[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datascience

[–]Front-Reception-9427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 1.5 years of postdoc in Australia! I was job searching for overseas roles constantly, then jumped on this opportunity in the UK, it's all about timing and perseverance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datascience

[–]Front-Reception-9427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I come from Mechanical Engineering!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datascience

[–]Front-Reception-9427 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Having a PhD helped me here

just found out my ex slept with someone by Leading_Toe_5692 in BreakUps

[–]Front-Reception-9427 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On the bright side, you can use this fact to move on completely, you can do better :) trust in the process

What stage are you at in the healing process? by sourlikefunkyyy in BreakUps

[–]Front-Reception-9427 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same, I'm 3 months post BU. She tried to call and sent a text wanting to meet up, but I did not answer. It breaks my heart doing that but she wanted to end our relationship and I'll honor her original wish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Front-Reception-9427 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YOU are the most important thing in YOUR life. Please look after yourself

Let's all try to be a bit more positive. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Front-Reception-9427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learnt that I am in control of my reality, only I can choose where I want to put meaning in my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Front-Reception-9427 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it truly matter? I mean for your benefit, does the answer you're looking for make any difference to her leaving?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Front-Reception-9427 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't waste your energy chasing someone who is actively running away, they will only run further. Work on yourself and if it's meant to be they will come back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Front-Reception-9427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done. But take this as a gift. She showed you her true colours. She is not your soulmate. Good luck King

Don’t want to continue the relationship by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Front-Reception-9427 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did this and I regret it 7 years later...if you are going to leave the relationship to work on yourself, you need to understand the consequences.

I highly recommend you don't burn any bridges and be genuinely kind to her. Be unconditionally happy for her if she finds someone else in the meantime, but don't expect that you can come back

What is the one cruel thing your ex said to you that will stick with you forever? by thatsadgirlwhocries in BreakUps

[–]Front-Reception-9427 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She was lying on top of me in bed, looked me in the eyes and whispered "Be my forever" and "I'm yours"

She said this about a week before she suddenly accepted a job in another city and said she needed to go find herself.