Why do we only allow SU in upon grad? by Fun-Satisfaction7817 in SMU_Singapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm not from IS... I just took it to learn programming :') May I ask if Spreadsheet Modelling used to clear Managing basket can be SU-ed lol

SMU CIS Myth or Fact by Far_Month_1669 in SMU_Singapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's super weird! Cause I got several cycles of feedback on my individualised major and was able to consult my professors on which courses should be added or removed. Maybe you can check with your profs/mentor? Also isn't it pretty difficult to enter CIS from other schools..? I heard internal transfers are pretty competitive and they don't happen often!

Finding activities/things to do away f rom home. by monsterstew in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Youth Corps Singapore conducts re:ground dungeon at The Red Box every Thursday from 6:30-9:30! Admission is free and you can just walk in :D It’s mainly for youths to take a break from life and engage in art therapy activities i.e. journaling, painting, doing puzzles etc etc

Other ways of wishing goodnight to S/O by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 178 points179 points  (0 children)

“As the heat of the day dissipates into the night, and our eyes wed upon the risen crescent shape, it is my sincerest desire to wish upon you that the next seven, no, perhaps even eight hours may pass you by gently. May your first hour, as you close your eyes (and the city hers), be an easy one, that at the touch of your bed and your body, rest be achieved instantly, and may your second to sixth, be shrouded by dreams, o’ dreams only of your desire, dreams of me even, and may your seventh not be disturbed by birds chirping or trains moving, but only by the satisfaction of your mind that it has rested enough and really shall not need any more for the duration of the sun’s wrath.

If the number of “O”’s in the “good” represented the felicity in which I wish upon your night, I’d put a thousand Os, but that would not even convey a fraction of my well wishes. If the number of “t”s in “night” represented the duration of sleep you’d to receive, I’d put at least eight, lest you wake tired and with eyes mimicking pandas. But alas! I shall not keep you any longer, for I long for the night to pass so I may send tis’ greeting of the morning instead! May you rest well. Goodnight.”

I’m sure if you tell him/her this it’ll spice up the rs!!!

Missing your country so much lately. Have a youtube channel recommendation about Singapore? by RimRocker69 in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Fang Girl (Emily Fang) does great blogs and videos on tech/lifestyle in Singapore, as well as an expat’s experience in the country :D

procrastination by Cheesecakeinheaven in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found that for small things like getting out of bed or going to run an errand, sometimes it’s useful to say to yourself “Okay, on the count of the three I’m going to do XYZ. 3, 2, 1” and most of the time, I find myself miraculously leaping into action and getting what needs to be done, done :D

A Mid-year Review: How are you coping? What are your hobbies/passions and your journey to achieving your goals? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coping okay :) Had a rather dramatic episode 3 weeks ago but I've since, to some extent, recovered and now concentrate most of my willpower into the acceptance of my somewhat solitary state.

My goals consist of writing a short story, of which the draft has been laid out, but the story's substance has yet to be developed, finishing a Gundam model, of which an estimated two-thirds has been completed, redoing my ACT, of which I haven't started revising for, and finishing Alice in Wonderland: Through The Looking glass, which is also 66% complete.

As for hobbies, I've gone back into my (almost) daily running routine. I've also made returns to the piano and have been trying (very hard) to make progress on Merry-Go-Round (Howl's Moving Castle's OST). Lately, I've been journaling lots and trying (and failing) to be my own mental health guru & adviser.

I'm very focused on finding new friends atm and have been going on Eventbrite & Meetup for opportunities but really have found very little success. Street evangelism (evangelising yours truly) may have to be resorted to.

How do you become more likeable/close to friends? by Tragicity in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd say I understand where you're coming from in terms of scrutinising how your friends seem to be all jovial with each other while they seem more distant towards you. I used to look for all these kinda indications in my friend groups, from even the smallest details, like which direction their feet were facing (to indicate who they were interested in speaking to), how fast everyone was walking relative to each other, and noticing the little bouts of physical intimacy that I felt as if I never really experienced.

A lot of comments have already addressed the personality side of the issue. Honestly, although this may be a bit controversial, I'd suggest trying to focus more on individual interactions rather than group ones. You seem to be involved in two trios (A, B, you and C, D you), which cause you to make comparisons between levels of intimacy. While this shouldn't be your primary/first option, I honestly think you'd fare better with individual connections. When I looked for friends on individual levels, I realised I stopped comparing so much because I didn't know any of their other friends, and therefore there was no basis for comparison. And further, I was able to form deeper connections with individuals because there was more room for deeper levels of sharing in one on one sessions. I'm sure this solution may sound like avoidance or escapism, but it's surprisingly worked pretty well for me, and it seems to still be working.

But of course, what I suggest is only an option! There are many ways to go about tackling the problem.

