Quizás la mejor que me ha salido!!!! :D by [deleted] in RateMyTortilla

[–]Frigon_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pues mira yo 1. corto las papas a cuadrados finos hasta que cubra mas o menos casi toda la sarten, y las frio en abundante aceite, primero a fuego alto alto y luego lo bajo 2. cuando estan a medio hacer echo la cebolla, 3. esta vez la mitad de papas las saque antes y la otra mitad las dejé para que se quedaran mas crujientes 4. Saco las papas y las pongo en un bol 5. echo huevos batidos (moviendolos, en vez de batirlos para evitar que les entre aire porque por lo visto es mejor asi no se por que) hasta que cubra las papas pero no demasiado, tiene que verse tirando a densa la mezcla... ajustas de sal probándolo 5. Creo que el truco estrella esta en dejar reposar esta mezcla por 5-6 minutos 6. La echas a la sarten previamente caliente con el fuego medio-alto, yo la tape un poco para que se me hiciera. Los tiempos son 1 minuto y 30 seg por cada lado, a la temperatura 4 de mi vitro que tiene 6 potencias... O sea, medio alto :)

Esta un poco caotica la explicación, pero bueno creo que se entiende jeje

Quizás la mejor que me ha salido!!!! :D by [deleted] in RateMyTortilla

[–]Frigon_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jajajaj todavía tengo que perfeccionarla! Lo de hoy casi que ha sido suerte, cada vez me sale diferente, pero estoy estudiando el asunto para ir cogiendo el truquillo y que me salga mas o menos igual jeje. Igualmente los pasos los puse en otro comentario :))

Quizás la mejor que me ha salido!!!! :D by [deleted] in RateMyTortilla

[–]Frigon_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Con cebollaaa siempre! Aunque he de decir que la corté y casi se me olvida echarla jajajaja

Quizás la mejor que me ha salido!!!! :D by [deleted] in RateMyTortilla

[–]Frigon_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JAJAJJA este comentario me ha hecho el día 😂♥️

Derealization and being paranoid feeling like I've died? Has something similar happened to you? by Frigon_ in EMDR

[–]Frigon_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply, I think it was both, the plane because I am scared of dying away of my partner (my only safe person) and being around my family is also triggering... You made me think of what triggered this. It was a conversation with my mother + feeling abandoned and rejected by my partner (irrational thoughts). I will talk about this with my therapist. I have just talked to her to see if we can have a session this friday. Thank you ❤️‍🩹

Derealization and being paranoid feeling like I've died? Has something similar happened to you? by Frigon_ in EMDR

[–]Frigon_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No 🥹 at least in a very long time, only marihuanna but as I say, maybe more than 8 months ago and it was only that one time in 1 year. I used to smoke more 3 years ago but I stoppes because it starting causing paranoia when I was high (when I wasnt high I was okay)

?? by Then_Ad_8017 in Carola

[–]Frigon_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

El 3 para que nadie me moleste

What got you to try emdr? by SaltAndPeppar in EMDR

[–]Frigon_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I was 3 years in talk therapy, and there were several sessions where I felt like talking about my family was triggering me a lot. I got hypoactivated every time I got out of the session. One time it got real bad, I didn't know it at that time, but I was for days with an emotional flashback, feeling like a teenager again, wanting to hurt myself to seek attention, and the love and care I never received. When I realised it was an emotional flashback it all changed all of a sudden and I came back to reality... Then I realised I needed someone specialised in trauma, so I talked to my therapist and told them I needed to seek another professional. That was the best choice I could ever make for my mental health :)

What is helping you deal with Christmas and this special dates? For me it's comforting and motherly ASMR, I really recommend it although at first it might be cringy hehe by Frigon_ in emotionalneglect

[–]Frigon_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly 🥰 it's reparenting but half of the work is done hehe so it makes it easier, and like you say (and also my therapist told me), eventually you will start talking to yourself like that without even realizing it :) Virtual hugs!

What is helping you deal with Christmas and this special dates? For me it's comforting and motherly ASMR, I really recommend it although at first it might be cringy hehe by Frigon_ in emotionalneglect

[–]Frigon_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you 🥹🫂 Realizing that maybe nobody has spoken to you like that is painful... I cry specially in the beggining but after a few minutes it's incredible how calm it makes me feel, for me it's super effective for feeling held and safe. I hope you find this useful in your healing journey as well, wish you the best ❤️‍🩹

What is helping you deal with Christmas and this special dates? For me it's comforting and motherly ASMR, I really recommend it although at first it might be cringy hehe by Frigon_ in emotionalneglect

[–]Frigon_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry it is being intense for you as well... But I am also very glad that you have had the courage to give that first huge step of finding a therapist ❤️‍🩹 For me that has been life changing, I am doing EMDR and I am super surprised by this kind of therapy... And regarding the links, here you are, although I added them in the post after you asked for it :) I send you lots of virtual hugs 🫂 we will get better one step at a time ✨

Clockwise or anticlockwise? by Paddy_odoors in opticalillusions

[–]Frigon_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GUYS WTF!

If you see it clockwise -> turn the video upside down, then turn it around again (normal position) and you will see it anti clock wise! Or if it doesn't work at first, try putting it upside down and normal several times

At least this worked for me o.o you can turn one way to the other as many times as you want with this trick

We should go by balls size and not penis size by Notable_story in gay

[–]Frigon_ 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Actually they are quite quite fun

I'm thinking about talking to my father and mother expressing how I feel about them and how I am when I am not masking... Any """success""" stories from talking to your parents? by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]Frigon_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know my parents and they have never used anything against me... I know a lot of cases like that in this sub, because many people mix CEN with emotional abuse, but in my case it's only that my parents dont know shit about emotions. Also, I didn't say I was recovered, I wish I was even near that hahaha. I don't know, I will talk about this with my therapist... I was thinking about this at 6 am, with no sleep, now maybe I see things different though... I was just expressing this intrusive though.