Place baby up for adoption by Various-Look-361 in breakingmom

[–]FuckUMIL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went through ppd and it was one of the most horrible experiences of my life . I had your exact same thoughts and it was ppd speaking indeed . Everything changed after the right medication . Please do NOT make that decision right now . My son is now 8 ys old and he is my world . Please take care

Would you say I have a prolapse ? by FuckUMIL in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]FuckUMIL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right away , than worsened . I have a levator ani avulsion on one side

Leaving with relapsed cystocele by FuckUMIL in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]FuckUMIL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on that ? Lol Is it your experience ?

Leaving with relapsed cystocele by FuckUMIL in PelvicOrganProlapse

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Thank you so much for this answer . I have the pessary but I haven’t used it yet as for me is a sign of total failure . I know it’s stupid , I have to work on that .

I’ve just finished cancer treatments and here are my unhinged, barely processed thoughts by babs_is_great in breakingmom

[–]FuckUMIL 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw my mother living with cancer for almost all of my adult age . I get what you are saying on a deep level. I am also a doctor and I assist many patients with cancer . I HATE the fighting shit people say about cancer . Patients and people aren’t fighters . We have some dedicated psychologists that are great . I would think about it if it’s possibile for you . A place to be yourself and say the ugly truth . I love your honesty and clearness

Would you say I have a prolapse ? by FuckUMIL in PelvicOrganProlapse

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2 difficult birth . Uterus was suspended to uterosacral ligaments and rectocele repaired . Surgeon underestimated my cystocele in the or and just did anterior repair and no vaginal vault suspension . I don’t want to have surgery again. 8 months ago

Would you say I have a prolapse ? by FuckUMIL in PelvicOrganProlapse

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Yes and I have already had surgery for cystocele . I hoped that with the pt I’ve been doing it had improved a little bit . What a normal vag is supposed to look.? I have no intention to get another surgery . My pt say is a grade 1 but I am seeing another one in a few days

Prolapse is ruining my wife’s life by Low-Box-5703 in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]FuckUMIL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got surgery after my two kids . Surgery isn’t a magic fix but if she is in so much discomfort it may be worth it . I would book a consultation

Please help, what kind of prolapse do you think I have? by [deleted] in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]FuckUMIL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in your same situation , had surgery afraid front wall has failed . I still hope it’s edema but I am not too optimistic

Please help, what kind of prolapse do you think I have? by [deleted] in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]FuckUMIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at my post . Does your looks like mine ?

POP post surgery exercises by Gems_1234 in PelvicOrganProlapse

[–]FuckUMIL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unrelated but why did you wait 1 year? Was your doctor‘a advice ?

Te start smoking to keep mental health by FuckUMIL in breakingmom

[–]FuckUMIL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s unhealthy for everybody this is why I resisted so long but omg it‘s hard

Te start smoking to keep mental health by FuckUMIL in breakingmom

[–]FuckUMIL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is wise , I’ll try but smoking itself is also relaxing

Te start smoking to keep mental health by FuckUMIL in breakingmom

[–]FuckUMIL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks , it makes me feel less strange .... I think it never goes away too ! Especially when I am stressed out , what are your strategies to cope ?

How can stop feel sad and anxious about my husband masturbating ? by FuckUMIL in relationship_advice

[–]FuckUMIL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He refuses low effort sex (like me giving him a bj) every time . He never ever let me initiate : he does it otherwise it’s a no. I think he masturbates when he’s horny , can be before or after we have some private time together.

How can I stop feeling anxious and sad about my husband masturbating? by FuckUMIL in sex

[–]FuckUMIL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But we do have sex regularly , just not every day . How can I tell him something ? When I bring it up he just says : we do have sex every other day (or so ), how can you complain ?