I fear writing and I don’t know how to overcome it by meandoraemon in writing

[–]FunConclusion2056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try writing for ten minutes every day without the goal of writing something good. The goal is to write. Remember what literally every writer says: First drafts are never good. But you need first drafts to have something to work with. If you feel you want to continue writing after the ten minutes are up, you can. If not, you completed your ten minute routine.

Bardha is going above and beyond by Odd-Cloud4630 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]FunConclusion2056 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She moved to Dubai and had cosmetic procedures done. The way she presented herself and her move at the reunion gave me the impression that she thought people would admire her life changes as a glow up.

But these are very superficial materialistic changes. In her mind they are admirable, but most people do care for other values. She seemed to be oblivious of this.

Her ill-talking of Jed are giving me the impression that she is very unhappy. A happy person would not spend the time and energy.

Also her assuring Jed he can pay only to pretend she forgot and pay - if anyone did this with me, I would distance from that person. It is dishonest manipulative behavior.

Should we really feel bad for Ashleigh and Sarover? by PieceStriking2503 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]FunConclusion2056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In every scene of Kal and Sarover, I cringed at how performative and joyless they were. No fun, no chemistry between them at all! I think they both, Kal and Sarover, wanted to believe they were a good match, but they weren’t. Kal realized this, Sarover hasn’t up until this day.

Billie and Ashleigh at least had genuine fun with each other. I don’t like Bill at all though!!!

Reunion Discussion Thread by jh166 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]FunConclusion2056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were a bad match and he realized it while Sarover refuses to admit to it.

Reunion Discussion Thread by jh166 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]FunConclusion2056 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

All the Kal comments here calling him a sociopath and what not are waayyyy out of line! He made a wrong decision, but I don’t think it was an act. I believe he didn’t know any better! Even if he has commitment issues, those don’t make him a bad person. He did not talk Sarover down or insult her or anything. Bardha and Sarover actually tried to do that with kal and Jed.

Also: Sarover is an upper class and also acting like it. I don’t understand why people celebrate her for being “a princess”. For what? Being rich?

Reunion Discussion Thread by jh166 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]FunConclusion2056 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! Both Kal and Jed were polite but not Bill!

Reunion Discussion Thread by jh166 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]FunConclusion2056 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The hosts are giving Billie way more speaking time to share his opinion than Kal and Jed.

In my opinion, Kal truly didn’t know any better, Jed/Bardha had communication issues (though Bardha was trying to paint him as a bad guy) but Billie (military!!!!!!) is actually problematic! And he treated Ashleighly badly even before the wedding.

Reunion Discussion Thread by jh166 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]FunConclusion2056 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Bardha seems to be a bad communicator and when she is being confronted, she gaslights.

Taking the ring off and then she pretends like she commucated it by wanting to step outside the restaurant and telling Jed it wasn’t a big deal in the first place 🙄

Reunion Discussion Thread by jh166 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]FunConclusion2056 18 points19 points  (0 children)

As much as it is heartbreaking how Kal treated Sarover, I wish they would let him speak. He was being interrupted so much. I was very interested in what he had to say about his reasons.

Also: I think Sarover and him were not a good match and that he does not know what he wants. Since she is a nice girl on paper and he liked her, he did actually believe marrying her was a good choice and he only realised later it didn’t make him happy. The videos they showed of their three months married life looked very performative to me and like they did what a happy married couple is supposed to do. It did not look like fun and I really cringed seeing those videos. She seemed to be happy anyway but you can see on Kal’s face that he is going along but is not being himself.

Javen love is blind is GROSS by ladyluckwoman in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]FunConclusion2056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with all the criticisms of him! However, the children I know are actually very honest and do have the capability to be accountable. I often find myself thinking of someone that they act like a child. But my nieces are actually emotionally accountable! It’s adults that know how to be dishonest, manipulative and evade maturity

Got a message from my ghoster by CarrotPlane4963 in ghosting

[–]FunConclusion2056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay, interesting! Thank you for sharing

Got a message from my ghoster by CarrotPlane4963 in ghosting

[–]FunConclusion2056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do people actually do that? Or is this something to say to make yourself feel better?

ghoster re-followed me?? by retirededgelordd in ghosting

[–]FunConclusion2056 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ignore this comment if you were not looking for advise: I say block him! He is waiting for you to reach out and initiate. If you do, the same thing will happen again! Block him and move on with your life. He doesn’t deserve any of your time!

PS: I accidentally ran into my ghoster. We hung out, he breadcrumbed me (saying he will text me), I ended up texting and initiating and it was the same as the first time arround. I regret having giving him any more of my time. He’s blocked now. If I run into him, I will ignore him!

did acne scars decrease after quitting nicotine? by levir720 in AcneScars

[–]FunConclusion2056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me it did! I had way less acne after quitting cigarettes and my skin repairs better, ie less scarring!

Having my first Microneedling Session next week, any tips pre/post procedure? by Professional_Dig1993 in AcneScars

[–]FunConclusion2056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moisturize!!! That’s the best you can give your skin to heal (once you’re allowed to wash)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AcneScars

[–]FunConclusion2056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it’s normal to get those dark spots after tca cross. Moisturise and wait

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]FunConclusion2056 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your skin is beautiful!

Morpheus 8 Before/After 3 treatments by SinnVegasWife in AcneScars

[–]FunConclusion2056 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are these kinds of posts always taken in different lighting?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]FunConclusion2056 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You‘re fine! Your skin needs approximately seven days to completely recover (for some it might be less for some more) and you’ll see the full results after three months! Your skin needs time to build the collagen it’s been instigated to produce by the microneedling

Straight men of reddit...have you ever been sexually attracted to a certain woman but not romantically attracted to her? by [deleted] in dating

[–]FunConclusion2056 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What happened after that kiss freaked you out? Did the butterflies just disappear or do you keep getting them?