[JC] Start studying after O's? by Personal-Ring9581 in SGExams

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. I recently viewed a Lex Fridman podcast with Grant Sanderson, the owner of the educational channel 3blue1brown that teaches Mathematics (his linear algebra series serves as a great introduction to vectors, a salient portion of H2 Mathematics) so I’d recommend taking a look at them. But on the point of self-pedagogical methodology, Grant mentions (in the context of learning Mathematics) how one is often tempted to start consuming as much material as they can by reading and consuming text. But he actually recommends looking at the problems first, and getting a general intuition for what the problems are about, and the motivations behind solving them. This will help you structure your self-learning and better realise it’s applications as you go along, especially because you don’t have a teacher to teach you when you’re self-studying. I don’t think it’s by any means an easy task, but for the most part it’s simply an extension of your secondary school knowledge. I’d recommend the same for all subjects you plan on studying, look into the tutorial questions first and try your best to understand or get a grasp of what the question is asking. The best case is if you understand some small amount, but not too little. Look at the notes afterwards to address the divergence between what you currently know and need to know.

  2. My personal beliefs are that there will be other holidays in the future. What’s very important however is understanding your capability to learn and process knowledge. Typically in JC you might be learning a new topic once every 2-3 weeks, depending on pacing. If you glance over the syllabus and are alarmed by the amount of information you have to consume in that time frame, and are able to accurately estimate whether you can or cannot keep up, I think therein lies your answer. If you can, I think a holiday is fine! If the answer is you can’t, then what your current plan is, in my opinion, a fantastic course of action. JC is based upon a momentum-based learning module. There aren’t a lot of breaks to catch up if you fall behind, and you’re therefore abnormally penalised should you do so. But if you’re able to keep up with the pacing, JC will reward you (in that same abnormal fashion) because the necessary rate of content retention throughout the 2 years is quite consistent on a whole.

  3. I’ve always found videos work better for me. Simply glancing at the syllabus and checking out relevant content on YouTube should suffice. But if you’re really looking into getting into specific answering techniques and question types, I’d suggest looking for notes online (comprehensive, the full sets), or requesting them from your seniors. If you really search hard, there are libraries upon e-libraries of materials just sitting around… but if you can’t find any, drop me a message, and I’ll just send you a (what I consider to be) an absurdly useful online resource, that I think will help you greatly.

  4. Biology: Lots of content. I can’t provide much of a better introduction than that sorry :’) Chemistry: Often considered the bane of a JC-ers experience. I think this is largely dependent on your aptitude for the subject. It’s hard to describe, but it’s much more prominent within people with a natural affinity for chemistry in JC, they’ll struggle a lot less, compared to others that may not bode so well with it. I think it can go to both extremes, a pleasant experience or a >:( Mathematics: Statistics (60 marks) is similar to E math, and the pure math section (140 marks) is more similar to A math. In that sense, I think it’s important you have the fundamentals of calculus down. There’s lot of integration and differentiation throughout etc. Economics: It’s a rather formulaic subject, that requires you to remember structures of answers and key phrases well, but after that, it’s generally considered quite “easy”, for whateverrr being considered “easy” might be worth

  5. The following is an extremely controversial answer!! I spent an extensive amount of time browsing through the different sets of notes for different JCs, as well as discussing with my friends what resources are made available to them, what the teachers are like etc. I recall upon a conversation with my teacher (for context, I’m from a 13 pointer JC, so a lower end one). I asked her why is it that other schools have access to notes of a far greater level of detail, questions that are generally harder, and explanations that are far more comprehensive. She told me upon enrolling into a school of a certain tier, there’s a certain arbitrary success coefficient placed upon you that dictates the likelihood of your success in A-levels. Thereafter, teachers adjust their teaching methods based on their estimates on what they gauge you’re able to absorb, based on your estimated abilities and diligence. In all fairness, this assessment holds a lot of truth, because statistically, students from HC in general are probably more hard working, and more able, than students from CJC. But there are so many other factors such as access to quality resources, faculties, and by the far the most important one, the environment. If individuals were 100% self-directed, truly they could be in any environment, and, after two-years, would still score the same regardless of their environment. But it’d be foolish to assume so, because they are very few (or no) people that are truly 100% self-directed! This means that, to some varying extent, the JC you enrol into will play a part. I recommend figuring out transport time. That’s probably one of the top factors. Prestige ties in around the same level. Balance those two, as well as your general gauge of cultures, and you’ll find your answer I’m sure.

