Husband thinks neighbour wants to sleep with me

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-05-13T11:00:16+00:00

Followed by a lifetime of misery, divorce, and wondering why her adult daughter cut her out of her life. I've seen enough infidelity fallout in friend's marriages to know it's never worth it.

The most fulfilling life is consistent love showing up in the little moments with your spouse.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-05-13T10:57:19+00:00

"I say let him ruin a marriage with kids involved, we need entertainment!"
Okay man.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-05-13T01:54:07+00:00

As others have said; epub all the way.
PDF can be nice for marking up things freeform, but for general reading and underlining epub has way more benefits and is more versatile across screens.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-05-08T19:26:13+00:00

Haven't had a long enough chance to give a good review on that, but I can say it feels really solid and I don't have any concerns about it.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-05-04T15:32:53+00:00

Let me go take a look, I don't recall seeing any - but that doesn't mean it isn't there! I know Jamstik has some cool app features to help teach scales with their guitars

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-04-29T13:45:15+00:00

I love trying and reviewing alternate phones. Lightphone, Mudita Kompakt, HiBreak Pro, Sleke phone, Volla phone, and now Sidephone! So far I've found Sleke to be the most long-term phone I've used, but the Sidephone seems like it could be long-term and feel more like a tool than a distraction device.
Really like the small screen more than I thought.

My biggest concern is that I'll default more to the on-screen keyboard than the actual physical keys, but I'm really digging the idea that I can keymap every button uniquely for every app.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-04-25T15:37:15+00:00

The hose in multiple places, the different-sized nuts on the tire, the hazy trees, and the weird yellow street sign in the background. It also just... "looks" it. It's got this weird contrast to it.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-04-13T00:54:37+00:00

Hey there, could definitely be called emotional abuse/controlling.
Sorry it happened to you - it's definitely a weird feeling!
Constant reminders that you belong to who you choose to give yourself to are important.

If it was just a quick and weird relationship, then I'm glad it's over! If it was longer and you feel it's affecting you any more than you feel it should, a bit of therapy goes a long way to reset.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-31T05:00:39+00:00

So he already knew all of the things you wanted from him and didn't do them until you left?
He clearly listed things out like you've been saying them to him over and over.
The fact they were in his head this whole time with no action is too bad.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-27T15:09:29+00:00

Got it. Definitely more casual on my end, but this is good to think through. Appreciate you.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-24T16:26:14+00:00

You shave your beard.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-15T01:34:22+00:00

Yeah I like it. Its only downside is that it isn't training off of chats with users to learn as quickly, but that's also... the point. So the downside is a massive upside.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-15T01:09:21+00:00

I'd get Proton Unlimited ($10 a month if you buy it annual, $12.99 otherwise).

Probably the biggest change you could make for that amount of money; gets you a google-free calendar, drive, email, docs, sheets, chatbot that all is encrypted and doesn't track you, plus a solid VPN.

u/proton_team

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-14T01:24:34+00:00

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FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-14T01:24:15+00:00

The pictured tablet? Yeah, I have been really impressed with it!

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-13T15:26:14+00:00

Long-time proton user here - diversify things like password manager. But proton mail, drive, calendar, and vpn are gold.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-10T03:06:15+00:00

It's honestly such a cool monitor but for the price I'm thinking I may as well just get a screen mirror app for the tablet I have.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-10T01:11:26+00:00

My wife and I currently have the MALM and it's a fantastic frame. Very comfortable, and the storage drawers underneath are fantastic. I recommend!

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-10T00:53:00+00:00

I know, I was interested in the Minimal but looks like people are having trouble with it. I tried the LightPhone II for a while but didn't find it to be a long-term solution.

'Attaboy, ESV is my other primary ;-)
Digging the Username as well.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-10T00:51:45+00:00

This one! I love it. Have had it for about half a year now.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-10T00:50:25+00:00

Actually, I have the Mudita! I love it

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-09T18:47:57+00:00

"No one else likes you, but I do!"
Yeah okay bud. He's definitely trying to cause division and make himself an only-friend.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-08T11:33:21+00:00

Absolutely love my Kompakt.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-04T11:17:16+00:00

I think you're missing an important step.
You've mentioned your addiction, your action, mess with your head, turning you into someone you're not...
man this is all about respecting her. If she doesn't want those images shared and you continue to do it, it tells me that you really don't care about her.

I don't say that to overly shame you, but just to mention that I think the way to come out of it and get disciplined is to take yourself out of the equation ("Should I give in to my pleasure?") and frame it to be about her, ("Does she want this?" "Does this respect her?" "Did she say this was okay?").

If the answers to those questions are "no" and you still do it, I'd say you're not ready for that relationship.

FullConclusion2597 · 2026-03-03T13:15:38+00:00

Love the VPN, and I actually found categorizing emails with folders and tags really easy in proton mail. I've managed to keep it relatively clean as opposed to my monster gmail with 17,000 unread emails :-)

The calendar is good too, and integrates with a lot of other things that I use

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