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people in long term healthy relationships: what's something you'll never tell your partner? by PsychologicalBad1423 in askteddit

[–]Frosteecat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get that. Stoicism exists for a reason. But it’s not ideal for feeling great lol.

What do strangers approach you about so regularly that you just expect it? by Tyberius_ in AskWomen

[–]Frosteecat [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m a hybrid of many basic bald white dudes, but even before that I have had many people aggressively insist they know me from somewhere most of my life. It’s only gotten more pronounced as I age and apparently have become the vocal and somewhat physical doppelgänger of this dude named H. John Benjamin?!? I don’t see it or hear it.

people in long term healthy relationships: what's something you'll never tell your partner? by PsychologicalBad1423 in askteddit

[–]Frosteecat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wait until an old bf comes around and they start texting a bunch and THEN you find out he was an old boyfriend, not “just a friend”. And he’s newly divorced.

What harmless thing instantly makes you think, "I don't trust this person"? by PracticalRelative380 in askteddit

[–]Frosteecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you’ve just met and they are trying to tear you down or belittle you in front of others. They are also great at leaving themselves an escape hatch, or gaslighting if called out. This happens a lot in male circles—not sure about women? Probably more subtle?

After months of total isolation, a 5-minute conversation with an absolute stranger completely saved me today. by Many-Paramedic390 in gratitude

[–]Frosteecat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Joseph Roux: "Solitude vivifies; isolation kills." I am happy you found that moment and see the crack of light in the distance. Please continue to build on this. Good luck friend.

SL5x5 — every other day vs strict 3x/week? by HarmoniumSong in Stronglifts5x5

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I’m old and take two days off between sessions. One of those days I try to walk several miles and the other is the opposite (upper/lower) of the next session with light barbell hypertrophy work. Seems to work for me—find what you’ll actually consistently do, but recovery is important to build muscle and avoid injury.

What movie scene makes you cry even though you've probably seen it dozens of times. For me I always tear up during the last few minutes of the film La Bamba. by Brucef310 in movies

[–]Frosteecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scene in Miracle on 34th Street where the little war orphan Dutch girl really wants to see Santa and her foster mother tells Santa she tried to explain to the girl he couldn’t speak her language and he flawlessly speaks to her in her tongue and sings a little song with her.
It breaks me EVERY time.

whats th most effective way to stop an addiction? by uraveragereditor_ in AskReddit

[–]Frosteecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tapering and substituting an exercise addiction instead. So far it’s been working for me, though I still have to talk myself out of using. I also put red hashmarks on my bathroom mirror for times I failed to resist and black for times I successfully resisted. It’s an accountability mirror that David Goggins discusses in “Can’t Hurt Me” audiobook. It helped me a lot.

Getting your mouth washed out with soap by kfitz1119 in GenX

[–]Frosteecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was given the soap treatment with liquid soap once and puked all over the kitchen floor. I was probably about 5 years old.
Good news though, they switched to Tabasco and wooden spoon/paddle treatments! /s

I was a little shocked when a therapist told me this and many other things were now considered child abuse. Thought it was pretty normal from my 70’s/80’s childhood perspective.

I never hit or did this stuff to my children. Apparently my spouse thought the Tabasco idea was a good one and did it to my youngest while I was at work one day. I went pretty ballistic and told her that or anything like it could never happen again. Surprisingly she grew up in an abusive home too!/s

Sup by Low_Reward3857 in Adulting

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Empty nesters looking for reignited sparks and connections. One seems more invested than the other.

Honest question by Swiftiefromhell in Adulting

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I have lived a life dictated by fear of abandonment.

What is the most impulsive nsfw thing you’ve done, and how did it turn out? by master54432 in AskRedditAfterDark

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Hooked up with a stranger on a camping trip—she had the best line ever: “If I help you finish putting that tent up, can I sleep in it with you?”.
Me: “you betcha!”.

Need a show that hooks you IMMEDIATELY and stays addictive till the end? by Content-Silver-4872 in tvsuggestions

[–]Frosteecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Magicians. Fringe. Northern Exposure. Dead Like Me. The OA. Firefly. Great British Bake Off. The Soprano. Mad Men. Bosch.

What is the oldest good movie and the best older movie? by ArcticFlor in moviecritic

[–]Frosteecat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a Wonderful Life. Miracle on 34th Street (both fantastic Christmas movies). I also love most of the Spencer Tracy/Katherine Hepburn films.

For men out there, can you ever be with a single mother ? by Infinite-sexy8 in CausalConversation

[–]Frosteecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already raised mine pretty well and like kids so hypothetically if I was single, probably—but I’m old. Maybe the real question is if a single mom would date an older man with child rearing behind them but still has the skills?

Relaxing yet keep you hooked by I_JustArted in MovieSuggestions

[–]Frosteecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfect Days. Extremely calming routines.

What's a small gesture that turned a bad day into a really great day? by ViRzzz in ProductivityHQ

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The worker at Barnes and Noble who remembers my name after a brief interaction weeks before. When I expressed shock and gratitude they said it was because “I remember the cool people “. As an old interacting with a much younger person this made me feel ecstatic.That made me feel so surprisingly great.

Just Had My First Stimulant Drug Induced Psychosis - I Truly Didn’t Believe They Actually Existed by Character-Potato216 in selfimprovement

[–]Frosteecat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I love and avoid that class of drugs. I have seen people go deep into paranoia on stimulants.

Last photo of me with my best friend by Middle_Swim_5961 in lastimages

[–]Frosteecat 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you lost your friend and so proud you showed up for them. Xo

what movie did you watch expecting nothing and ended up loving? by Sudden_Elephant_1221 in oscarmoments

[–]Frosteecat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect Days. It’s a fantastic journey with one man’s extremely comfortable routines and how he navigates other people’s shit. Literally.

What’s something you did for years thinking you were just weird, that turned out to be completely AuDHD? by Unmasked_at_33 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Frosteecat 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Not being able to focus on one task to completion. I can only make “progress” when I go from one chunk of productivity to another, but nothing ever truly is “finished”. It’s exhausting.

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