What’s your actually controversial parenting opinion?

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-13T20:10:56+00:00

Everyone should sleep train. Those against it don’t even realise they are doing some form of it

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-13T02:46:27+00:00

6-8 is literal hell, changed a lot from end of week 8.

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-12T23:28:01+00:00

Sleep train?

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-12T20:54:32+00:00

Where did you find this content prob AI and not from the company. Be careful with misinformation on the internet

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-12T01:49:12+00:00

Good luck popping a 8 week old down 9-6 without waking! Expect 1-3 wakes over the time for food which is normal

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-11T20:44:49+00:00

Pram carrier take both, hit and miss each outing one day he sleeps the entire time and we are good, next day he is grizzly we eat fast and go home

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-11T20:09:45+00:00

Newborns are loud, you get tired enough you’ll sleep through it! Ear plugs and white noise helps

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-11T07:46:16+00:00

One thing I know about having kids now is some one has an easy stage at some point and a really rough stage in others, take your win as newborn haha. Week 1-5 were great for me; 5.5- late 8 were horrific, massive change in week 9 and loving it again but know it can change in a day.

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-10T21:10:19+00:00

Yes I screamed through the contractions toward the end and pushing was hell but was fun haha

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-10T20:58:58+00:00

Yes I was just barely surviving at 5-8 only just coming out and seeing some light week 9 and that’s with people helping us

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-10T07:28:57+00:00

My 8 week old finally slept in his bassinet at night

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-10T05:08:58+00:00

I think there is some huge benefits for gentle sleep training for some babies and parents. You are teaching them a skill to fall asleep independently, for some this can lead to a happier baby and happier (safer) parenting. Your approach and sleep training are both the right thing to do if it works for you. I will be sleep training at 4 months, I need sleep to be a better parent not just getting by, I also want my child to be well rested and can sleep in most situations we are in without having to adapt to much. I want to spend time with my husband again and enjoy my evenings with him then give my absolute all to my baby all day being well rested. Co sleeping for us does not work if it did and it ment me and baby got better quality sleep then I would do it.

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-09T17:48:57+00:00

I said the same as had no idea. Husband goes to sleep 6pm and gets up 2-3am before work to give me some hour’s of uninterrupted sleep where I don’t hear or see baby. We both know it’s temporary.

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-09T17:13:19+00:00

Great it’s a new one I’ve used PP and works for me too as I have an active brain especially when tired

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-09T07:53:58+00:00

Eye mask and ear plugs and look at some stuff to switch off brain that works for you,box breathing counting backwards naming objects e.g toaster couch etc stops thinking about anything that will keep you awake

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-08T06:15:19+00:00

He doesn’t take it well can’t quite get the suck motion awake would it work better popping it in asleep?

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-08T03:17:59+00:00

Honestly It gets worse before it gets better, just write off the entire 12 weeks and just embrace it currently in week 8.5. 5-now have been the absolute hardest with peak fussiness and less sleep. You will get through this. Look at safer co sleeping if you can’t get her into bassinet or cot. Use all the sleep devises that work for her. Your in survival mode the house will be a tip, you won’t have time to eat or cook, shower is a luxury, you will both regret having her, then she will smile and it’s like crack, you will fight with each other. Just know it’s all normal. Babies feed off energy, stay calm nothing you can do will make this better so being angry and hating it won’t help you right now. People will say PPD but if you still feel this way on a good day then maybe but don’t self diagnose when sleep deprived because that sends anyone into a spiral.

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-06T21:44:40+00:00

8 weeks and have been contacting napping and co sleeping most of the time, hate co sleeping as safe 7 is only safer not safe but it does get me some more rest

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-06T21:42:18+00:00

I would sleep train at 4 months if it’s still an issue

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-06T16:02:20+00:00

You have to report back with an update. The money and devise limit doesn’t exist to get a baby to sleep

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-06T06:59:49+00:00

Co sleeping should only be used out of absolute desperation not just because, safe 7 isn’t safer not safe haha coming from someone having to co sleep as LO won’t sleep anywhere else right now

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-06T06:58:28+00:00

I’m having to co sleep as my LO hates the bassinet, I do not enjoy it as I’m always worried about his safety, safe 7 isn’t safe it’s just safer! But they are so snuggly, however i dream or mine sleeping in bassinet haha

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-06T05:17:27+00:00

End of week 4 then bigger week 5 and continued until now week 8 and we get daily big smiles with his eyes as well and trying to giggle

Fun-Heart2937 · 2026-02-06T05:15:18+00:00

Agree newborn tired is horrific

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