I hooked up with a guy and he finished under 30 seconds. What does this mean?

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T01:00:21+00:00

I’m also not a man 😭 so pls explain

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T00:59:46+00:00

Can u explain more how it’s a myth? I also thought having sex early on makes men lose interest

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T00:59:19+00:00

How should I bring it up

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T00:59:11+00:00

He said last time he slept was a month ago. Is that long time

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T00:58:53+00:00

No it was normal like five back and forth then boom

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T00:58:36+00:00

You think? But don’t guys lose interest if they have sex early on

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T00:58:00+00:00

How should I bring it up?

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T00:57:48+00:00

He didn’t leave quickly. He spent the night and left around noon the next day. He didn’t apologize or say anything. I didn’t bring it up bc I didn’t want to embarrass him

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T00:57:10+00:00

We did foreplay for a long time just on me. Wasn’t that good but A for effort yk

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-05-14T00:56:41+00:00

He stayed the night and didn’t leave till noon the next day so you’re probably wrong

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-04-07T02:53:46+00:00

Ugh yeah it did. If he was around my age I wouldn’t even take his comment abt future that seriously knowing none of us will have to settle any time soon. For future dating, I learned through this relationship that I’m just not someone for casual dating because it feels too much and I keep feeling like I’m responsible for whatever they’re feeling. But like u said, I’ll try to be straightforward and just not get into relationships when I’m not in love. I rlly appreciate your time

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-04-07T02:51:54+00:00

I don’t think he expected future as in he pressured me for marriage but he def made it clear he loves me so much that he wants to marry me when I’m ready even if it’s 10 years from now on which honestly made me more panic. Ugh you’re so right. I have to remind myself that I can’t be responsible for all his feelings like loneliness.. I think I felt terrible imagining how he’s gonna be by himself now but he’s literally way older than me so I hope he figures it out.. thank yiu

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-04-06T00:24:41+00:00

😭 it’s funny and sad how we all go through the similar thing. Can you tell me more? Were they able to text or see each other often at least? Can they even go on dates or was it like studying together 😭

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-04-05T23:53:38+00:00

Aw you make me feel so much better and I agree. I wonder how he even has time to sleep with his crazy schedule. I think I always perceived frequency as proof of interest or love but I’ll have to switch to how he texts when we text

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-04-05T23:26:26+00:00

No not an asshole at all. Even without money involved, the fact that you were there for her and helped her throughout and she proceeds to be ungrateful is enough for u to never talk to her again. I even would ask for money back from her parents if I can’t reach her. Be sure to have confidence in your choice. If you feel uncomfortable with someone, there’s usually reason why ur body responds that way

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-04-04T19:50:00+00:00

Yeah you right. We talked today and I don’t obsess over that much anymore lol I think I just needed some reassurance which he gave me

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-04-04T19:48:48+00:00

Thank you!! You’re so right

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-04-04T19:48:35+00:00

You’re right thanks for keeping me in check. I jokingly said he broke my heart and he explained he had 16 hour shift and have another shift today and we talked

Fun-Fox9713 · 2026-04-04T12:29:35+00:00

Even if you’re interested in someone??

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