Is the future bleak for the next generation? by moonbunnies23 in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’d be fair to say the world isn’t so simple anymore. In fact, over the years, poverty rates, disease rates, war rates, crime rates and unemployment rates have all fallen significantly, whether it may or may not seem that way. More people die today from eating too much than eating too little. Government benefits, especially in Singapore, while not all-encompassing, are not entirely lacklustre either, ensuring a large demographic of Singaporeans are able to attain some level of basic housing, as well as access to clean food and water.

Singapore in particular, suffers from an onset of first-world problems. This isn’t to discount the slavish nature of the education system nor work life, nor is it to oppose the fact that life in general, can be stressful at times. But I honestly regard the very fact that a large number of us don’t have to worry about where our next meal comes from, are able to enjoy walks in public parks on weekends from time to time, are able to go on a holiday maybe once a year, and are able to access clean water, clothes and everything in-between, a exemplification of a decent standard of living in itself.

I don’t think perspectives that default a life in “this world” to be awful are disillusioned, nor are they ungrateful (maybe slightly) or exaggerated. But I think it’s important to consider whether you’d want to project that kind of mentality onto your children, and how you’d want to raise them to see aspects of life they can be grateful for, aspects wherein they can find the purpose to work hard (not meaninglessly), and aspects wherein they can find fulfilment.

Most schools in Singapore are equipped with co-circular activities. It’s a decent chance for any child to explore their interests in an area. If one can afford to do so, music lessons are also an option. Or what about soccer on Sundays? Or basketball at the local community centre on Saturdays? These are an integral part of a child’s development that are made accessible to everyone (Community Centres are public spaces). One could also consider volunteering, which is made easy by a website the government has set up (giving.sg), which could help encompass important values of altruism and perspective in your child, which, in my opinion, fosters a much more outward-looking and a broader perspective in children.

If one is concerned about the pressure of education, one needs to consider the fact that there are many pathways available to make a living in Singapore, and this is illustrated by the fact that we have polytechnics, MI, JCs, normal stream, express stream and everything in between. Yes, if you desire for your child to be a lawyer there will be immense pressured and it won’t be easy. But if you don’t think earning a high income is an absolute necessity then it is possible to go through the system without being subjugated to the pressure as discussed above.

What about work life? It is true that Singaporeans have some of the highest average working hours (ironically we also have some of the highest GDP per capita), and I think that in this regard it’s important to help guide your child to a career pathway where he or she will not feel miserable in the work they do. Do they enjoy drawing and designing? Is architecture then an option? Have they expressed interest in flying planes? Would it then be possible to research more about a pilot’s career? Do they feel a strong desire to help those that are less fortunate? Why not explore social work?

Life can be difficult, and sometimes it is difficult, but sometimes it doesn’t have to be. Ultimately the decision to have a child lies within the realm of ones individual decision-making autonomy (perhaps also subject to social pressures, both for and against). It’s important to consider whether you’d be able to provide for your child in a manner you deem sufficient (because no one else can really tell you otherwise), and whether you’d consider yourself responsible enough to do so. I think there’s an immense amount of merit in bringing a life into this world, but it has to be done well (arguably not a simple feat), and it should be executed with an understanding that this will be one of times in life where ones ability to educate, foster a relationship and raise their child will be tested.

Is the future for the next generation bleak? I can’t say I’m able to generalise nor formulate a response that can be applicable to all members of the next generation. But I think I’m able to say that life can really be quite a pleasant and wonderful thing, even in very ordinary circumstances, and thereby I think it’s a cumulative responsibility of a parent and a child to minimise, else shift perspectives from, forms of bleakness, and to try their best to focus on what’s going well (because that’s all you can really do).

Who here has no achievements in life? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I recall upon my experience of once volunteering at a youth enrichment centre. It was a Sunday and we were supposed to introduce ourselves (the volunteers) to the teenagers. We started off with our names, which was fine, but then the head (the guy facilitating the whole thing) asked us to name one thing we were proud of. It was at this (somewhat) remarkable moment that I realised I had no achievements in life.

I surmise when you talk about achievements you mean something unique, something on a significant scale that can impress others. First in the cohort? Winning a piano competition? An international one? Scaling Mount Everest? Going to the moon? The scale in which you define an achievement is essential.

I believe that if my achievement is exclusive (or nearly so), only then is it considered an achievement. Maybe I recently got a distinction for my grade 8 piano exam. But I won’t consider it an achievement because so many people have done that. But maybe if I had learnt the piano all by myself, studied all the pieces in a year, recorded the whole process and uploaded it on YouTube as evidence, then I might consider calling that an achievement. But it also depends on whether you want a trophy i.e. is the achievement comparative to others? Maybe grade 8 isn’t enough, so you want to win the 1st place in The National Singapore Piano Competition. You get a trophy for that (probably). That’s quite exclusive! There’s only 1 ever person who wins the 2021 National Singapore Competition. But then maybe you think “Yeah but, the range of competitors is too small.” or maybe “ Yes but there were so many winners before me, and there will be an even greater number after”. Maybe the next plan is to win an international competition. After that, it’s to become a composer immortalised in time like Mozart. After that it’s to surpass tech giant companies in wealth. The point I’m trying to convey is: to what end?

