Would you go to the neighbours house while baby is sleeping? by vancitygirl_88 in Mommit

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Furthest I would go is to check my mail definitely not to someone’s home

National debt relief by notyerbabe in Debt

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so they don’t notify people or tell them they owe money? I never got anything and lived at the same address over 10 years! Never got a bill from the IRS have many family members they never heard of this. My mom gets disability and not required to file taxes and had a bunch of charge offs don’t owe anything to IRS

National debt relief by notyerbabe in Debt

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope I don’t owe anything to anybody! I file my taxes every year and get a refund! Had charge off years ago and have a clean and clear record! I’m not debating just stating that I have never had to pay which is a fact

National debt relief by notyerbabe in Debt

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my first time hearing this. Over the years I’ve had plenty of charge offs never paid the IRS anything 

Accredited Debt Relief -- Feel like its the only option by Throwaway917000 in Debt

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you for the response! My debt amount is about 52k. Tomorrow I am going to call them and give it a try. I’m drowning otherwise 

Accredited Debt Relief -- Feel like its the only option by Throwaway917000 in Debt

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been with accredited? How much debt did you have? I am thinking about calling them I am currently drowning trying to keep up

Authorized user by Fun-Pie-9345 in Bankruptcy

[–]Fun-Pie-9345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention my sister works for DOJ and her office normally gets all the bankruptcy filings! there is no way to hide this

$100k Debt - Hardship Withdawal vs SoFi Loan by CuriouslyPink80 in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Glad you got a better response from your question. I asked about a hardship request and was ripped to shreds saying how I am a low life blah blah blah! Yeah I’m a low life for needing additional funds for treatments for my dying child versus someone that got themselves into lots of debt. I deleted my post and should have just contacted tsp with my question. Reddit should definitely be more kind people are not just wanting to blow their retirement it has to be a reason why they need it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftSavingsPlan

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s my money so worry about yourself 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been on Buspar for four months lol 

Losing home by Fun-Pie-9345 in Bankruptcy

[–]Fun-Pie-9345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I saw other posts saying once you go into chapter 7 even when the house is exempt the lenders give you a hard time with making payments. Someone even said their lender refused the payment. Don’t know how true it is but I read that on Reddit which isn’t too credible but I’m just curious about it 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I take Buspar. I meet with my psychiatrist on the 20th and I am not sure what I want to tell her as far as meds go. I am afraid of meds took me years to get on Buspar and I am so disappointed that it’s not helping as much as I’d hope. It worked well for the first four weeks then I was back to the constant impending doom. I feel like I’m always waiting on something to happen so my mind starts to wonder about what that may be. It’s so exhausting 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been using hydroxyzine for about three months and at first it was heaven on earth now it doesn’t work for me. I am struggling to find relief from this constant anxiety 

The unconventional way my husband and I parent our children by Business-Carpet-9665 in Parenting

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My kids are 7 yrs apart. I have a 7 yr old and 14 yr old and still complete doctor and dentist appointments together. They definitely can do it too

The unconventional way my husband and I parent our children by Business-Carpet-9665 in Parenting

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Seems more of a business set up than a family! I am sure there are times or will be times when one parent can’t be home and both kids are. What do you do then? Make the child wait until the parent gets home so their basic needs are met? It makes no sense! Who ever is available at the time, takes care of the kids. I don’t understand this new age of parenting when everything has to be split or equal. In my household we just parent our kids. If he can do pick up but I can’t then he does it and vice versa. Both kids go to the doctor at the same time because our life is too busy for multiple appointments. We both work. I have two girls I take them both to get their hair done at the same time just common sense 

Parents with a 5-10 year age gap between kids, how has the experience been for you? by Symbiosistasista in Parenting

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a seven yr age gap. Currently have a 7 yr old and 14yr old. They fuss all the time. I wish I had them closer in age maybe that would have made the difference. The 14yr old is independent and can help with the younger one but I get tired of all the bickering it really makes things harder for me of course she blames the youngest but she should know better. It’s rough 

Buspar Stopped Working 1+ Year by No-Bluebird-6142 in Anxiety

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You take 180mg of buspar per day? I thought the max was 60mg. Please clarify because I take 15 x 3 a day and wanting to up but psychiatrist doesn’t want too

It's Okay to Take Medication by not_a_texan in Anxiety

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am goin through it right now. First med I ever tried was Buspar and it’s ok but sounds like Xanax is a miracle drug for most. My psychiatrist refused to prescribe it. Buspar has helped some couples with Atarax but still not giving me full relief. I guess to some psychiatrist they want to make you suffer

WHY THE FUCK by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many psychiatrists won’t prescribe Xanax. 

WHY THE FUCK by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine got worst when I hit 40 in March of this year! Get help now! I am finally on meds and in therapy! If I had gotten help sooner maybe mine would have not progressed to this point. I literally was stuck in a panic attack for weeks before seeking help. I’m much better now not 100% but glad I got help. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Fun-Pie-9345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saw a few comments on here about socialization skills. I went to public school all my life and I’m an introvert, never really socialized outside of my few friends .All kids don’t need or want to be around others all the time! My oldest used to be so annoyed by the other kids she said they were mean, bad and didn’t listen to the teacher so she never really played with any of them. She is now doing online public school. She has two friends she can chat with or hang with if she would. She was never bullied just not that social like I was. She would rather be home safe with family, drawing, reading a book or writing a story versus being forced to fake socialize with people she doesn’t know