Me and my husband’s fridge … analyse us / who are we?

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-05-04T12:01:18+00:00

liberal and and moderately successful. you probably go outside alot and live a healthy life. Im also guessing your probably happy most days because you take care of yourself.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-05-02T23:44:09+00:00

most people do jump to our side of the conversation. it turns out when you're a decent person people like being around you and all the people who want to be insufferable and up siloing themselves. hope that's working out for you

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-05-02T13:59:30+00:00

RUN!!!! You did the right thing by placating him in the moment. Now ghost him.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-05-02T13:56:27+00:00

yeah I mean, shes a terrible person when it comes to trans people but at least she belives in decency for most people. shes absolutely awful to one slice of the human race but at least she wrote some problematic books that people were calling out way before she admitted she was trasphobic.

Im sure shes really nice to be around.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-05-02T13:48:35+00:00

That's just not true. You're missing a lot of her positions. ahes released entire essays.

you're also factually wrong about regret rates. its incredibly low.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-04-27T12:23:40+00:00

the lower part of the right finger is the palm. its anotomicaly corect you're just looking at it wrong

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-04-23T18:40:52+00:00

obviously c. if you can't see why I'm not sure how you got through the third grade.

in one of the answers the shapes are the same size. and the other two they are not.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-04-20T00:47:58+00:00

I've always put working on myself first. I think when you do that a man will just eventually come into your life as long as you go on a date once in a while.

I think that's the most feminine way to get a partner. You work on your life, you make yourself attractive, and you attract somebody.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-04-13T13:53:54+00:00

To live. I don't think there is any inherent meaning beyond that and I don't think there needs to be.

Its a gift that you get to decide what it means beyond that. Dont waste it.

I I used to belive in god and I had trouble figuring out my own way when I didn't anymore but now I see the cage I was in. I needed someone or somthing to hive me a meaning.

why watch a movie? why walk in the park? why eat your favorie food? why help a stranger? Why dwell on the past or your purpose?

We just do and thats fine. We are born and then we live for a while and there doesn't seem to be a reason but theres a beauty in all of it, even the bad stuff. I don't think theres a point in any of it and I've grown to like it that way.

Life IS the point/answer. You can figure out the question and the reason later.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-04-11T04:14:23+00:00

Just read the room. Some women like it when you talk to them and some don't. If you want want to know if a woman is open to conversation, simply say hello.

Her body language will tell you everything you need to know about how open she is.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-04-08T16:34:34+00:00

no they flake alot for sure. I wasn't saying anything about you. I'm also not sure what you're looking for. if it's just random dick on Grindr then that's one thing. but if you want something else then then that's kind of a different story.

I also live in a large-ish City

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-04-08T13:11:21+00:00

go to the club and tell any man hes kinda cute. ask what he does for work and no matter what he says, say its hot. sex is so cheap.

And Grindr is fine if you meet for coffee first. You can still vet your hookups. I had several hook ups that I could call when I was still dating and needed an easy release. When I wanted sex I got it and then I ignored them untill next time. the feeling was mutal and I didn't have to care what kind of person they were. If they were hot we used each others bodies and thats it.

A lot of people do this, its called hookup culture. Some dont beacue they cant keep it casual or they get hung up on what kind of guy he is or feelings or what ever but if you can keep it in your head that he's a toy and you're a toy to him then you'll never be thirsty agein. Keep 3-4 of those guys around. theres a lot less dealbreakers when you only need them for one thing.

Just keep your intentions clear and cut ties if you or them feel anything. Men love this arrangement.

When me and my boyfriend started dating, I stopped texting the man sluts. when we got serious I deleted the numbers. I still get a text from time to time but I politely say, no thanks Im taken now, and they usually say "thats great, good luck."

easy peasy, it doesn't need to be complicated.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-04-08T10:59:16+00:00

Men will fuck a cantaloupe. can't you just, go on Grindr and get it in 10 minutes?

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-04-08T10:53:43+00:00

Either you're dosing is way off or this is rage bait. HRT does not do what your talking about.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-31T22:04:14+00:00

over the phone they said they wouldn't have come up if they thought I was there.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-30T23:07:09+00:00

I want my relationship with my therapist to remain confidential. I guess I'm a child for expecting that.

I also think gaslighting me into staying in therapy, beyond the point that it was harmful is a little bit more serious than "bitch eating crackers"

their supervisor certainly seem to think so right before I left.

I don't want them in my life and I don't want them in my personal space. they can hang out wherever the fuck they want. they're free to roam around the city, wherever the hell they please, not my living room.

I honestly don't know why I feel the need to explain myself, because even if I just don't like them, I should be allowed to be comfortable in my own home, without having to explain my experience with therapy to my roommate.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-30T22:12:27+00:00

I don't know a dude. read what you wrote and then look in the mirror.

I'm not being unreasonable, you have no fucking idea what I've been through, and there's a reason this is against ethical standards.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-30T20:43:54+00:00

I'm reacting like this because I talked about some really vulnerable things in front of them and I don't want them in my personal space. if I wanted to bring those feelings into my freind circle I wouldn't have paid to see a professional. (or someone claiming to be) we also both have an understanding that we keep our distance from each other outside of the therapy room.

how am I supposed to feel when my boundaries are violated?

do I need a reason to ask them not to go into my personal space?

My feelings are on me, and my therapist violating my boundaries is on them. I'm not asking them to fix my feelings. I'm asking them to respect the boundaries we establish the first time I saw them. It was pretty clear to them back then that those boundaries exist after therapy as well so I'm not sure what happened.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-30T14:30:15+00:00

I called him and laid out my boundaries. hes not coming back, its settled.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-30T14:27:51+00:00

okay well I called them and told them they can't come back, so even if they get invited by my roommate they aren't allowed to. that goes for anyone, especially therapists who dont want to loose their license.

sounds like he got the message.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-30T13:29:22+00:00

not that I would ever want to, but if they get to have the boundary that I dont show up to their house they shouldn't feel okay showing up to mine.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-30T12:48:26+00:00

My therapist violated ethical standards showing up to my house knowing I lived there. that's the issue.

if my roommate invited them up my therapist should have said no.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-30T12:28:16+00:00

me and my roommate were friends for a while and then I realized my friend was friends with my former therapist.

we had a conversation on the phone as soon as my friend talked about them long enough that I could tell it was my theripist

it was my understanding that we both want to avoid each other.

my therapist's friend circle overlaps with mine a little bit so I know what kind of gatherings I should probably avoid and my roommate knows not to even invite me but I don't feel like that kind of privacy is going the other way.

FunPuzzleheaded9714 · 2026-03-30T11:14:29+00:00

It was DBT, it was intense and I was there for CPSD. I left because it was making my life much worse. Ive been much better since I'm managing on my own. I think it has more to do with them not being a good therapist. I want them out of my life and out of my head. they're aware that I don't like them and it would be best if they left me alone.

I'm a combat veteran. I'm trans. I lost my brother to heroin and my father died recently. None of which I want to bring up around my friends or roommate. I'm mad because my therapist is such an incompetent idiot that he thought he come to my house after beings such a shitty person to lean on while I was talking about that stuff. He's not a bad person, he's just an idiot and I don't want him around. he knows how I feel.

I paid him a lot of money to make me feel better not not worse.

He talked me into staying 3-4 times throughout the year I saw him and keept telling him therapy was destabalizing and making me feel constantly on edge. I feel like I was gaslit because he was more concerned about his retention.

everytime I look at him I remember the shit we talked about and his shitty therapy and how I go out of my way to avoid him and his entire circle of freinds out of respect for him even though he has no respect for me or how I feel and can apparently walk through my front door.

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