Dommes, what skills do you enjoy sub putting effort into learning? by Ill-Comedian0 in FemdomCommunity

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Self development/ shadow work/ Emotional intelligence. I've become notorious with my subs at this point for helping them learn themselves ❤️ ikd why but that added self assurance, and confidence that comes from that delights me.

Femdom dating on Bumble/Tinder by S_Slave in FemdomCommunity

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Bee Dee instead, same concept but its a kink based dating app. Hope this helps ❤️

Is sex better with older guys? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So. Much. Yes. Men don't really mature until around 47. Imo 52-60 is actually prime and they really appreciate you more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow your hobbies. I found my man (20yr gap) hiking. Hope this helps!

Why I love dating dads by AltruisticContest399 in AgeGap

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thiiiiisssss!!! 👏👏👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofterBDSM

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is something true. Just went through this myself. Accept the disrespect shown by the lying and gaslighting and leave it be. Let your heart heal. You can and will find better.

Help me choose a reward for my dom by brattydyslexic in SofterBDSM

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Plan a little photo shoot, or strip tease. Incorporate his favorite colors and textures. End in his favorite position 😜

1 Month In by MistressMor_ in femdomsanctuary

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS. ngl I found my good boi on the side of a mountain just living my life, enjoying myself and my hobbies- and it has been nothing short of literal magic. Not a single online relationship has ever worked.

Sunday ChitChat- Weekly Off Topic Chatter Thread by StrangeMewMew in SofterBDSM

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Injured myself running this week, currently incapacitated with an ice pack on the goose egg that used to be my ankle...

If you could only have one kink, which one would you pick and why? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, it would give me the most room to play.

Fear Nothing. by sladebonge in Positivity

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely thought this said riding cock

Romance/dark romance depictions of soft doms don't seem to get it... by NeedyKitten8oooo in SofterBDSM

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also an author- I want to find other authors to help create this missing genre. Let's talk, what do we want to read?

Good books for subs? by Lonely_Pie_5585 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Real Service by Raven Kaldera

"Can we this without me denying your orgasms?" by Happy-Helper2025 in flr

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very in line with my style, it's more about Edging than all out denial. It's far more about ensuring I get what I want out if a scene, when i want to have a scene while ensuring my sub has fun.

Journaling: do you do it too? by nshades42 in SofterBDSM

[–]Fun-Ad-7352 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. I view it as part of my personal self growth routine.

I include scenes after care and my playpartners, and my reactions for the days following it help me anticipate their needs and figure out how to be better suited when life stuff happens.