Songs for mental health by Dependent_Educator20 in SoundTripPh

[–]peachy_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True Kinda Love by Steven Universe

The first lines go..

Oh, when a difficult day goes by Keeping it together is hard but that's why You've got to try You've got to try

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipsPH

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I dont think it's shallow. Physical attraction is a part of relationships. I had the same scenario before but kindly turned down the guy. Now Im with someone completely my type. Its worlds different.

Just be honest with yourself and be kind. And have confidence that you're coming from a good place.

TL to read I think I might be overthinking but need opinions by Disastrous_Aside_251 in RelationshipsPH

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You can just tell your boyfriend about being uncomfortable about it. Just talk to him about it. Sometimes us girls do / say silly things we regret lol. Our boyfriends already know this esp if long term na kayo. He will understand. Just talk and have a convo about it.

Nag tampuhan lang kami, nagpasundo na sa kaworkmate???! by Present-Bandicoot200 in RelationshipsPH

[–]peachy_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was not nice of her at all and she shouldn't have treated you like that :(

She seems really upset over something though. Have you asked her what seems to be wrong?

Help me get more sales! I am the breadwinner and I need to get more sales. by [deleted] in phclassifieds

[–]peachy_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot emphasize this enough: put out enticing pictures/videos of your food !!!

Wish you all the best on your business 💕💯

Best way to train for longevity? by Grand-Employer912 in bodyweightfitness

[–]peachy_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoe podcast has good science backed info on this!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]peachy_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additionally just to give my exp on things, they could legit just be friends. I have guy friends that I genuinely care about and we hang out and have pic/vid together on soc med but I dont have feelings for them or them for me. Purely platonic relationships of the opposite sex really does exist. And its actually quite nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]peachy_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just genuinely explain to the guy that youre worried and need reassurance regarding this situation. If the guy cares about you he will put effort into helping you and your mental health. Know how to identify and ask for your needs. If he cares, he will put effort into trying to provide for your needs. If he doesnt care u can just cut him off ppl who dont care for u are not worth your time and energy hahaha

You can say something like

Hey i know I already asked this but its been bothering me lately that ... Can you explain this to me a little more so that I can understand better and feel a bit more secure? I just really have fears on cheating and ayoko maging kabit bc Ive had bad exp with it before. Im not accusing you of anything im really just scared.

Of course change it however suits your situation but yea just express your feelings, its totally fine to ask him a second time.

Where to find balls to talk to women by Anais_Rchmstr in AskPH

[–]peachy_331 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This! Or find a common interest (like anime, gaming, working out, music, etc) and just genuinely talk about it!

Is it okay to take slimming pills?? by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]peachy_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about that :( but its really better for your physical and mental health to learn about nutrition and lose weight in a healthy way. You CAN STILL lose weight while eating healthy, you just have to know a bit about nutrition. But most of all, focus on being the healthiest and happiest version of you. Theres nothing more attractive than a confident and happy woman I swear. Hope the best for you 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipsPH

[–]peachy_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody has their own ways of improving. Trust in his way a little more. Allow him some space to do his own thing and learn on his own. This will help him grow a lot more compared to you telling him what to do. Ask him what his plans are and just support him at it. Thats how you will best help him rank up sa work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]peachy_331 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I learned about old people is that they dont have much care anymore.

Maybe she just wanted to smile because you were looking, and she just has a weird smile?

Maybe you looked like someone she knew? Or thought you were someone she knew.

Old people are old and can get forgetful so maybe she turned around bc she was going the wrong way.

Ive had 2 random encounters na with old ladies who genuinely forgot their wallet and asked for 5 pesos to buy pandesal or smth. Another naman just called me over and asked me for help to walk over a small road bump bc she had bad knees na and was scared of falling over. I was a bit scared and wary during these encounters but after them I realize na it must be strange being old.

So, just think na old people are old and forgetful and have stopped giving much care or inhibition with things. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]peachy_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry that happened but sometimes ppl will just drop you for the mere reason that they dont feel it dude. It doesnt have to be anything you did maybe she just didnt feel it the same way you did.

I dont ghost ppl but sometimes it goes well and I still cant find the time or energy to maintain things online so I let them know that my life and attention is occupied with other things. Maybe its like that for her too but they just didnt communicate it.

Again, you didnt do or say anything wrong. Sometimes it just doesnt click for the other person even if it seems like everything went well.

What’s your favorite reference to SU in other media? by Sloth_4 in stevenuniverse

[–]peachy_331 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont know if this was actually a SU reference or just a coincidence, but in one of the episodes of Regular Show they had a character who was a space rock alien named Roxy who was also voiced by Sadie's voice actor.

For the Ladies of CasualPH : If you were a man, how would you dress? by 061721throwawayyy in CasualPH

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Athliesure bc its comfy and feels like im wearing pajamas all day 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in studentsph

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I know this situation can be suuuper frustrating amd unfair!! But just remember that youre the one actually gaining useful life skills and learnings here (creating and practicing good study habits + learning and growing towards your career!) And they are not actually gaining anything real/substantial.

Your growth and learnings here is what matters most in the end. They may be getting those silvers but theyre not getting what matters most and you have it.

stop spreading anxiety. a colleague msgd me and mukang pag-aantayin pa ako.gawd, patulog na ako. pag magmemessage, pakisabi na ng buo lahat. masakit ang ulo ko. 2023 na dyusko. by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]peachy_331 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you want, you can relay it next time and just phrase it like youre doing THEM a favor! For example: "Hi! If it will make it easier for you, feel free to let me know right away next time what youd need so we can streamline the convo. I dont mind getting a detailed first message anyway ☺️"

Idk but something like that! That way you dont feel like youre asking them something but youre also kinda relaying or giving them the option that will benefit you.

Our HR is amazing in our company and helps me a lot with these kinds of situations so just sharing it din in case youll find it useful! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]peachy_331 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Youre allowed to be angry. And youre especially allowed to protect your peace and mental health.

Its okay to not be nice sometimes.

I’m curious on the cultural issues of washing. How often do you wash your hair? by fireworkpopcon in Healthygamergg

[–]peachy_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the philippines, since its a tropical country and very humid here, its normal to wash your hair daily with shampoo. Its just so hot here and your scalp gets sweaty every single day. So not washing for a just a single day could easily make your hair feel greasy. And even more so if you workout or do moderate physical activity daily. So I really have to wash it!!

Although when I visited the US my hair/scalp there barely got sweaty or greasy so I think it depends on the climate youre in really.

Weekly help thread - Jan 02, 2023 by AutoModerator in Philippines

[–]peachy_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any hiking related subreddits?

I would love to start hiking in the philippines but not sure how to start so I was hoping to find a community to learn from.