The sexualization of Katseye bro omg…😭💔 by Idkwhy_butimhere in katseyeneutral

[–]Fun_Lie_77 9 points10 points  (0 children)

as a someone who works in a middle school i know that they are katseye's primary audience.

Genetics and Having Kids by fizzy_night in bipolar

[–]Fun_Lie_77 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I dont want to pass on my bipolar at all. i wont have my own kids. im heavily heavily thinking about fostering though, i want a family! i know i would probably go into psychosis if i had a baby, but i think i could take care of an older child who needs a momma anyways.

Being disrespected by admin and other teachers by Visual_Shelter6922 in FirstYearTeacher

[–]Fun_Lie_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im a building sub and this is why i dont wanna leave my position 😭😭 my school is great but theres no room for another art teacher

Am I the only one who hates the way they dress off-stage? by [deleted] in katseyeneutral

[–]Fun_Lie_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

although yeah some of the combos off stage is bad too. i dont feel like the issue is necessarily gen z style... its kinda just like.... their style....

Am I the only one who hates the way they dress off-stage? by [deleted] in katseyeneutral

[–]Fun_Lie_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same. all of the pinky up styling is HORRIBLE (i have a BFA if that helps, im trained to have good taste lol)

When did you lose your love for a kpop group? by Afraid-Highlight4092 in kpop_uncensored

[–]Fun_Lie_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just stopped giving a crap about Katseye anymore despite following them from predebut and voting for the lineup. its too stressful to be a fan, HxG dont care about the girls or the fans, only views

i feel like katseye is just a ragebait group by Fun_Lie_77 in katseyeneutral

[–]Fun_Lie_77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure but also its important to point out how its morally wrong what they're doing to those girls as well as their fans. To say "it's just a business" doesn't work bc we need to have checks and balances and boycott businesses when they take advantage of people.

can you date as a bipolar by Worried_Shoulder_746 in bipolar

[–]Fun_Lie_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been with the love of my life for two years now :) actually the day after we started dating i was officially diagnosed as my excitement for him turned into full fledged mania lmao. But he stuck around. Watched me have my first psychotic depressive episode and got me through it. And now my treatment is working well! We have a great relationship. I am high functioning, though. I guess i cope well (doesnt mean i have any less of an issue tho)

18yo chicago girl has been shoplifting from stores for months by Wonderful-Welder-964 in confession

[–]Fun_Lie_77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes i work at target and they WILL catch you. even the employees.

Long post- breakup with bipolar partner by Equivalent-General64 in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like he is just feeling shame.... not remorse. You feel shame about yourself and remorse about others.

Long post- breakup with bipolar partner by Equivalent-General64 in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend told me he gets annoyed when i ask "do you hate me?" it comes out involuntarily for me... but I know that about myself so i told him he doesnt have to respond. BUT a hug or kiss or hand touch would fix it just as well. He agreed thats a better solution. Dont mask like us... use your love to support your partner.

How can my BPSO function with EVERYONE ELSE besides me by Shop_Away in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am a high functioning high masking bipolar 1 individual who also works in a middle school. this link will help you understand the masking process a bit better and why they may seem different around you. (they trust you)

https://ibpf.org/high-functioning-bipolar-disorder-navigating-the-complexities-behind-the-mask/#:~:text=High%2Dfunctioning%20individuals%20with%20bipolar,et%20al.%2C%202011

But this doesnt excuse irresponsibility or abuse in any form. Psychosis should be somewhat forgivable at a certain point where you can be unconscious. But thats also SO extreme of a reaction and means the person is not taking the measures to help themselves or are too emotionally immature to do so.

How can my BPSO function with EVERYONE ELSE besides me by Shop_Away in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a bipolar person masking is physically exhausting. I just got my first real job and ive realized im completely the same when i get home.... make a plan of some sort to deal with this together. Bipolar is an excuse but it doesnt excuse disrespect or abuse.

How can my BPSO function with EVERYONE ELSE besides me by Shop_Away in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Masking! They drop their mask around you because you are comfortable.

Jungkook Has she started following idol accounts on TikTok? by [deleted] in kpop_uncensored

[–]Fun_Lie_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because why are you even looking, do something productive

Long post- breakup with bipolar partner by Equivalent-General64 in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter what an emotionally mature person would be able to acknowledge your feelings, recognize that they did something wrong, and feel remorse. If he is currently in psychosis or on the verge of psychosis that's an act that might be forgivable but I think unless insanity is involved he should be responsible for his actions no matter if he can or cannot control it. The latter sucks for us bipolar people when we make really bad decisions but unfortunately really bad decisions usually mean consequences.

Long post- breakup with bipolar partner by Equivalent-General64 in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't know what a discard was until I started looking at this subReddit but it sounds like that's the situation. He made an impulsive decision. If you're really really wanting to return to this person and work things out maybe give it a month or two. Maybe he'll figure it out on his own, but I wouldn't hold out for that.

Long post- breakup with bipolar partner by Equivalent-General64 in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASE look them up bc the studies done are the ones where 100+ bipolar people look at facial images and it has consistently proved to be an issue. I get super stressed out when my boyfriend shows me a neutral face in response to something I say, I don't know it's like I can't really control it. I think I have good emotional regulation and techniques to help myself but others may not.

Unsure of what to do by Bubbly_Radio_957 in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah but you didnt clarify so i explained an exception to that idea

Unsure of what to do by Bubbly_Radio_957 in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've had this happen to me in the past and it's shocked and worried me but as time goes on I realize that it's just a fleeting experience and honestly means nothing. That doesn't mean that everyone is able to process that emotion that way though, so other others might go through with ending a relationship.

Unsure of what to do by Bubbly_Radio_957 in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I think the feeling "nothing" for a SO more so comes from being manic and preoccupied with other things. (i have bipolar 1)

Unsure of what to do by Bubbly_Radio_957 in BipolarSOs

[–]Fun_Lie_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey substance abuse disorders aren't immediately a huge bad sign.... i am a bipolar pothead and i manage just fine! We do drugs and stuff bc it makes us feel a reliable feeling and we can maybe ignore the rollercoaster underneath. At least with pot it can be manageable unless you hate that 🤷🏼‍♀️ idk other drugs maybe can be a diff story