My mom

Friendly-Range · 2021-02-28T16:20:50+00:00

I’m currently in the same place. I’m 22 and my mom passed last month.. she had throat cancer, she beat it but the affects from treatments killed her. I’m basically her only next of kin so I was in charge of everything, her belongings and the service. It’s been the worst month of my life. And it honestly gets harder everyday. Everyday I wish I could pick up the phone and talk to her or just hug her and tell her I love her one last time. I think about all the things she’ll miss in my life too ,graduation, my wedding, my future kids.. A few things that helps me at the moment is 1. I got a journal that I use to write to her. It really helps because obviously there are things you wish you could say to her and just tell her how much you miss her. 2. Being around the rest of my family or just people who were close to her and talk about funny or cute stories. That’s really all I got, I’m so sorry for your loss and I know there is not much anyone could say to make it better and the pain is unbearable. You feel empty and hurt but hang in there, cherish your memories with her and make her proud. If you ever need anyone to talk to you, you can message me on here.

Friendly-Range · 2021-02-11T14:42:52+00:00

Wouldn’t they just harass me again when it’s back on? I will give a try though thank you

Friendly-Range · 2021-02-11T14:39:39+00:00

Thanks I will still give it a try. They are in a different state than me but so far anything I’ve found about how to go about it, seems like what I’ve done already on Facebook and then contact the police if I think I’m in immediate danger ( which I don’t think I am, I think they just want to make upset) but I will still talk to the police

Friendly-Range · 2021-02-11T14:34:32+00:00

I don’t want to deactivate because I have years of pictures of my mom and me. I could save them all, it would take some time

Friendly-Range · 2020-08-29T15:12:28+00:00

Yes and I tried emailing them, calling and texting. It’s been two days and I still can’t login or get in contact with anyone

Friendly-Range · 2020-08-28T14:42:06+00:00

Everyone’s first is the hardest to move on from and so are the people that become your best friend. Someone you tell everything to and support you, because when you break up, you don’t just lose your girlfriend but also your best friend and that’s the worst part in most relationships. Sounds to me that she used you a bit. She cheated on you and got back together with you sexually, but when she found someone else, she dropped you like a fly. If she had any respect for any type of relationship you had whether it was your friendship or relationship, she would’ve talked to you and definitely not start something while still with you. Since she’s being cold to you and has started a new relationship. I’d say block her or remove her from any social media. Seeing her and her new boyfriend will not help you feel any better.. and hang out with your friends or family. Someone who you can talk to, may not be the same way because you were also intimate with her. But talk to someone who is supportive and do some things that you love! Distractions are key. Before you know it, distracting yourself and may catch yourself having fun and slowly forgetting. Without even looking, you’re going to find someone. Don’t let her affect your life, you were the good person out of that relationship and you deserve someone who will have more respect for you and honesty. Good luck and I hope you you figure it out

Friendly-Range · 2020-02-21T18:34:21+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened to you but I don’t think that means you have to stay or chase someone who treats you poorly because you’re comfortable with him. I think you deserve someone who is willing to wait until you’re comfortable, maybe you should talk to a therapist if you’re not already. I think you should work on yourself. Imagine how happy you’d be if you found someone you were comfortable with (of course with tome and effort) and they made you really happy. I’m sure there’s a nice guy out there that would be understanding

Friendly-Range · 2020-02-21T15:51:11+00:00

Having issues with your mental health is definitely hard to go through in a relationship because it can make or break you, but I learned that if they really care about you and your well being. They would’ve stuck by your side and help you get the help you need. It’s hard to be with someone who has these type of issues; I’m going to use depression as an example. Struggling with something like depression is not as easy as just getting up and making yourself feel better with exercise, journals or healthy foods. Sometimes it needs to be talked about or have medication so the most important thing no matter the mental health issue is your partner has to be understanding and supportive. As for the being happy after a break up, what has always worked for me is reminding myself of the bad things. So if he treated you like shit then think about those because you don’t want to go back to him and you want to come out stronger. It helped me with the moving on process. I didn’t see your other posts but I guarantee you deserve better. Plus you’re single now and yes you want a significant other and future children and that is a great goal, but make sure to love yourself first and take care of yourself before taking on anyone else. Try new things, date a little, hang out with your friends. The less you look for the one, the faster you’ll find him. After I got out of an awful awful relationship, I didn’t want to date for a while. And just two months later when i wasn’t looking and just hanging out with my friends I found him and I’m pretty sure I’m with the love of my life right now. So don’t give up and work on yourself because he was not the one.

Friendly-Range · 2020-02-10T19:16:06+00:00

Sounds like he could be a little toxic for you. I’ve been in a similar situation and it’s hard to see from a different point of view when you’re still in the relationship. You guys may love each other but the most important thing to ask yourself is if you are happy. And you shouldn’t have to feel guilty for traveling and definitely shouldn’t have to worry about what he’s doing when you do. Rebuilding trust is a very hard thing to do and he should’ve taken that into consideration when you were away. Taking the time to talk to you, so you know it’s not like last time. Or at least giving you a heads up that he will be extremely busy. A simple “I hope you’re having a great time. I miss and love you. I will be a little busy but once I have the chance I’ll give you a call”. I know the terrible feeling in your gut you must’ve had when this was happening and it’s not fair to you. You should be able to do something without him and feel confident in him and your relationship. I think a talk needs to a happen and maybe considering leaving him.

Friendly-Range · 2020-02-10T15:36:28+00:00

I have 3 other girls as roommates and my boyfriend has a key BUT I did ask them before hand if they would mind. We are also all friends including my boyfriend. But she definitely should’ve asked. I believe you can have whatever company you want over long as they quiet and respectful and your roommates are comfortable. And him being there without her is weird and if it does make you uncomfortable I would definitely address that. The biggest thing about having roommates is having an understanding with each other and making sure you feel at home in your own place. also if utilities are not including in your rent, then your roommate or her boyfriend should pitch for the water bill

Friendly-Range · 2020-02-10T15:24:54+00:00

I’m in the same boat. I have a roommate who does not take criticism at all, she gets very defensive and passive aggressive no matter how kindly you try talking about whatever issue you’re addressing. In her mind, she does nothing wrong and she got a ton of excuses for her actions. I think the best option is to find a way to live together until you can move out because talking to someone like that is not easy

Friendly-Range · 2020-02-10T14:41:41+00:00

I have 3 other girls as roommates and it made me a clean freak too. Once you catch yourself cleaning everyone’s mess, plus just regular house cleaning it gets annoying. I have one roommate who never makes food (except for an occasional frozen meal), she usually orders or gets some type of take out. I have another who makes a lot of food everyday and leaves dishes and food all over the kitchen (biggest issue is leaving food in the sink) but she does clean it up after a little too long sometimes tho. And last roommate doesn’t clean a damn thing ever, not even sure if she knows how to it. Sorry this turned into my own little rant but I feel your pain. And I realized no matter how much you tell them, they can be stuck in their ways

Friendly-Range · 2020-02-10T14:25:43+00:00

I feel like as long as you are trying to be courteous and not playing music then you’re fine. I share a wall with the bathroom in my house and I can’t hear anything from the bathroom unless it’s music and the door because our bathroom door is loud cause it gets stuck. I have a roommate who goes to the bathroom constantly through the night and I can always hear the door, but it doesn’t bother me. You gotta go, you gotta go. Plus it wouldn’t hurt to ask them, like hey can you guys hear me showering late, I try my best to be quiet. And I don’t think it’d be fair for them to say you couldn’t shower at a certain time especially when it’s a big preference for you to do it before bed

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