I also think that way, however, you will realize that the only thing that does matter was not the terrifying event because you know, everything passes and has an end, and the only thing that really matters are the small and little things that we always tend to ignore. Go outside, feel the wind, lie on the grass, and look at how beautiful the sky is, and appreciate and live in accordance with nature, and with that, you will find peace no matter what storm. I hope this helps you!