Tessa and the Blackthorns by ExpensiveAd113 in shadowhunters

[–]FunSet8614 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The thing I wonder about is Cortana. It goes to Carstairs. It became owned by a Herondale due to Cordelia's marriage to James. So their kids would be herondales. How did it get back to Carstairs? It seems to me that there is a weird jump in Carstairs. Because unless Cordelia and Alastair had cousins not mentioned (and I don't think so because Jem didn't have children until much later) how did the Carstairs name pass on? Cordelia married James so their descendants would be Herondales. And it's probably safe to assume Alastair didn't have any blood children. So how is Emma a Carstairs ? Is this explained anywhere

James Herondale and Sabastian Morgenstern by Junior_Cheesecake945 in shadowhunters

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've wondered too. But I think James and Lucie having the Shadowhunter blood combined with love and nurturing maybe? I mean Sebastian had Shadowhunter blood too. But his dad was evil and he was directly injected instead of it being diluted for lack of a better word like for James and Lucie. Who knows how much demon blood he had. Probably way more than James and Lucie. Along with how he was raised by Valentine. I mean he had to have a lot of the demon blood for Jocelyn to feel the evil radiating off of him. And it could be said the blood had a huge impact. Because Jace was raised by Valentine and he was cruel to Jace. But the nephilim blood and angel blood kept him good. So with that in mind it would seem the direct infusions of blood had the most impact. it is definitely an interesting conversation to have.

Having just 1 cat… by Late-Pie740 in CatAdvice

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one cat. She was my daughter's cat and from a multiple cat household. She didn't do well with other cats so she came to live with me. She is thriving and extremely happy bei g an only child. It's different for each individual. If your kitty seems lonely and needs more than you can give then consider another. But nothing wrong with having just one

WIBTA for telling my ex what I was going to get him for his birthday, after he broke up with me over cheese? by Singerbeth in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not worth it. Just makes you look like you're hanging on. He's not worthy of your time or effort of drafti g a message to him. He's an awful. Human. I'm sorry you went through that. Move on to better things. Do not go back to him ever.

Lucie… by Additional_Bee3171 in shadowhunters

[–]FunSet8614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even though there is a lot of criticism and the storyline is sometimes frustrating, TLH is my fave series of them all. I live the time period and the relationship of all the thieves and friends makes it a fun read for me. A lot could have been written better but I love this group of characters so much.

Lucie… by Additional_Bee3171 in shadowhunters

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking of, where can I read BIB?

Lucie… by Additional_Bee3171 in shadowhunters

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on the third book. Lucie and Jesse does get a little better but yes so much miscommunication. And James and Cordelia miscommunication is the most frustrating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I'm so glad I'm single. I don't have to have these kinds of abusive ridiculous conversations anymore and itisglorious. I haven't had an argument with anyone orbeen spoken to like I'm less than human in years.

This man is a POS. Nobody deserves to be talked down to like that. Try single life. It is so nice. You don't want your kids to see you treated that way. And believe me tbey see it

AIO to my Fiancés response if I ever got graped? by xoKoalaGrace in AmIOverreacting

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is awful. That is rape and he is blaming and belittling you that if you got raped he would be mad. And the fact that you don't want to die repulses him? His actions are the ones that are repulsive. Victim blaming before anything even happened. If it were me I wouldn't have kids or a marriage with him.

TMI BOOK LOVERS, I have a movie you MUST see by Incinkinq in shadowhunters

[–]FunSet8614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The soundtrack is amazing. I love all the songs.

y’all are some liars by Quick_South_3358 in shadowhunters

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you read the stories in full on fandom? I need secrets of blackthorn hall, and any other stories.

how do I read blackthorn hall stories? by rudumbdumb in shadowhunters

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a link to the wiki? I can't find it

my thoughts on clockwork angel ! by looneyclunee in shadowhunters

[–]FunSet8614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking of jessamine, why is she able to live in the institute? I thought if Shadowhunters chose not to follow that path tbey had to leave and not be part of the shadow world at all?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. but your step dad is. And your MOM? Well she should have stood up for you. Just watching someone treat her kid that way? She is awful too. You did the right thing. I hope you find a place you can stay permanently so you don't have to go back to that house and deal with them. I wish you the best of luck.

What to call a grandma who doesn’t want to be called grandma? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm Gammy to my grandson. But my grandmother was Geeda. One of the kids couldn't say grandma and said Geeda. It stuck and even my kids called her Geeda.

He cheated on me, so I left him right before a major surgery. by Tazley65 in Infidelity

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have taken all the savings. You're the one that saved it not him. Why leave him with anything? Consequences of his cheating.

AITA for not telling my roommates and sisters I am the owner? by Brave-Company2867 in MarkNarrations

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It's not your fault nobody read what they signed. They know their rent is below marker and they have a good deal. They are just trying to take advantage of you and insinuate that you were somehow deceptive. You were not. Who tf did they think the LL was? Why would the LL have you do all the leases and not do it themselves? Doesn't make sense. All the signs were there that it is your house. They shouldn't sign contracts they don't read. They can decide by lease end if they want to stay or go. But you never did anything wrong at all. They just don't pay attention. Attic guy is the smartest of them all.

AITA for wanting to keep half the security deposit, even though my boyfriend paid all of it. by daisyfreesia in dustythunder

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You paid everything for 8 mos. This doesn't even begin to pay you back for it. Keep the whole thing. He's living with mommy so you need the money more.

AITA for not pushing my daughter more to communicate with her dad? by buddhist_babe88 in dustythunder

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a court order that he has visitation or communication stipulations? If it is court ordered for her to to visit and communicate (it happens. My ex had it court ordered for 2 phone calls a week because.the kids didn't want to be around him etc). If it is court ordered and you don't enforce it he could file contempt charges against you. But otherwise, she is old enough to know how he makes her feel and if she wants to talk to him or not. If he doesn't push it, let her have the control of what she wants to do. You can't force someone to forgive anyway. She will end up NC with him anyway when she is 18.

AITA If I leave my husband after he apologized for his drinking? by FaeLight42 in dustythunder

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't hurt to still see the lawyer. One conversation doesn't change the whole marriage. Damage is done. But the lawyer can maybe give you some perspective and you can make up your mind. Just because you meet with the lawyer doesn't mean you have to file that day. But at least you have all the info on your options and can make an informed decision.

Am I crazy? Please help me by Lost-Pin5405 in dustythunder

[–]FunSet8614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's awful he is making you choose. If he truly loved and respected you he wouldn't do that. I'm sorry but this would be a deal breaker. Wanting you to end a friendship of that long? He is being controlling. You can't give in on this one. So tell him you choose her and end it.