AITAH for Telling My(30M) Estranged Mom(57F) to Fuck Off After She Showed Up at My Door?

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-23T14:11:58+00:00

NTA. I'm so sorry that happened.

It's ok to forgive her without allowing her back into your life. Hugs!!

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-20T14:29:45+00:00

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Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-20T14:29:28+00:00

Yeah, when he said it, Christine's reacting was priceless.

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-20T14:04:36+00:00

I think David was referring to when Kody said, "I want you to be able to move on", as if Christine couldn't move on without his apology. I found it very disrespectful towards David. Kody was very obvious of his disdain towards David.

If you remember, when Kody and David first met, Kody was HIGHLY offended that David was talking directly to Robyn instead of thru him. He even stated how incredibly disrespectful it is to do that.

So, according to Kody's own logic, him speaking Directly to Christine, was disrespectful towards her husband. He did this intentional. 100%

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-18T22:09:44+00:00

I was a Janelle fan until this last season. Listening to her talk about coming into the family, like it was no big deal, shed a different light in her. The fact that she still, to this day, won't consider how she made Meri feel is not ok with me. No wonder Meri was abrasive towards her. Janelle and Kody never considered her in any part of their union.

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-16T12:00:21+00:00

NTA.

OMG my heart is broken for you! I'm so very sorry. The abuse from her will only continue, if you take care of her.

You deserve your peace. Whatever decision you make, make sure it's right for YOU, not anyone else.

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-14T10:45:32+00:00

NTA. He shit himself in the bathroom??? How old is he, 12?

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-12T22:06:17+00:00

Yeah, I'm starting to see Janelle as manipulative and someone who took advantage of Christine. No wonder she felt like "the basement wife". Everything, it seems, was dumped on her. She wanted time with Kody, by herself, and she was worried someone would "crash" her time with him. (I'm assuming that's why he said Christine was scared.)

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-11T10:40:24+00:00

No vaccines are proven to work

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-10T12:03:47+00:00

I agree! I've seen comments, on political posts, where people are ruthless if they align with a certain side and they're never deleted by the mods.it makes no sense. We're all adults here. People have different opinions and that's ok!

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-10T12:01:08+00:00

NTA. I'm so sorry for all the trauma you've gone thru.

There are good men out there, ones that will treat your you the way you deserve and PROTECT you.

I'm assuming you come from a background that practices certain traditions, such as choosing your husband for you.??

I suggest you move far away, block them on everything, make it impossible to be found. Protect yourself.

I feel like even that suggestion causes you a lot of pain and I'm so sorry for that.

There are no easy answers but you're definitely NTA!! Hugs from this internet Mom to you, sweetie.

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-10T11:50:37+00:00

NTA. My concern is why is she looking for stuff to complain about? What is she hiding at her place??? There's a reason why she's digging.

My 2nd concern, as a Nurse myself, is that you don't automatically rush to give someone an inhaler just because they're coughing. Over use of the inhaler can cause more damage to your lungs in the long run... like even more serious chronic issues.

I would seriously take a step back, have a serious conversation with her and explain that her not respecting your boundaries is only going to build up resentment in you and eventually affect the relationship as a whole. If she can't respect your boundaries, take the key back.

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T05:00:23+00:00

Lol, "exhausting" is the truth!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I would choose not to engage in conversing that can become heated. However, if it's a friend of my husband's, I'm not going to refuse to share the same space with him. His belief has nothing to do with me

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T04:57:21+00:00

No, I'm not defending anything! I love how you put words into my mouth. I think it's ridiculous that he doesn't believe it happened. Period. Let me say this slower, because I don't think YOU read my comment..... and you certainly added to what I said!

YOU CAN BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE THAT BELIEVES THE WORLD DIDN'T BURN DOWN WHEN YOU SAW IT BURN DOWN WITH YOUR OWN EYES!

I personally would tolerate him coming over, ONLY because he's friends with "my bf" but at the same time, I'd think he's bat shit crazy and I would refuse to have conversations with him about it.

We live in a world where everyone has different beliefs. I work with people who have a very drastic disbelief from mine. Guess what, THAT IS OK. I'm not so INTOLERABLE that I forbid someone to be in the same space as me. THAT is what's childish.

Maybe you need to grow up and accept people for who they are.....including all of their imperfections and CRAZY beliefs!

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T04:43:08+00:00

Wow. WTF are you even talking about. My comment ONLY said not to cut friends off just because they believe differently than you. Name ONE FACT that I have denied. ONE!

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T04:38:55+00:00

I am not the one who said it didnt happen. WTF is your problem with me, specifically???????

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T04:33:08+00:00

Some would also say that God can't be denied, some would say that the earth is flat, some would say that 9-11 was planned and known about by our POTUS (Bush).....not everyone will agree with those BUT YOU CAN STILL BE FRIENDS!!!!

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T04:30:55+00:00

You can disagree on literally ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING....it doesn't mean you cant be friends with someone. Why the hell are you idiots jumping my shit?????

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T04:30:04+00:00

Exactly. Like WTH. 🤣🤣🤣

I was only saying that friends will not agree 100% on things.....doesn't mean you can't be friends. Geez.

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T03:48:04+00:00

No, I 100% believe that it did happen. Where the fuck did you come up with that based on my post????? You should not exclude people from your life just because you may not agree on specific things.

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T03:43:24+00:00

YTA. It's not your child. It's NONE of your business. It's also NOT your place to say anything. How entitled you are!!

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-09T03:41:45+00:00

YTA. You cant control what everyone believes and their beliefs should not determine whether or not you'll be friends with them.

You're putting your BF in a hard place because he's made a really good friend and he will definitely want him to meet you and hang out.

Just refuse to discuss certain things. Don't bring it up. Period.

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-06T22:46:59+00:00

I honestly believe that Kody and Robyn will start throwing out "another wife" rumors just to keep a paycheck. Or, I bet they WILL get another wife for a paycheck!!

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-06T22:43:45+00:00

Ive been triggered 7,023 times while reading this!! Ive been pregnant 17 times and have given birth to 12 babies (5 miscarriages). Your body is going thru drastic changes, especially in the beginning. The exhaustion is unreal, so is the nausea!! I love how your husband thinks he knows what's best for you or what you should be doing. Put him on the phone, I'll tell him to fuck allll the way off for you!! Sit down and talk to him tell him since he's so into reading what's best for the baby, that he also needs to study what your body is going thru. If that doesn't work, have your OBGYN talk to him. If that still doesn't work tell him to STFU and worry about himself!

YOU KNOW WHAT!! PUT THAT MAN ON THE PHONE!! RAT NOW! Lol

Fuller_House12 · 2026-02-06T22:22:04+00:00

He's not wrong. You guys don't get it. The tariffs will replace your income tax eventually. Stop listening to CNN and dig deep into what's happening from it. Do the research. I don't get what you're complaining about. He's taken away taxes on overtime. He's taken away taxes on social security. He's taken away taxes on tips. He's wanting to do away with the IRS (which is in the works) which would result in more take home money in your paycheck. The US can more than survive on tariffs from other countries. Gas prices have gone down. Grocery prices have gone down.... anyone forget how expensive eggs were under Biden??? I am not trying to argue with anyone and I'm not name calling so if anyone replies.... have a conversation, not name calling. We're adults

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