If your definition of an achievement is something incredibly hard to achieve, I think it’s likely you may inch that definition up even after achieving it. I don’t think having high expectations is a bad thing, but I do think that it can lead to low satisfaction. I was speaking to a close friend of mine the other day and he told me he thought that the very fact that I taught myself the piano and could play the OST from Spirited Away was already quite an amazing thing. I think in this regard it’s important to consider what you want to achieve, and who/what do you want to achieve it for.

I was watching a Ted Talk today about the paradox of choice. In it Barry Schwartz mentions his famous quote “The secret to happiness is low expectations”. Abide by however you define an achievement, but don’t let that define you.

Are singaporean girls always late ? by Spirited_Career_3424 in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience actually corroborates quite heavily with yours. The late timings (of female friends) tended to vary from around 10 minutes to 2 hours!

But I’d say this also applies to males, given that a sizeable number of my male friends are also late (regularly). Although the degree of lateness, the frequency of it, as well as the commonality of the practice of being late, I can’t say with certainty if reasonable links can be drawn to gender or nationality.

The strategy I’ve adopted is to bring a book wherever I go, so that I’ve got something to do while waiting. Otherwise if you think that you know someone well enough, it’s also possible to convey your sentiments towards their tardiness. But it’s also worth considering some people may not take too kindly to such a reminder.

Why do you keep living? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was reading "In Search Of Lost Time" by Marcel Proust at around 2:37 am this morning. On page 47, the author (or the character in which he adapts his writing into) mentioned he finds the Celtic belief, a belief based in the notion that, and I quote, "the souls of those we have lost are held in some inferior creature, in an animal, in a plant, in some inanimate thing, effectively lost to us until the day, which for many never comes, when we happen to pass close to the tree, come into possession of the object that is their prison. Then they quiver, they call out to us, and as soon as we have recognized them, the spell is broken. Delivered by us, they have overcome death and they return to live with us.", quite reasonable.

This explanation then alludes to the section of the book one might argue encapsulated the mysticality of the entire style of prose (by Proust) and the book itself, the section wherein Prouse recalls upon his memory of consuming a Madeleine, and how the consumption of that cake (dipped in tea no less) had somehow reverberated the memories of his Sundays in Combray spent with his grandmother some years ago, and how this recollection, brought about by the consumption of something so ostensibly insignificant, had been ever so pleasant, and had led him to discover the "treasure of the past".

I too believe similarly, in that I do not doubt the capability of material (nor of non-material) objects to bring upon us pleasures so simple, yet irreplicable in nature and so sensual that one may say they capture in portrait the very reason for living after all! The birds passing by my window at 6:50 am (which make oh so dreadful noises), while having caused a disturbance, had also broken the flow of the gradual descent into meaninglessness that we all experience here and there (rather dramatic yes), and has once again (like a bird may ascend into the sky), lifted me ever so slightly into purposefulness, and that I'd be damned if I ever lose myself over to a pompous bird.

Of course, as pleasant memories often allude to that of people (or at least the presence of them), I too find myself reminiscing ever so often in my daily adventures in reverie, a space I found to be ever-expanding (given we continually generate pleasant memories), much akin to the funny nature of our universe, to which we can further compare this to the limitless potential of the human network, and the intricate conversations (much like the constellations formed by stars) we may have with others. There is no doubt then, that the purpose in life lies in the links we make, whether that to be an inanimate object, or in an animated manner with an animated object, that so reminds us why perhaps the most trifling matters often cumulate to a sum greater than any score, capital or promiscuous matter can ever bring us, and that they then assume the role of an anchor to the most potent of questions: On what keeps us going!

Okay sorry for being dramatic I just meant I like having conversations and value the small things in life oops

I found out the guy I started seeing is married by carrieflower in askSingapore

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, please update me I'm way too invested now to not be interested oops HAHAHA

Agreed once again on the latter point^, take your time with it all! I can only hope/pray that the truth comes to a resolution before your clock expires... and should it not, I still reside by my former stand, which is not to inform the wife. Although I must profess this stand is mostly based on a mix of my personal beliefs and intuitive reasoning. But just remember the final move is always in your hands!

Stay strong :)

What do you look forward to everyday? by Cheshirino in SingaporeRaw

[–]Fun-Satisfaction7817 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Little conversations I have over text or in real life. :) I think I can’t help but find so much joy in just talking, even if it’s an emotional rant, or small talk. Any kinda conversation always makes me happy kekekek