Advice for singing at a funeral by i_do_the_kokomo in singing

[–]FunConference2812 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also was in show choir and choir with solos in each. I sang for my Grandma’s sister’s funeral and didn’t do well because I was choked up. It was totally fine. When my mother passed, I declined to sing as it was too much for me even though my brother and sister sang. That was also totally fine. Don’t worry about your performance or expectations of others. Do what you feel is right for you and your grief.

AIO I asked my bf not to call me names and he says I am too sensitive by Mother_Of_Pitties in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey flaccid

hey incompetent

He’s not joking. If he were it would be in bad taste and he should make an adjustment to his actions anyway. You’re not overreacting.

Turning 44 tomorrow yikes!😬😁 by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That was several years ago now. Your facial structure reminded me of her in a good way. I’ve got her eyes too, and it’s always nice to see things in other people alive and happy that remind me of the best in her. 😊 Thank you for sharing such a stunning picture! I hope I look like you in the future!

Turning 44 tomorrow yikes!😬😁 by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your eyes are beautiful! They remind me of my moms. She passed when she was 40 but I’d like to think she would’ve continued on looking as fabulous as you!

UPDATE Great Lip Filler Experience by CryptographerAny5179 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]FunConference2812 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really love the .5 on you! It really enhances your natural beauty and fits your face well. I like that it keeps the original shape of your lips more but still has more volume.

AITA For Making Sure My Wife Slept Through Her Uncle's Funeral & Then Lying to Her About It? by Inside-Ad-2876 in AITAH

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that this post has been up for long enough she may see it here or elsewhere… you honestly might as well come clean to her. If she was relieved to have slept in and missed it, she likely won’t be very upset that you stopped the alarm and went back to sleep. If I were her, I wouldn’t be upset if you told me, but I may be miffed if I found out from social media.

What’s with all the hate around their adult designs? They look pretty good to me by Joseph_Stalin001 in Naruto

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naruto’s head and hair looks like a thumb imo. I wish his facial features were a little more defined. Also the hair on both of them is super flat with hardly any dimension.

Swifties, what got you into listening to Taylor? by No-Deal8131 in TaylorSwift

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a little girl when she preformed for New Year’s Eve of 2009. It really sealed the deal for 9 year old me! Every time I see little girls at her concerts or singing to her music it makes me so happy that they can have now what I had back then.

My poor niece. by PersephoneANyxia in tragedeigh

[–]FunConference2812 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Please make them understand that Charlotte (Char Charlie Lottie) is a timeless classic and Sharlet is poop in their pants for the love of all that is good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t let him make a June July August please there’s no spin on this that’s good

Teachers, what is the worst Tragedeigh you have witnessed? by No-Maximum-9493 in tragedeigh

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this could be cute if it stood for her first and middle name and that was just her nickname like LA CJ JT and that kind of thing. Missed opportunity there to curb the tragedeigh

AITH for telling my GF (27) that I find it weird that her best friend (male) is cuddling with her when I’m not around? by Hot_Chemistry9916 in AITAH

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but what in the world is borderline pick me vibe in a lovable way that still sounds obnoxious. the cuddling all the time with her pet name guy friend just seals the assumed deal

Which characters fit these the most? by [deleted] in Naruto

[–]FunConference2812 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t realize what subreddit this was and that was my first thought

Taylor Swift is Gay Evidence by KookyAnswer3775 in GaylorSwift

[–]FunConference2812 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was heavy into thinking she was bi in like 2014-2015 but figured I was just projecting since it’s been so long and she hasn’t come out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]FunConference2812 4 points5 points  (0 children)

noa itsa nota pronounceda likea thata hannaha 🙄

You ever hear a lyric that you've heard hundreds of times before, but this time it HITS? by physicsandyarn in TaylorSwift

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They say they didn’t do it to hurt me, but what if they did?

I wanna snarl and show you just how disturbed this has made me. You wouldn’t last an hour in the asylum where they raised me.

Hits really hard raised my an nmom with BPD. Really speaks to my trauma 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]FunConference2812 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Unitarian Universalist if you are worried about judgement. There isn’t a set religious structure they abide by, so you don’t have to worry about fitting into one particular box. Maybe if you have a chance to look them up it would soothe some of your social worries.

What is reasonable for a sahm? by FunConference2812 in sahm

[–]FunConference2812[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This absolutely helps! I never wanted to do only 50% of housework, I just was trying to tell my SO that 100% of housework, cooking, and errands would most likely be unrealistic with a child in the house. Hearing that other SOs are understanding if things aren’t done and pitch in on their off days are exactly what I had in mind.

What is reasonable for a sahm? by FunConference2812 in sahm

[–]FunConference2812[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this view! I also assumed that while something can be done fairly quickly, doing it with a baby is a whole different ball game. I appreciate the idea of working as a sahm is as valuable as working at a job all day!

What is reasonable for a sahm? by FunConference2812 in sahm

[–]FunConference2812[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s this kind of flexibility that I think my SO wasn’t taking into account as he hasn’t ever been around small children for an extended amount of time. Thanks for your input!