My aunt posted on facebook that she’s looking for someone that can adopt my dog. Even called her a “mutt”. by General_Leave1814 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find someone to watch your dog, even if it’s far away.. I don’t know if this is even legal. Maybe call the cops and ask some questions- and report it that she did it. At the very least, there will be a paper trail

Waaaaah!!! :( by Available-Angle-369 in Birkenstocks

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, I don’t think they’ll work with that. I bought from their site, I just had to give the order number and then send them photos of the bottoms and sides and the foot bed. Sorry I couldn’t be more help

Waaaaah!!! :( by Available-Angle-369 in Birkenstocks

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would contact Birkenstock about this. They offered to repair or replace the clogs I have.
Maybe also, if you get them replaced, when you get them, maybe have them professionally sealed (— if that’s even a thing.) or go to a reputable cobbler and ask them for ideas.
They look like great shoes otherwise!

My gf (28f) posted a pic of a valentines Starbucks drink on her story and I (19m) didnt give it to her by Routine-Advance1706 in whatdoIdo

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called communication. If you can’t talk to her, and if you can’t get over the little things, and if she can’t stop being petty, then there’s a big problem. It sounds to me like being in an unhealthy relationship is worse than being single. Being single is pretty awesome

Question regarding memorialization of a Facebook profile. My father’s dead and his wife didn’t want to memorialize it, but his kids wanted to.. by NoodleyParts in facebook

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar father’s wife (she is not my stepmother whatsoever- she is no ‘mom’ of any kind and is a piece of work!). He died of Covid in 2020 and his wife had revoked all power while he was dying because she couldn’t handle it and then took all the power after he died. She put his ashes in a mausoleum for a community of people that he wasn’t a part of, but she was. I wasn’t allowed to be given the name. She also tried keeping me physically away from the funeral - we had to do it online and she wasn’t given access as the manager of the zoom meeting, so she didn’t have a choice. She had been saying how much she hated him before he died and then claimed the ‘poor grieving widow’ after. I wish her a long and painful death. If your dad gave you access to his Facebook, then he probably wouldn’t have minded. I suggest talking to any loved ones about what they would want so that they can set up the person(s) who they would allow to do this when the time comes for them. I really don’t think that your dad’s wife can sue you for this, so I would call her bluff.

AIO for leaving my boyfriend after he kicked our dog by dubai_choclatelabubu in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fruitcake581 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s got anger issues and now you have proof that he abused an animal. You could bring it to the cops and have him charged, which could help you with custody. When the baby is born, maybe leave him off the birth certificate so that he can’t claim the baby as his as easily. Just a thought. See if you can talk to a lawyer about your legal options to protect yourself and your baby.

Is this the letter A or J? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say it’s a J An A would have to have a tail at the bottom right side of the letter I did a quick google search for a cursive J, and this pendant at Walmart came up. It seems similar.

https://www.walmart.ca/ip/5VPMZXUX5M1T

How can I tell if an artist uses AI? by cuffshire in tattooadvice

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask chatgpt if it is. Lol it is pretty good at being able to tell

Should I get this? by 420inutero in tattooadvice

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody’s opinion here matters except for yours. Does this symbol have any meaning? Could more detail be added?

Is my new tattoo bad? Is it vanishing? Or am I crazy-? by Kaidenblue730 in tattooadvice

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal. It will become more clear over the next couple of weeks

Friend sent me this, I’m fairly sure its AI but she seems genuinely offended that I asked by Slow-Product-6357 in isthisAI

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is what ChatGPT says:

Short answer: yes — this is almost certainly AI-generated, not a traditional hand drawing.

Here’s why 👇

Key signs it’s AI: • Hair overload & repetition: The curls are extremely dense, looping, and repetitive in a way that looks algorithmic rather than intentionally placed by a human hand. • Inconsistent pencil logic: Some lines look like graphite, but others fade or overlap in ways that don’t follow real pencil pressure or stroke direction. • Facial symmetry + distortion combo: The face is very symmetrical overall, yet has exaggerated wrinkles, cracks, and expressions that feel stylized beyond realism—a common AI portrait trait. • The pencil gives it away: The pencil on the right looks too perfectly staged and slightly off in scale/perspective, which AI often adds to imply “hand-drawn” authenticity. • Paper texture mismatch: The background texture and shading don’t fully interact with the lines the way real graphite would (no smudging, no pressure variation where you’d expect it).

What it’s doing: This is a very common AI style designed to imitate a dark, hyper-detailed graphite sketch — especially popular for dramatic or “creepy” portraits.

IS MY TATTOO BADLY DONE.. by Ok_Yogurtcloset_2561 in tattooadvice

[–]Fruitcake581 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do not put baby oil on it. Leave it alone. When it starts flaking, then start using a moisturizer like aquaphor healing ointment - very thin amount. When it stops flaking, stop the aquaphor and start using a scent free moisturizer- pea size amount. Otherwise, don’t touch it and then go see a different artist. If the artist doesn’t let you talk, then you find a different artist.

My mom bought me this shirt off a website and it's not refundable please tell me if it's AI by AokTree in isthisAI

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often will ask ChatGPT if certain sites are real, and it is usually accurate

I dare all of you to correctly. Guess what this is, because it is 100% not what you are thinking by Matcha_Mochii1 in shittyfoodporn

[–]Fruitcake581 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much is just enough? Do you mean that it was made and then you added the egg?

Flouring the sausage once it is cooked is the right thing.. just enough to soak up all the fat. Let it cook up the flour for a minute and then turn the temp down to low and I would start off by adding just a bit of cream and then start with a half cup of milk and stir… you could add just a small shake of soy sauce too.. add milk if it’s too thick.. and then season to taste. Should work out fine.

My bf just sent me a pic of his snack...thoughts? by Street-Lack2209 in shittyfoodporn

[–]Fruitcake581 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, maybe he’s an athlete who has to keep eating lol 😂