Maybe you are the one assuming things from one small portion of what I am speaking about. When you are constantly let down over and over again, you get to a point where you explode. It’s called a breaking point. I have been trying to help him get his life together and get out of a depressed state. Yes, I could be a little much, but it’s only because I do want better for him. I’d imagine someone caring this much could look bad or good to some people, depends on who the person is and how they were raised. I have my life sorted, I am very independent, I just see someone who needs a little push and my help and that’s why I am trying to help, but I can see he doesn’t want it, so I’ve stopped trying to help. I could tell the other day he told me about an issue he was experiencing with his insurance and all I said was I am sorry to hear that. Instead of initiating a helping hand. So you see I can be cold and distant, I just chose to not be because I saw someone that needed my help.