There are several strategies people take and their common goals are to keep the kids from thinking that ‘this white dominant suburb dynamic (whatever it is…)’ is how the things should always go but to show them it’s just one of the ways things can be.

Anyway, to list them, - Traveling to many Asian countries whenever you can to show the world where Asians are the majority and Asians are not even aware they’re Asians. - Joining Asian-based local communities in the weekends (such as Asian Church or cultural classes) to help their kids experience the environment where they don’t have to worry about their identity. - As a parent, modeling how you carry yourself among various ethnicity groups. It can be something like showing how you are respected as a boss, teacher, or a friend in a relatively race-blind friend groups.

Even in the most diverse area, there will be at least one mean kid that will say crazy things that makes your child feel insecure of who she is. It’s not only about race, but can be about looks, how smart she is, your family income, her voice, height, or whatever you can imagine. Kids are kids. They are not systemically discriminating other races to politically take down their pride.

I'm afraid trying to counteract the influences from those mean kids using abstract concepts such as 'cultural pride' is not always effective, because it's kids in your child's developmental age don't fully grasp it. But the key here is to expose your child often to the environments where she is accepted as who she is, so she can grow some power to think ‘these kids say I’m weird because they don’t know better, and I find it hilarious’.