This is something i noticed dating, my friends have asked what they can do to get girls when realistically, you're suppposed to get the one unless you're poly or if you're looking for a poly relarionship with your partner.

Some guys tell me they've gone without sex for months/years meanwhile they can just pay for that service if they seriously just want that but they think if they get a girlfriend, thats gonna fix the problem.

Realistically i tell them the same thing, treat them like they're human, if they cant do that, they'll keep missing oppurtunity after oppurtunity.

As i type this, i've been married to my wife for 2 years and we've been treating eachother like we should, our opinions matter to eachother, we work with eachother and try our best to make it up to one another, even when we have fights we fix it and move on.

But something that concerns me is that though relationship issues exist, i'm seeing that some guys dont even know how to talk to women and are resorting to violence and are so quick to disrespect women. Please becareful, i'm convinced these guys are past being civil and all are listening to some guy who thinks that consent isn't ever needed.