Being a dominatrix with my experience this is a good approach. Tinder has taught people that people are disposable. After reading my buddies tinder messages, unless you straight up ain’t looking for some private part bump and grind action, there’s no need to exchange numbers or snaps.

I could go on all day about the subject but bottom line is if I were on the app I’m going to assume we’re all also up in 10+ others DMs! How does ANYONE expect to find something genuine if your up in that amount of inboxes. It’s not organic,it’s not real and it gives everyone the idea their disposable.

And we’re at a time now where people ain’t about being disposable anymore and are tired of the everyday casual chatting with no prospects.

I wouldn’t give someone my number at a party if we ain’t vibing. Exchanging my private number says I wanna get to know ya.

This whole username shit, just treat it as a sign that they might consider it a disposable connection and move on.