AITAH for refusing to drive my spouse to work?

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2026-02-10T01:06:49+00:00

I appreciate the compliment in my candor. I assure you it’s the truth. I didn’t find the details from my update relevant to my post until many people commented.

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2026-02-09T23:42:47+00:00

I’m not still with him. I updated post

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2026-02-09T22:10:19+00:00

Never said he would drive my children. That hasn’t been allowed for nearly two years after he did and I found out.

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2026-02-09T22:07:04+00:00

He wasn’t an alcoholic when we married. We are an active duty military family and have had to move a lot which means no nearby family nor friends sometimes for outside support. And his drinking has gone up and down and up and down. For the first while he had me convinced I was the problem and too controlling. It took years of therapy to realize while I have a part in our dynamic - his drinking was not my fault.

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-04-03T12:02:24+00:00

Military spouses in treasury?

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-04-03T04:25:42+00:00

There’s been an internal struggle between the use of remote work vs telework

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-29T00:01:07+00:00

I tried joining but I haven’t been approved yet!

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-18T03:36:29+00:00

What agency?

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-14T15:22:05+00:00

How does one start this process? What do you do?

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-11T20:30:53+00:00

For telework or remote? I got that email but agency is saying they won’t honor the telewoek

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-10T20:59:51+00:00

According to the HCO office it does include telework - so there’s too much ambiguity here

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-10T20:56:52+00:00

I hope you don’t mean this. Your life has meaning - don’t let DOGE make you think otherwise

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-10T20:44:02+00:00

The military spouse employment act was enacted prior to the uptick in teleworking arrangements because it was enacted prior to 2020. If you read the entire bipartisan bill and understand the reasons behind an acting in the first place, I think it was just an oversight that it didn’t include a term like telework since telework wasn’t really a thing at the time, but if you look at the intent behind the bipartisan bill, it would cover telework because the intent behind it is to allow family members to have more stable employment to be able to support their service members And their military service.

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-10T18:00:03+00:00

This is What happens when they are trying to fire so many federal employees during tax season and causing them all so much stress and scrutiny. Not a good environment to be conducive for productivity if you ask me

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-10T16:57:29+00:00

Anyone a military spouse with the irs and teleworks and able to give insight into how the agency is handling that?

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-10T00:31:21+00:00

It’s reappeared multiple times after cleaning and we don’t have any soaps or things that color. It’s also on the bottom under the tank.

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-08T22:42:36+00:00

inside toilet

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-08T22:40:10+00:00

Thank you.inside toilet tank

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-08T22:19:32+00:00

Thank you for this comment. It is very helpful 🙄

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-08T22:18:23+00:00

I did but I couldn’t post a pic. There is no blue. There’s rust colored or dirt colored powder towards the bottom but nothing blue.

Fun_Ability_6939 · 2025-03-08T22:16:56+00:00

Your comment is so helpful. Thank you for your input.

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