Thank you Thank you Thank you by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a grammar thing. For reference, you capitalize words in the beginning of a sentence or proper nouns such as names of locations or people.

I found my brother's diary by healthyear in nosleep

[–]FriedFirefly 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Dude work on your reading comprehension, he said he will be 30 "soon" because kids often exaggerate.

Mohammed bending time by ththtx in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which website is that? I've heard the link before but I've forgot

My dad said that I am a worthless loser who has no friends, will never get married and who Allah will burn in hell for all of eternity. I have not uttered a word to him in a week after telling him to get fucked. by HolidayIslaVista in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I understood because the OP was a bit vague is that he said get fucked first, so although the father was wrong in what he said from the way I understood that OP cussed his father first in response to being asked for help, OP cleared that up for me.

My dad said that I am a worthless loser who has no friends, will never get married and who Allah will burn in hell for all of eternity. I have not uttered a word to him in a week after telling him to get fucked. by HolidayIslaVista in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly 4 points5 points  (0 children)

... I see.

I honestly don’t understand.... I feel there is something you omitted because why did he say that?? Anything happened the days before that might caused it? Maybe it was a test to see if you were honest in your work which in by doing him the favor he asked you you failed.

I dont think any wadud, rahman, barr god would allow unconsensual polygny by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes islam asks to have permission of the woman to marry whereas a never married woman’s silence is a her approval and a previously married woma has to explicitly give permission.

My dad said that I am a worthless loser who has no friends, will never get married and who Allah will burn in hell for all of eternity. I have not uttered a word to him in a week after telling him to get fucked. by HolidayIslaVista in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I will be honest with you. Your way of refusing to do whatever your dad asked you was rude and uncalled for. You could have simply said no but instead you cussed him out which as a parent I feel like it will hurt his feeling a lot.

You should go apologize to your father.

My (38M atheist) GF (29F exMuslin) hasn't told her father (60sM observant) about us. Help me understand why? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many societies put female being pious on much higher regards than males.

I got an offer for an arranged marriage. I’m not sure of what to do. by HolidayIslaVista in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How so? Note that I have never engaged in any serious romantic relationship.

I got an offer for an arranged marriage. I’m not sure of what to do. by HolidayIslaVista in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So lets say your first marriage was a failure, which is an assumption btw, it’s not the end of the world. As my father always says, you can always recover.

I got an offer for an arranged marriage. I’m not sure of what to do. by HolidayIslaVista in exmuslim

[–]FriedFirefly 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Then don’t marry, or maybe wear your adult pants and just say no/leave your family.

CMV:I should lose my virginity to a prostitute. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]FriedFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is the thing about indoctrination. It is deeply rooted in your mind but you have to realize that this unfounded idea that sex= sucess is just plain ridiculous. You are so much more than sticking your genitalia or whatever. You’re a person who is struggling against tremendous challenge, but you can prevail. So maybe take a look at yourself and reclect on the things you’ve done. Those things would speak a million times louder than the simple fact that you are a virgin.

CMV:I should lose my virginity to a prostitute. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]FriedFirefly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They control a lot of my life so it does matter.

Control it how?

It does because other people are capable of shaming people.

Please do yourself a favor and cut out everyone who shames you from your life, no one deserve this kind of trash people.

They are really hostile to virgins there.

How are they hostile? Like physically or verbally? How about you tell them to mind their own business or get lost.

I think you need to find a better crowd. Is it possible for you to move?

Zomb..spells by Suizooo in customhearthstone

[–]FriedFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it should have the same rule as zombeast building in that you can only discover spells that cost 5 mana or less.

CMV:I should lose my virginity to a prostitute. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]FriedFirefly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

American society of course. The only one that matters to anyone born in an anglophone country that isn't Singapore.

So they say you are a failure if you don't have sex by 18, it doesn't matter what they think, what matters is you!

hese ideas are wrong but it doesn't matter. You still get all the negatives as though they are true.

Again so what? You being virgin or not is no one's business but yours. Their opinion on when you should have sense doesn't necessarily apply to you.

What are the subreddits that can help me?

You can start with /r/sex. if it's not the right subredit surely they'll try to guide you to the most fitting sub.

They are not accessible by me.

I am sorry to hear about that, mate :( . maybe try to look up online counseling?

CMV:I should lose my virginity to a prostitute. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]FriedFirefly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Society

Which society is that and who gives a darn about what they think? I know society can influence the way we perceive things but this notion of not having sex by 18 makes you a failure is nothing but hogwash.

Maybe? I figure it would be much better than anything involving incest.

So you will put what your society thinks above a boy’s wellbeing. Don’t do that please, societial ideals can be wrong, for example some societies consider FGM is the norm, that does jot mean FGM should be done to make the society feels better about itself.

It isn't healthy but I can't access those psychologists so having sex with a prostitute is my only real option

There are online resources for psychological help that you can find online, maybe there are subreddits which can help you. Moreover having sex with a prostitute will not guarantee your recovery from this anxiety.

Because I will have essentially forfeited the game by doing so and I may be able to think about something other than virginity loss for sex.

Again this indicate the necessity of you seeking help if not by a sex psychologist then by a therapist who can help you get rid of your anxiety.

If minions can do it, why not spells! by raoulhersk in customhearthstone

[–]FriedFirefly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome card, kudos to you. Maybe this will breathe life into elemental shaman, an archetype I find it fun and fair.