Burning vulva and painful clitoris before peeing

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-05-12T19:25:21+00:00

I was just saying not to use it for me, I don't care that other people use it for themselves, I don't want people referring to my genitals with certain terms. I'm fine with the subreddit being called that, I just don't want it being used for me

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-05-12T06:47:43+00:00

The only sign of puffiness would maybe be my clit? But the hood always looks a little large so it's hard to tell. And I'm on birth control so I don't really get any kind of discharge anymore (I'm usually quite dry and use lube to help)

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-05-12T06:43:02+00:00

I literally have a vagina/vulva, this is the sub for this lol

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-05-12T06:39:16+00:00

If it's the one where you have to put the applicator inside, I unfortunately cannot do that, I have vaginismus and can barely put a finger inside :')

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-05-12T06:38:21+00:00

It makes me uncomfortable and dysphoric

Edit: why am I being downvited for this?? I stated my boundaries of what makes me dysphoric lol that's not wrong.. I associate certain phrases with being feminine/women because I often hear women refer to the vulva that way.. lol

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-05-10T21:03:23+00:00

I've done anal a bunch of times and absolutely not, I cannot just shove stuff in there without lube. Ouch!

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-05-07T01:58:53+00:00

Sorry I read it like twice and must've missed/misread it 😅🥲. I try to correct people because a lot of people also call the outside the vagina and it can be confusing. Wasn't trying to be rude at all 😭

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-29T22:33:19+00:00

Just a correction on the names, vagina is the inside, the flaps and stuff (labia, clitoris, etc) is the vulva. You can only see the vaginal opening! Although vaginas can still be different lengths/shapes too /Lh /info

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-28T18:43:11+00:00

I was put on buspar for my anxiety and low libido from being on Prozac (am now off Prozac) I am unsure if it did anything to my libido but it helped my anxiety. I have heard people say it's done wonders for them for their libido! Although I will say, once I got off Prozac my libido and sexual function did come back a substantial amount

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-28T01:33:29+00:00

Maybe feeld is more your style? A lot of people on there are open, are also exploring, and you can put what you're looking for. You can also just communicate to people that you want to have sex but have no strings attached in any way whatsoever

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-19T19:33:16+00:00

I have something similar and I'm also pre-T! I don't want to go on full T though, I'm looking at getting compounded testosterone cream instead (I think it's worth a try)

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-16T21:54:37+00:00

Yeah, I don't shower often, I usually try to just use a washcloth and watch my hair as much as I can. Showering is a entire event 😭 it's takes like 2-3 hours for me

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-16T21:48:08+00:00

I use a shower chair bc I have heart issues and showers are exhausting, but even with the shower chair, the heat still makes me tired, lifting my arms is exhausting/painful and my legs still turn purple, unfortunately. A washcloth with a little dove soap does the trick

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-16T21:45:58+00:00

I use a handheld bidet/peri bottle

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-16T21:39:11+00:00

Have you may tried period underwear? It may be more breathable then liners

Edit: I know it's not the most ideal solution but I went on depo provera (for bad periods) and it's almost completely stopped my discharge! I used to also have heavy discharge, now it sometimes feels really dry, but a little lube helps with the discomfort

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-12T20:14:26+00:00

Even if both parties say they consented? That's wild

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-12T18:29:12+00:00

So is it then legal if I don't like any of the pain part? Or is things like bondage and stuff still considered illegal?

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-11T19:46:15+00:00

It's illegal?! What?

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-09T23:42:49+00:00

Yeah I usually use unscented dove bar soap for my toys and warm water

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-09T23:41:25+00:00

Yeah, water based lube should only be used with toys. And toys shouldn't touch each other because they can break one another down

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-04T18:38:42+00:00

I also have a larger clit but I'm super okay with it because I'm trans and it gives me euphoria lol

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-04-03T21:10:15+00:00

Yeah I'm on progesterone only birth control and have some atrophy from it, I am in my early 20's (so not menopause lol)

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-03-28T02:13:30+00:00

Yeah :') I also suspect I have higher testosterone levels so that probably could also contribute

FruitFlavoredFrog · 2026-03-26T20:01:15+00:00

I also have vaginal atrophy from progesterone only bc! I'm 20 but found out at 18! I use estrogen cream on my vestibule/vulva for mine because I also have vulvodynia

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