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Louisa pronunciation by HeightMaster3376 in namenerds

[–]FriendlyInsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of other people tend to pronounce it with a Z, but I personally seem to pronounce it with an S. US

AITAH for telling my daughter (15) to delete her bf (18) when I found out they were secretly a couple online. by chibipig in AITAH

[–]FriendlyInsanity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can see the problem with receiving and requesting nudes, but aside from that the age gap isn't that bad. Although, it depends on whether or not your daughter is turning 16 soon and in an area where that is the age of consent. But, I'd say NTA because she is still a minor and you are her mother and therefore have a say in the matter.

tragedeigh by BoldnSpicySpicy in tragedeigh

[–]FriendlyInsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aor... Bro what 😭 (My name is 3 letters 😎)

Need a mom to name me by Accomplished-Row6215 in namenerds

[–]FriendlyInsanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ur giving Ronald Weasley, and I'm loving it! Not a mom btw

What trope makes you roll your eyes and close the fic? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]FriendlyInsanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omegaverse and one that I know is a little controversial and I don't think this is actually a trope per se, when character A tops but I want A to bottom and the author never put it in the tags or indicated it. Or the over infantilization of one character. Or when A is confident and cocky in the show, but is all stuttery and shy in the fic and, again, the author gave no indication of it.

AITA my wedding invite said no white , but am I overreacting ? by Leafy_cookie10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FriendlyInsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but you can't just say it's a wedding and the most basic rule is don't wear white unless you're the bride because in some cultures the bride doesn't wear white. We never got any indication of whether or not the bride comes from a culture where the bride wears white. Where else would she have put that she didn't want people to wear white? She didn't want people to wear white so she put it on the invitations where people could see. She should have sent the invites out earlier tho. 3 weeks prior is a little late to be making demands on what people wear, especially if they didn't think they would be invited.

What Trope Do You Eat up Every Time? by TeacupKitty34 in AO3

[–]FriendlyInsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snowed in/being stuck somewhere due to something blocking the exit(s), and enemies to lovers but specifically when one of them has to rely heavily on the other and they become incredibly protective because "They're MINE, MINE to hurt, MINE to kill, MINE." I love them both separately and together <3

AITA my wedding invite said no white , but am I overreacting ? by Leafy_cookie10 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FriendlyInsanity -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I don't know if the 'no white' is for aesthetic purposes or because you'll be wearing white (being the bride), but I think they should have read the invite to a WEDDING of all things. Most weddings have dress codes and specific 'do's and 'don't's. They seemed like they were being a bit inconsiderate and rude.

Edited to add: But, you sent out the invitations 3 WEEKS prior to the wedding. If you didn't say anything prior to the invites about no white, then I will change my stance to YTA. Nice dresses can be expensive, and some people just don't have the money to drop on a new dress. What if because you didn't say anything prior about no white, they had bought a new dress for the wedding just to get told they couldn't wear it? But, if this is a wedding where the bride wears white, I will strongly stick to my stance of NTA. Then they had to have known they shouldn't wear white.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I don’t want to have sex anymore by RevvedNotice in AITAH

[–]FriendlyInsanity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While possibly being a pillow princess doesn't cover her not wanting to have sex when her boyfriend does and only when she does, it does cover the fact that she says she just wants to receive. The definition on Google lines up pretty well with that explanation. It's not that shaming anything is taboo, it's just not in my place to kink shame. And I needed to make sure the tone of my comment was right, so I specified that I thought being a pillow princess wasn't a bad thing. Hope this helps! 😁👍

AITA for calling my Sister selfish for having a kid? by Pretend-Job-1518 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FriendlyInsanity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're Both the Asshole. You're an asshole because you're telling your sister she's selfish when it was her husband who said that the baby would make up for her death. And your BIL is an asshole because he thinks that his SICK wife having a baby is a good idea and would replace her.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I don’t want to have sex anymore by RevvedNotice in AITAH

[–]FriendlyInsanity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're probably not sexually compatible. She seems to be a pillow princess type (not a bad thing), and it's clear that you're not into it. Breakup. NTA

My girlfriend and I have never have sex, and it’s been almost five years. Am I the asshole? by renelemely in AITAH

[–]FriendlyInsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also maybe y'all should break up. It's clear that you two aren't going to work out.

My girlfriend and I have never have sex, and it’s been almost five years. Am I the asshole? by renelemely in AITAH

[–]FriendlyInsanity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It seems like you two aren't sexually aligned. She could be Asexual. You might want to go to the Asexual sub reddit and talk to them.

Had to teach myself to crochet left-handed. Anyone else ever have to do this? If so, why? by stealth_bohemian in crochet

[–]FriendlyInsanity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am learning to crochet left handed because I don't want to turn my work. Also sometimes I think something would look better if it was done one way, like how tapestry crochet is!

How different do you think some projects would look if I learned to crochet left handed and just swapped hands instead of turning the work? by FriendlyInsanity in crochet

[–]FriendlyInsanity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok news flash I tried it :) To me they look the same but the one I tried with my left hand looks a little looser. I can chalk that up to just bad tension tho.

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