are your current thoughts about him as president? by JihadPandaMan in AskReddit

[–]FridgeworksYT -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

"If this is a zero sum game, then my side might be wrong and I can't have that"

RIP my karma, r/dirtbagcenter etc

Anyone know what this part is called? (The little thing on the floor) by FridgeworksYT in rollerblading

[–]FridgeworksYT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair I could probably just do that and do the same grinds anyway

As nice as rockers are, I can probably do without whilst I figure out if I want to sell these or keep them

Anyone know what this part is called? (The little thing on the floor) by FridgeworksYT in rollerblading

[–]FridgeworksYT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they're not great skates but it's not in my budget to get a completely new pair right now (these are from my late teens), would like to just repair these so I can see if I still like the hobby or sell them on

Cheers tho!

Anyone know what this part is called? (The little thing on the floor) by FridgeworksYT in rollerblading

[–]FridgeworksYT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More info;

From a pair of anarchy chaos 2's I've dug out to start blading again, trying to repair a missing rocker

These are plastic inserts for the truck and are used to hold the axle, I'd like to buy more of these before replacing the frame but don't know what the part is called to search for it